i've been lurking on this sub for a while, and i have a few questions for redpill men. i've noticed much about redpill content revolves around dating, and ive always wondered if the "manosphere" cares so much about mens rights, then why does it only pertain to like your ability to get laid or not? i read a comment once saying that if men really did care about other men and the issues they face in society, it would be able to provide more solutions to bolster men up. instead it seems like the movement is built around sex, or the lack of. isnt there more to life/society than getting laid? so with that being said, i want my questions for the redpill community to not be about the harm women are doing to men or vice versa, i am interested in your relationships outside of the sexual ones, the issues you face that do not pertain to dating and your life outside of the redpill community. i also think my generation faces a loneliness epidemic that previous generations didnt have to deal with, and that's something not really related to our romantic relationships (im 27). i recently read bell hooks "the will to change" and it made me take a different look at the patriarchy. ive also watched the show adolescence, didnt like it. but the book "men who hate women" by laura bates i also am recommending just because it gave me some helpful insights as well... anyways on to my actual questions for yall.

who are some male role models you looked up to as a child? either people you knew personally, fictional characters, actors, athletes... whatever who are some people you admire. what is it about these people that left an impact on you? do you still admire these people?

are there any young men or boys in your life that you strive to be a role model for?

does any of your "activism" involve people you know irl? any friends you have made along the way?

and lastly, what are your hobbies! how do you find fulfillment in your day to day life?

and just for the sake of transparency on my part, im not asking any of these questions as a gotcha moment. there are many men in my life i care deeply about. im trying to do better about listening to them when they say they are hurting.