If a man asks any kind of question about a woman it is completely twisted.

There was a post where women were making fun of men's penis sizes and how long men lasted. But these same women were talking about how vaginal penetration didn't get them off. So a man asked in two short sentences basically - "So if vaginal penetration doesn't do anything for you - why would size or how long a man lasted matter?" It was removed and flagged "rant". And people actually responded with, "Not all women get off on penetration! Why are you so obsessed with penetration." When the whole premise of the question was about non penetration. It's like every question about women just get twisted and spun.

We're not allowed to ask any questions, even when women start the conversation.

A woman was talking about how a man must be compensating because he simply drove a car he liked.

But we're not allowed to ask something like, "So if a woman has on a lot of makeup, yoga pants one size too small with the back center inseam so their cheeks pop, and a bra pushing their breasts up into a U - do you feel there is a slight chance they themselves may be compensating?"

It's a fair question / observation but it will get you called an "incel", misogynist, etc. And if you get close to an answer - women play victim. "Well! society makes us feel like we have to do it!" And if you ask, "But don't you feel society makes men feel that way?" It turns into being called an incel again...

It's like we're not supposed to acknowledge anything we observe. I was in the military and these women would stand by the door and sneak out when getting work assignments. One day I said to a couple of people watch this, "Then I pointed to the clock and said at 5' til Smith, Jones, and Howard are going to sneak out." and I snickered. Because it was just a really crazy environment where you just learned to laugh. Of course I got shit on for it, then 5 minutes before the hour hit and they snuck out one by one. I laughed again and said, "See." And they literally said, "Geez, ghost hates women."

Like we can't even point something out in a non judgmental way. We can't make simple observations. Like if a woman were wearing 7 inch shoes and I said, "Dang those are tall shoes to someone." That's somehow sexist and makes me an incel. It was just something that stood out. And no one reacts that way when I make observations on men.

It's like society wants to control the narrative so women can behave however they want. I just don't understand why we're not allowed to make observations when it comes to women. Or how we're not supposed to point out when we're being silenced - not because they genuinely think we're actually ranting or being sexist - but because they don't want us calling attention to the behavior. So they make up excuses to silence us.

If I see a woman skirting her duties at work and a man having to pick up the slack and I cal lthat out and then get called a woman hater. They don't really think I hate women they just want to discredit me as a woman hater or pressure me to be quiet so they can continue on with the behavior. That's what is really happening.

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And I just don't understand how something is labeled 1 way when a woman does it but not when a man does it. A woman does something crumby, a man calls her out, she randomly says "you must have a small wiener." No one sees it as bizarre that she randomly started talking about his wiener or that it had nothing to do with anything. If he mentions how it was bizarre it turns into "must have struck a nerve". but if a man randomly says a woman must have an over-sized clit that is seen as beyond strange and over the line.