Memorable Hit Ons

LemonPoppyPancake · 2026-01-31T00:50:42+00:00

The best ones were always warm approaches. I met my husband at a friend’s birthday party. We chatted about the party, how we knew the birthday girl, and a bit about our hobbies. It was easy and fun. He asked for my number, and the next day he asked me out. That was it.

The worst one was a guy who yelled that I had a nice ass and that he wanted to fuck me. He then followed me for three blocks while I was gripping my pepper spray.

Waschaos · 2026-01-31T01:38:39+00:00

It wasn't in public or a stranger, but here it is. I was hanging out with my friends and one of them who have a fiancé in England was coming on to me. I mentioned her. His response was "My heart may be in England, but unfortunately the rest of me is here.". I give him points for honesty.

eichhoernchenlucy · 2026-01-31T16:56:13+00:00

One that was memorable was more so because of the reaction of my friend. I was walking on campus with a couple of male friends on a relatively quiet day when out of nowhere this guy approached me and without any context asked me if I wanted to go grab a coffee with him right now. I said no. Then he asked if I would grab a coffee with him later. I said no again. Then he asked me if I would give him my number so that we could set up a coffee date. I said no again and he left. I turned back to my friends and one of them was literally sitting on the floor laughing, he said that he had heard before that women get hit on a lot at our uni, but he had never witnessed it in person and the entire interaction was just so absurd and surreal. Retrospectively, I think the guy might have had some pick-up "challenge" to ask out at least X amount of women that day because it was really zero effort and super to the point.

Jonesdm5 · 2026-01-31T23:22:21+00:00

Most memorable time? When I turned him down and attempted to follow me home, I’ll never forget that. Favorite part? Never had one. Least favorite part is having to turn people down. I HATE turning people down. It’s an overall uncomfortable experience for both of us.

AutoModerator · 2026-01-30T01:54:19+00:00

Attention!

You can post off topic/jokes/puns as a comment to this Automoderator message.
For "Debate" and "Question for X" Threads: Parent comments that aren't from the target group will be removed, along with their child replies.
If you want to agree with OP instead of challenging their view or if the question is not targeted at you, post it as an answer to this comment.
OP you can choose your own flair according to these guidelines., just press Flair under your post!

Thanks for your cooperation and enjoy the discussion!

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

saraimarsena · 2026-02-02T16:18:02+00:00

i think the strangest was a guy who approached me asking if he could have my number, and if i had a boyfriend

i lied and told him im married

he was surprised , going “damn! i didn’t realize they let high schoolers get married nowadays”

first off, ik i look young but i was 25 at the time. and even still, if you think im in high school, why are you - a 30 to 40 year old man - hitting on me ??

ResponsibilityAny217 · 2026-02-05T21:12:10+00:00

I hated when this happened generally felt like a distressing experience most of the time. Most of the time I was also being hit on by old men so that made it worse.

The most memorable times are the worst times just some old AF man hitting on me 65+ senior citizen.

Or if men would touch me on me that was also the worst.

The decent part was younger men hitting on me. I still wasn’t happy about it, but it didn’t feel gross or distressing. It just felt like an interruption to my day, similar to an unskipable scene on YouTube. Something you just gotta wait out.

Obvious_Smoke3633 · 2026-01-31T23:50:30+00:00

Most memorable? I was at my local bodega paying at the counter when a 60 something year old man started talking about how good looking I am to all the other customers in the store as if I couldn't hear him. He ended up blocking the door so I couldn't leave and said "hey ma where u from?" I told him "excuse me, none of your business" because he trapped me inside of the store and wasn't letting me pass. He proceeded to call me a bunch of names and like "whore" and "stupid bitch" saying I think I'm "too good to talk to him". Not a single man out of three inside the very small store said a word. One pretended to browse the chips after he paid so that he didn't have to intervene. The man accosting me was at least 60 years old and no taller than 5'2. Maybe about 200 lbs total, 150 lbs of pure stomach, shaped like a bowling ball. My favorite part was when I called my 6 ft 215 lb body builder boyfriend and told him I needed help in the store because he was outside in the car. He opened the door and pushed the old man into a drink refrigerator and then smacked him in his face and asked him why the fuck he thinks he can trap people inside of stores? The guy just kept profusely apologizing and we left.

Title	Memorable Hit Ons
Author	footballrocks88
Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	January 30, 2026 1:54 AM UTC (6 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1qqs5lp/memorable_hit_ons/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/memorable-hit-ons.1572357 https://theredarchive.com/post/1572357

Comments