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The good old double standard?

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May 23, 2020

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Title	The good old double standard?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	7580
Comments	133
Date	May 23, 2020 1:59 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PussyPassDenied
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/pussypassdenied/comments/gowmnn/the_good_old_double_standard/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PussyPassDenied/the-good-old-double-standard.1198048 https://theredarchive.com/post/1198048

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I grew up with two sisters. My father thought that males would need to support their families later in life so he was much tougher on me than the girls. At eleven, I had a morning paper route, at 14, I worked in tobacco fields, at 16, I had summer jobs in a local factory, bakery and frozen food warehouse. During high school, he would wake me up at 3AM, so I could help him unload trailer trucks before school for $20 each. My sisters did nothing. I worked hard for 40 years and retired with a small pension and three rental apartments. My sisters worked on and off during the years, both married and divorced. They constantly complained about how much more I had than they did, regardless of the fact that, unlike them, I always worked, saved and invested. One of them bitches about the unfairness of it all to this day!

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It’s not even uncontrolled studies, it’s a total misuse of data.

The gap is calculated by adding all men’s salaries together vs women’s. There are an incredible amount of variables which create this invisible gap such as women working less hours than men, working in lower paid professions than men (such as nurses, high percentage of nurses are typically female and it’s not a massively high paying job) including where men work in dangerous fields which pay considerably high due to the risks, women are more likely to work part-time than men too - obviously contributing to the less hours worked variable....

It’s a myth which takes 5 minutes to understand why there is no gap. People who believe it either aren’t looking at the right data, or they are and they’re just choosing to block off that critical thought because it’d crush them to admit it’s a whole load of horse shit.

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You know what pisses me off way more ? So called rape culture. Feminists have for decades influenced statistics and laws in a way that women cannot be rapists and men cannot be the victim of rape simply by the way these statistics and laws define things. If you look at the actual statistics of sexual violence and include things like being forced to penetrate someone under rape, about 45% (numbers vary from year to year) of the rapists are women, and the victims are about half and half. Similar things are true for domestic violence.

To put insult to injury of the over 2000 shelters for the victims of domestic violence (most of which are at least in a good part paid for by taxes) not a single one gives men a shelter place, and only very few would give ambulant help. It is as if men are just disposable and do not deserve help, despite paying for it with their taxes.

Also fun fact, feminism always says it is about fairness and equality. Then why are laws that are supposed to help with men´s issues (recent example a law against paternity fraud, that would have stopped men from still having to pay child support when a paternity test shows they are not the biological father) regularly stopped by feminist lobbies ?

[–]ajwubbin 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Men are disposable, that what I’ve had to come to understand biologically. If half the men in a society die, the remaining half can impregnate every woman and the population will bounce back pretty much immediately. If half the women die, it will take you decades if not centuries to recover. It’s the same reason women can sit back and choose their mates while men have to be on the attack. As men, we are inherently fucked over by biology. And yknow what, that’s fine. There’s nothing any of us can do about that. The only thing we can do is fight for awareness in hopes that women will understand some part of the male experience and open shelters and paternity rights and such, because there’s no way we’re going to be able to get that stuff on our own.

I know that sounded like some really cucked blackpill shit but honestly I don’t care. I’m happy with myself as a person even if I was born into a body and sexual paradigm that makes me disposable.

W h a t e v e r M a n

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Lemme give you a little bouquet of sources, so you have a range of choices sometimes it is better to have an article, sometimes it is better to have a study, and since it is a wide field I give you a bit of everything :

Let us start with a few studies on sexual violence against men :

https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2019-39470-001

https://wp.lancs.ac.uk/forced-to-penetrate-cases/files/2016/11/Project-Report-Final.pdf

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1097184x08322632

a bit on women as sexual predators :

https://webshare.law.ucla.edu/Faculty/bibs/stemple/Stemple-SexualVictimizationPerpetratedFinal.pdf

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/sexual-victimization-by-women-is-more-common-than-previously-known/

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/14533025/

A bit on how this rape culture myth was created, and what the reality really looks like :

http://boysmeneducation.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/Koss-1993-Detecting-the-Scope-of-Rape-a-review-of-prevalence-research-methods-see-p.-206-last-paragraph.pdf

https://time.com/3393442/cdc-rape-numbers/

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4062022/#!po=0.877193

https://recalculatingthegenderwar.tumblr.com/post/162336650896/new-cdc-data-again-finds-as-many-if-not-more

https://slate.com/human-interest/2014/04/male-rape-in-america-a-new-study-reveals-that-men-are-sexually-assaulted-almost-as-often-as-women.html

https://law.jrank.org/pages/1222/Feminism-Legal-Aspects-second-wave-critique-rape-law.html

One of the leading feminists (mary koss) involved in the development of the definitions of rape used for CDC statistics, and who was also involved in formulating rape laws in ways that only men can be rapists, has some very sick views. She believes men cannot be raped. She calles it unwanted sexual contact and she was very successful in convincing academics and even lawmakers to adopt this definition. While technically it is gender neutral, due to the anatomical differences between men and women, it mainly applied to men. Her rationale was that men must "want it" or are "asking for it" so it doesn't count. Imagine a man saying a women getting raped must "want it" or "is asking for it" so it does not count.

Radical feminists like her giving advice to lawmakers leads to BS laws like this (you can only rape if you have a penis) :

http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2003/42/section/1

A look at the law&order angle :

http://www.ncdsv.org/images/fc_sex-basedsentencingdiscrepanciesbetweenmaleandfemalesexoffenders_2012.pdf

Oh and to put insult to injury, it is pretty common that male rape victims pay their rapist child support :

https://eu.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2014/09/02/statutory-rape-victim-child-support/14953965/

https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/talking-about-trauma/201902/when-male-rape-victims-are-accountable-child-support

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The good old double standard?

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