Women as Users

asianfoodtofulover · 2024-01-05T22:22:43+00:00

Soothe their emotional instability

Feminist will tell you that in relationships there’s a gender imbalance of “emotional labor” and women do more of it. They’d have to have selective vision to not see that more often than not, since women express emotions more than men, by definition it would be men doing more of it.

When confronted with this, feminists usually move the goalpost and say “emotional labor can mean whatever I want it to mean”, even calling cooking and cleaning emotional labor despite neither of those things requiring any emotion.

shit-zen-giggles · 2024-01-06T00:34:26+00:00

If women want real empowerment they should try to improve themselves instead of bitching or manipulating people for resources.

to some the later IS the most feminine way to achieve empowerment.

63daddy · 2024-01-06T02:18:56+00:00

“I have plenty of projects to do and passions to keep me entertained. I will take that any day over someone trying to suck me dry and then bitch at me while I do it. “

I think you make many good points but this is a foundational belief I have that’s especially relevant. I think it especially applies to men but can apply to women as well.

I remember someone once telling me if I wanted a marriage bound relationship, I’d have to compromise things important to me. If a relationship is compromising rather than additive, then what’s the point?

I think realizing that while marriage may be additive, one can find great joys, perhaps greater joys without being married is one of the most freeing revelations one can have.

Personally, I’m not opposed to marriage, but I’m very happy I never married, in large part because marriage and divorce is biased against men. I don’t blame women however and enjoy dating women, but as with you, I have plenty of passions to occupy me, marriage often a detriment to those passions, not an aid.

SeriouslyNut · 2024-01-05T22:13:28+00:00

Good points!

As a male, I found many women are pathetic in conversations too when they find you (female maybe different) unappealing or not as appealing as one should. If you are being assertive, they might cancel you out in sime ways, shut down. Ultra-narcissists hate criticisms. But there are some who monopolize the conversation talking about themselves and never or rarely drilling down in anything the other other say too, as ultra-narcissists would.

queenAlexislexis · 2024-01-06T05:34:46+00:00

I hate when they say “hi”

Mr_rairkim · 2024-01-05T23:01:03+00:00

Sorry, but what is an MRA list ?

kit-kat315 · 2024-01-06T13:07:00+00:00

Hang on. If this person's friends are paying $2 more on their restaurant checks- it's not the friends using people as resources.

I had to laugh at the audacity of them complaing because their friends won't let them be a mooch.

Ok_Butterscotch1092 · 2024-01-06T10:40:02+00:00

you sound real fun to be around LMAO 💀

KochiraJin · 2024-01-06T01:28:59+00:00

This mentality is likely a result of the specifics of pregnancy. Any woman who wants to reproduce, which is nearly all of them, will face the prospect of a period of time where their ability to provide for themselves will be greatly hindered. This pressure favors women who are adept at converting social links into physical resources.

Altruistic-Cold-7074 · 2024-01-06T20:44:29+00:00

Women have Vaginas, that gives them the power. Soon men will stop kowtowing to them because they learn that its not worth it.

Title	Women as Users
Author	Vegetable_Ad1732
Upvotes	43
Comments	25
Date	January 5, 2024 9:59 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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