Edit: thank you for the advice, he reached back out yesterday. The same thing happened to him with the message glitch.

If you look at my profile, I posted about this man a couple weeks ago. I haven’t seen him in a month and we live 15 mins away from each other.

I formed a bad habit of letting men initiate everything, out of fear of being ghosted. He’d always check on me for the past 6 months. I slept with him once (7 months in..met in summer, seeing each other almost everyday), and I feel like everything went south. He’s actually the one who’d come off as nervous that I wouldn’t see him again. Would tell me “don’t be a stranger” and tell me that he hopes to see he again. I checked on him two weeks ago for the first time and he texted me back fast, as he always does, but didn’t ask to see me (just asked about my whereabouts). I know I could’ve told him that I wanted to see him but I was nervous. He was also typing and stopped.

Last week, he checked on me again and announced that he’s flying back home. He asked where I am and told me the time he’s landing. For the first time, I told him let’s do something this week. Absolutely no response till this day and it’s been a week. It’s not normal of him. Despite having the busiest schedule (well known architect and runs several companies) he made time for me.

Although my iMessage has been acting weird and switching my numbers (I have several phones with different SIM cards). A lot of people wouldn’t reply to my texts, those who did asked “who’s this” and told me that another number texted them..which is mine.

I figured that the same thing happened to him, so I called him directly today from the landline saved on his phone. No answer or text. I’m just so broken and need words of support because I’m here alone in a city with no friends or family. Im on the verge of wanting to go back home to my family. I trusted this man with my feelings and my body