The Difference between TRP and RPW

2013-10-07T17:13:17+00:00

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TehGinjaNinja · 2013-08-29T14:43:16+00:00

That, and there is an ongoing debate with in TRP if serious commitment (e.g. marriage and fatherhood) is worth while, feasible, or even safe for men in modern society.

As far as I know RPW doesn't seem to be having a corresponding debate about sex, at least not with in the context of relationships.

TempestTcup · 2013-08-29T18:28:20+00:00

trp and rpw use the same set of knowledge about the sexes to negotiate different and sometimes even somewhat mutually incompatible goals. the negotiation process usually leads to each party compromising on the other sexes prime directive to obtain a satisfactory portion of their own, i.e. a woman giving in on sex to obtain a portion of commitment thats satisfactory to her or a man giving up liberty or resources to obtain a satisfactory portion of sex or other attributes of a relationship he desires from a specific woman because he finds letting that specific one go more unappealing than looking for sex in another, even if he has options.

FleetingWish · 2013-08-29T18:11:31+00:00

I really like how my SO put it to me the other day. It was something to the gist of, "If the foundation of TRP is that men and women are fundamentally different, you can't expect TRP and RPW to be the same. Men and women have different wants, different needs, and different expectations; the differences in TRP and RPW reflect that."

crankypants15 · 2013-08-30T11:08:10+00:00

Just an small clarification. Some men are scared of marriage for emotional reasons, some don't want marriage due to horrendous divorce laws. I wouldn't just say "men squander commitment." There's a reason they don't want commitment, whether they understand what's going on in their minds, and tell you, or not.

Divorce laws these days simply make it too expensive to get married.

RaxL · 2013-09-04T23:47:47+00:00

Umm... what is "squandering commitment"?

2013-09-06T00:27:50+00:00

Can we say that the RedPill is essentially accepting and committing to living in a world with uncomfortable truths?

mcdehuevo · 2013-10-15T13:41:01+00:00

"women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment"

That is about as perfect a nutshell summation of the evolutionary difference between men and women as I've ever seen. Kudos!

cloudydaez · 2013-11-03T20:45:19+00:00

To anyone who has a hard a time with reading the red pill websites, I recommend this RPW-centered blog. It is VERY old fashioned, but if you keep reading, you might see its virtue.

(http://wwnh.wordpress.com)

SoftHarem · 2013-08-29T16:27:04+00:00

Succinct and on point, as usual. Stuck.

charbo187 · 2013-09-18T05:55:17+00:00

wow. elegantly put.

TempestTcup · 2013-08-29T14:36:17+00:00

excellent!

LoxStocksAndBagels · 2013-12-17T10:19:41+00:00

So very true. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. She never wanted to have sex anymore. I'm not a red piller persay but I sure as hell am not stupid. I know her well, and damn well knew her sex drive didnt just vanish. Nope it was just being fulfilled somewhere else. It's funny because I know for a fact that ultimately while she made some questionable choices...I was the nexus of our relationships failure.

A combination of baggage from a previous girl as well as my own infidelity sort of rotted the damn foundation way to early. I'm certain however if I would have just fucking manned up and stopped my pathetic descent into a whiney useless shadow of who I was when she met me things could have turned out differently.

I'm so conflicted right now. I'm a bit sad but know its for the best. How could I expect a woman to respect me when I wasn't respecting myself? Ah well, every fuck up is simply a lesson for the future if you don't get bogged down in the bullcrap.

real-dreamer · 2013-08-31T03:43:00+00:00

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2013-09-17T03:18:35+00:00

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TempestTcup · 2014-01-30T08:17:17+00:00

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2013-08-30T09:27:44+00:00

Very well said

Spidertech500 · 2013-09-09T15:18:46+00:00

RP'r here, great analogy, +1, if I may ask, just linked here, Why is it that sex is over protected, I would assume such a habit would carry into marriage. I can explain the trp side if asked for the opposite perspective

Title	The Difference between TRP and RPW
Author	TempestTcup
Upvotes	195
Comments	102
Date	August 29, 2013 2:14 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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