I date multiple suitors simultaneously

VasiliyZaitzev · 2026-05-24T15:10:56+00:00

This seems like an odd quote. Men are already graded on a brutal curve called the SMP. The problem with your logic is that it assumes either you’re the only game in town, or you are sufficiently high value that men are willing to compete for you in this manner. I think most men would find it exhausting and they would toddle off to find another, less-complicated woman. But hey, everyone gets to approach dating how they want. Good luck.

Nerdslayer2 · 2026-05-24T15:44:09+00:00

Any man with options is simply going to disengage. What could possibly make you so much more valuable than every other woman that they would put up with this rather than just date someone else? All you are doing is guaranteeing that the men you date are very desperate men that have no other prospects. Only a spineless, desperate man is going to tolerate this.

_Pumpkin_Muffin · 2026-05-24T17:28:35+00:00

Do you like your men without a spine in the first place, or do you like to watch them lose it in the process?

Jenneapolis · 2026-05-24T14:58:24+00:00

Are you looking for a long term committed relationship?

CountTheBees · 2026-05-25T06:11:33+00:00

Why do you write the post and comments in double quotes? Who are you quoting?

Key_Hunter4064 · 2026-05-24T23:05:46+00:00

That's a great way to end up with spineless Betas. Having multiple options doesn't translate to "Quality" options.

Wife_and_Mama · 2026-05-26T13:43:21+00:00

You've already posted this. It was the stupid approach of an eternally single woman then, too. It got deleted for a reason.

Vast-Society4093 · 2026-05-24T17:52:11+00:00

I don’t think men who actually handle „real high pressure procurement „ would lower themselves for this kind dating game show . They get paid really well to handle difficult things and are really busy , you never catch them easily. I met a lot of these species through my work and women and dating is not what what they would consider „ high pressure „ 😅

MoreThanPurple · 2026-05-25T01:39:01+00:00

OP please engage with your post or will be locked.

nightcall379 · 2026-05-25T22:03:33+00:00

"The Cuck Games" Lmao

The only thing you're going to find out that way, is who the biggest cuck is

And the guy wins that contest, will be the guy you're disgusted by the most

markarli · 2026-05-27T15:13:35+00:00

You are only posting/replying in quotes so I am not sure if this is rage bait or simply a bot.

Anyway, I am confused at the end goal here. Is it to choose the final contestant in this dating reality show and “reward” him with exclusivity/relationship or is it perpetual dating like some never ending hunger games but in romance?

I mean - good luck? 👍

Mediocre_Island_4952 · 2026-05-27T09:25:05+00:00

Why would a man, who values his time, would want to participate in something like this.

InevitableKiwi5776 · 2026-05-27T13:11:37+00:00

I don’t think I’d be happy with a man who would put up with this kind of disrespectful behavior.

Opening_Patience_854 · 2026-05-24T14:41:52+00:00

Du Datest Männer, die du nicht Attraktiv findest. Keine Frau, die den Mann datet, von dem sie träumt/ geträumt hat, wird andere nebenbei daten. Abgesehen davon, weiß ich nicht, warum man überhaupt leisten erbringen müsste? Frauen, die das anbieten was du bestenfalls anbieten könntest, gibt es wie Sand am Meer. Der Einzige grund dafür ist die Verzweiflung und die Bedürftigkeit.

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Full text: "I date multiple suitors simultaneously and force them to compete under intense pressure just to maintain baseline access. By keeping the pipeline wide open, I ensure no individual man feels secure enough to slack off. They are constantly forced to maximize their utility, investment, and effort because they know they are being actively graded against a brutal curve. If a man can’t handle a high-pressure procurement process, he doesn't belong in my orbit."

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Altruistic_Love_5525 · 2026-05-25T07:52:26+00:00

I find power in the fact that women are the ultimate choosers. We are the gatekeepers of access, and it’s vital for every woman to own that influence and feel truly empowered by it.

Title	I date multiple suitors simultaneously
Author	Altruistic_Love_5525
Upvotes	0
Comments	27
Date	May 24, 2026 2:25 PM UTC (2 months ago)
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