At this point I’m so disappointed I’m thinking of getting my tubes tied. It doesn’t usually get that far anyway, but that’s likely a big part of the problem.

Was talking with a guy long distance a few years. Great social status but interpersonally lower-tier. Still liked him because he was intelligent, just not good with women. Attractive but couldn’t really hold down an older/mature women and younger women seem to lose interest in him. I am sapiosexual to some extent and the guy is 20+ IQ points above me so I kept interested. However, despite me being completely open and transparent…and almost mothering about how much he messes up…despite drawing boundaries, ignoring him for MONTHS so that he gets it through his head he cannot treat me a certain way or with disrespect…he still continues to do it. Y’all he literally said ‘I am gonna come there and try to marry you’ and then gets cold feet two days before the flight and disappears the entire holiday…reappearing later with ‘oh I am having trouble looking for the flight’

AT THIS POINT IT IS A FUCKING ACT OF GOD IF HE STILL CANT GET A FLIGHT BECAUSE OF CORONAVIRUS

I am lulewarm about the guy because he is Very Bad with his phone and his social status (top 2%) …I believe makes him only like me because I have said ‘No’ so many times.

He is a Sensor type, and I am into the MBTI categorizing thing. He is ESTJ which seems to be a pretty bad match unless you have things to talk about, however we Do have things we both like. Similar diets, both really courteous to others in transient situations.

I am ENXP and our Socionics for him as Benefactor fits well.

I have tried to be completely transparent with him about Red Pill and he has tried to be Vulnerable with me which may sometimes backfire.

I think that deep down I just really don’t want him because he is so bad with his phone. I always answer calls and messages promptly because my family is that way and it helps me feel Secure. He does not do this. He rarely answers my call and half of the time it is Very likely to be poor signal due to in being an International Call. However, I can’t help how it makes me Feel to not have an Acceptable flow of communication. I can’t marry or even be engaged on those grounds.

I am just sick of trying. I hardly want kids but I want someone to be with and share good times with and I am READY.

I have decided to ban all past men from my life and move forward focusing on business. I don’t want to date anymore, at all.