Hi guys I would love to hear your opinion.

I broke up with my boyfriend of 9 months 2 days ago. In the last few weeks he treated me not that well, was distant and didn't have much time. So the last day I opened my Laptop went on Facebook and realized after 2' that I'm in the account of my bf and a chat just popped up him saying to a girl "Can I have your number". My first thought was this can't be true. So I saw all the other chats. I couldn't even count how many girls he was approaching since we were together. He asks them "when can we meet and can I have your number". It's not only one girl it's around 50. I was so under shock that I straight texted him that he forgot to logout and that I don't want to hear anything from him from now on and that it's over. I did it per text, cause he lives 1.5 hours from me and I was shaking and crying - I needed to get it off my chest. He tried to call me, he texted me a huge message that he loves me, that he has lost the most trustworthy and valuable girl he's ever had and that he's angry at himself that he always seems to miss someone when they're gone and that I'm his second piece and all these cheesy stuff. I responded that I don't need anyone that has the urge to text girls and ask them for their number and all. His answer was "I didnt do anything wrong we can look at every chat together I'll explain it, its "self-development" (he's a RedPill guy by the way).

I'm heart broken right now, everyone tells me to really just move on. I don't want to know what he did behind my back next to texting... What should I respond? Should I not respond at all? What do you RPW think about this..

  • by the way we are young (both 20) and we get on mostly very well, we always trusted each other, we both had a life beside of our relationship and he has got lots of Alpha traits but also Beta traits.