Will guys eventually have to take infidelity as a matter of course in a relationship?

Mrs_Drgree · 2020-04-23T12:18:17+00:00

No circle jerking

Terror-Error · 2020-04-23T10:35:56+00:00

Men should not marry. There's no point in playing that game of Russian roulette.

TechnicalMight0 · 2020-04-23T09:59:50+00:00

That, or men should up their standards when choosing a girlfriend. Though of course a segment of men doesn't get to have standards (I'd say about one third to half of all men), so for them the choice will be between their right hands/hookers or being in a relationship where they get cheated on. I guess if they know they're getting cheated on and can't get a better woman they could go see hookers guilt-free and be learn to live with that.

DangZagnut · 2020-04-23T10:54:51+00:00

All women cheat, that’s why you never marry them.

Also, who cares if they cheat? If you’re marrying a woman, you’re pretty much stating you’re retarded in this day and age.

Keep it fun and casual, and if she even accidentally uses a wrong word in a conversation that sounds like any form of commitment, dump her ass to the curb where you found her. Women who ask for commitment always cheat.

Speaker7 · 2020-04-23T10:18:40+00:00

Men probably shouldn't marry, period. But if you do, you kind of have to take it all in stride and understand that the house of cards could come crashing down at any time, for any reason really. Cheating is just one of them, even if it's on the rise in women due them having greater sexual access than ever before.

ItchyHealth · 2020-04-23T10:38:29+00:00

No hymen no diamond

nevomintoarce · 2020-04-23T11:00:48+00:00

Fun fact: men still cheat more.

whispering_pilot · 2020-04-23T09:41:44+00:00

It should be expected.

Any men who is observant and had enough relationships should already know women cant be trusted in this regard.

Just live your life, if they decide to jump off train you cant do anything about it, so why even bother?

here is what to do:

Dont jump into LTR with every girl that gives you attention.

DONT THINK YOUR LITTLE ANGEL IS SPECIAL.

2020-04-23T11:49:05+00:00

I'd say it's already pretty commonly accepted already. Even outside of the red pill mindsets, "it's just your turn" is said very frequently these days and with good reason. This outdated view that infidelity is primarily a male thing perpetrated against women is ridiculous. Women have become immensely more untrustworthy and incapable of commitment in the past few decades. The irony being that their own actions have put a serious hamper on the ability of men to commit too. Hence why the marriage rates are dropping so much.

Regardless of whether I see this irony or not though...No, a man should absolutely not marry considering such circumstances. It'd be an absolute disrespect to yourself to do so and you'd have nobody to blame but yourself when things inevitably fall apart.

robot3000_01 · 2020-04-23T12:02:17+00:00

Yep. It's a given. There's no way they can't not cheat, unlimited options, it's impossible for them not too.

Also women rack up their cocks in a serial monogamous fashion, still passively cheating and testing the waters during the relationship, so it's all exploiting a grey zone and socially acceptable.

Unless you want to get played, the only way to level the field is to enforce polygamy.

Even for betas, you're still at a losing position, so don't really have a choice but to try and cheat and have some backup options to diversify your risk. It's a lost battle from the start as a bottom 80% male

DareyFathom · 2020-04-23T09:56:13+00:00

What percentage of people do you really think are cheating?

Gravel_Roads · 2020-04-23T10:44:49+00:00

Men will cheat with an equal amount of enthusiasm. It's just a people-thing. The best way to avoid it for either gender is to have more to your relationship than using eachother's genitals to get off. Genitals are a relationship feature that is interchangeable.

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wazzoz99 · 2020-04-23T10:06:34+00:00

Older men gen x/boomer are far more likely to cheat, but Ive noticed than among my friends groups and colleagues, relationships tend to end when the female partner cheats. I know Im biased, but it feels like theres a generational change when it comes to whose doing more of the cheating. I would be interested in a study of relationship break downs and infidelity for those under 35.

DaphneDK42 · 2020-04-23T11:42:21+00:00

No. Where on earth do you guys get these strange notions from? Infidelity, cuck fetish, bastard kids, open marriages, polyamory, etc. - are not the norm. It never was the norm, and it isn't the norm today, and it won't be the norm tomorrow. You get your notions of how reality is from click bait articles, or rage bait anonymous posts on reddit. Most people are not like that, and its not how the world works. Its a kind of apex fallacy. You see what a very small, very noticeable, minority does, and apply it to the whole population.

If your wife is a cheating whore you kick her he fuck out of your life and never talk to her again.

MerryVegetableGarden · 2020-04-23T10:10:55+00:00

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whispering_pilot · 2020-04-23T10:16:15+00:00

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Title	Will guys eventually have to take infidelity as a matter of course in a relationship?
Author	MerryVegetableGarden
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Comments	61
Date	April 23, 2020 9:38 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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