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How do you 'warm up' your SO?

meganstoocute
April 1, 2015
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Title How do you 'warm up' your SO?
Author

meganstoocute
Upvotes 2
Comments 22
Date April 1, 2015 6:19 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/3137so/how_do_you_warm_up_your_so/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWomen/how-do-you-warm-up-your-so.166170
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Comments

[–]FleetingWishEndorsed Contributor10 points11 points12 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Recipe for a warm SO

Step 1: Apply blankets

Step 2: Apply pillows

Step 3: Lay on top of SO-blanket-pillow mound

[–]PsychoticMouse 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Step 3 is always the most fun!!

[–]windlabyrinth0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When I'm feeling like a little something extra I like to put a flame to the pilot light and fire up that gas heater.

[–]TheTerrorSquadEndorsed Contributor8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I do as I'm told.

[–]HannahFree2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I go to the bathroom, get naked, and then come into the bedroom and start tidying up, or, if I know he noticed right away, I'll run and jump under the covers. Haha, he has to see what's under there! Mine doesn't really initiate either, but I know if I ask he will feel bad for saying no. Obvious subtlety is key.

Oh one more thing, get the damn TV out of the bedroom if you want better/more frequent sex.

[–]meganstoocute[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good idea! We both have tvs in our room, but we rarely watch TV together. Movies every once in a while, but we did watch the Justin Bieber Roast, it was hilarious!

[–]PsychoticMouse 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Bonus points for no TV in the bedroom.

There are 2 things the bedroom is good for and one of them has to be sex.

[–]Kittenkajira4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

My man just can't resist a wiggling, naked butt. I'll do it sometimes after we get in bed for the night. Get on all fours with my bum facing him, and wigglewigglewiggle. I've done it in the kitchen while doing dishes. I just bend over some and start wiggling. /giggles

[–]meganstoocute[S] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I love this. I've been known to dabble in butt wiggling.

[–]lucythelumberjack1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Butt wiggling is the best :) My boyfriend is definitely an "ass man", so he definitely enjoys it.

[–]aZombieKitten 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Blowjobs. Nothing else really gets my SO in the mood if I want to initiate. Doesn't work all the time, but he still enjoys them even if it's not to completion and we don't end up having sex. A spontaneous BJ is always fun. :)

[–]meganstoocute[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good idea!

[–]PsychoticMouse 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Well, men like to initiate. With that being said, men also like it when we initiate. When my man comes home from work he is given a few minutes to relax. I make him some food and he picks a tv show or plays some video games.....then I pounce on him.

This can include risque flirting, literally pouncing on him and sitting on his lap, kissing, roaming hands...you get the deal. Just roll with it. ;-)

[–]meganstoocute[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

I've been with my SO for almost a year and he doesn't initiate. I don't want to feel like I'm begging for sex, that's awful.

[–]PsychoticMouse 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Maybe this should be the main point of the thread. Put a little more background into your post and be sure to answer the questions in the sidebar! If he isnt initiating without a medical or emotional reason its obviously due to a dwindling lack of interest or something far worse!

[–]meganstoocute[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I didn't want to put a lot of personal info on here, but he has low libido. He's a very healthy 24 yo, I think that if he worked out it would up his testosterone. There are no emotional or physical issues, he is just uninterested in sex. He said he doesn't need it, the only reason he would need to do it would be for the emotional connection. (We have fantastic sex, best I've ever had and it makes me feel an emotional connection I've never felt with anyone, and I know he feels the same.)

[–]PsychoticMouse 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Has he always been uninterested in sex? Have either of yall gained weight recently or made a sudden change in schedule/stressful life events?

[–]meganstoocute[S] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

We waited about a month to have sex, then for a couple months we fucked every chance we got. But after the initial new phase, he wouldn't mind if we never had sex. And no, he's not getting it elsewhere. I look the same as when we started dating, and actually not far off from when he first crushed on me when I was 16 (I'm 23 now). And he is gorgeous as ever, ripped with nice arms. He's one of those men who can eat garbage all day and still be skinny-ripped.

[–]PsychoticMouse -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

So it started off right, then was hot, heavy, and frequent. Then one day he was ok with it not happened anymore and you think that he isnt getting some from anywhere else. Alright.

People dont just naturally maintain a body frame. Garbage or clean foods, it is all about calories in / calories out. It is good to know he is maintaining a good physical appearance, though!

Have you chaged at all during his transition? Be it physically, emotionally, or mentally? A sudden drop in libido from "every chance we got" to being ok with never just seems really off.

[–]meganstoocute[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

For the record, I am horny all the time and have never refused sex with him. I think it was new and exciting and that's why he enjoyed it. We actually talked about it a couple weeks ago, he said "I think there's something wrong with me. I could go without."

And I haven't changed since we met, I weigh and look the same. My hair is longer. And I work a desk job now, I was a server when we started dating, working at a bar. He much prefers my current job.

[–]PsychoticMouse -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So somehow in 1 year the only thing that changed is his libido. If this is the case we can not help you. The man needs to see a doctor immediately to rule out anything serious or life threatening.

[–]HaveFun___0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I would (re)read the test/sex chapters in the 4 hour body, and learn how to make steak a la the 4 hour chef.

tl;dr, brazil nuts, upping cholesterol intake (think eggs or red meat) 60-90 mins before increases test & sex drive.

You can find both books for free by searching on libgen.org.

"Sexy time steak and Pine Pollen Cocktail" in the 4-hour chef, and "Sex Machine I" and "Sex Machine II" in the 4-hour body are the chapter names!

Also, bonus chapter (in chef): MLBJ (Meat Loaf & Blow Job).

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