Vent about only fans

fadedblackleggings · 2026-08-12T17:58:55+00:00

Errm, you also now work in the sex industry......do they offer you a 401 (k), etc? Because I recommend getting a real job ASAP if this is not aligned with your values.

DarceysExtensions · 2026-08-12T15:32:10+00:00

A lot of the “wealth” is not real.

It’s the “fake it till you make it” mindset. Social media is full of it. Do not believe everything you see.

If people think that you earn enough with OF to buy a mansion, they think that your OF channel must be really good, so they are more likely to subscribe.

People who sell MLM do the same: women who post that they are so successful that their husband can soon retire from his regular job and if you too want to be rich and successful, you better join their downline.

The average OF creator makes less than $500 per month. The top 1% makes a lot, but that is true in any industry. 99% of creators do not make a fortune.

chamomilecloud · 2026-08-12T15:15:52+00:00

Most women on Only Fans or doing other amateur porn are not making money like that. They are averaging $200 per month, which is the cost of maybe 1-2 nights out, but it's certainly not mansion-at-20-years-old money.

This is not even just about Only Fans. Normal YouTube and Instagram content creators play the game of luck and some of them make it big.

Almost no one will have that level of wealth. Dwelling on this is going to give you FOMO for the rest of your life.

Jenneapolis · 2026-08-12T16:59:01+00:00

This is going to home off harsh but I am going to say it anyway. You are also making a living off of this industry by having this job. Maybe you aren't making mansion money but you are contributing to the industry by keeping it running. Someone could say the same thing about you you are saying about them.

I fully understand being young trying to get started in a career and taking what comes your way for experience but also it will not add positivity to your life to do something you are fundamentally against.

InevitableKiwi5776 · 2026-08-12T15:46:24+00:00

And you’re now making your living off of these people you despise? You are not really in a morally superior position here. You are now participating in the sex work industry, is that what you want on your resume and to build your career on?

srqfla · 2026-08-12T18:00:20+00:00

Only 2% of Americans have liquid assets of $1 million or more. This includes stock cash, crypto, excluding real estate. Most of these girls will never see this level of wealth

VasiliyZaitzev · 2026-08-12T18:27:19+00:00

So I know an OF creator. When she was 19, she came to me for some advice - I didn’t know her before that, she was referred to me. She’d been doing OF for a year. Had she come to me before she started? I of course, would’ve told her not to do it. But the cat was out of the bag. So I set her up with a tax guy, an investment guy, an LLC. I didn’t charge her anything because she was just a kid. Anyway, she does send me nudes every so often mostly as a “A/B” test - evidently her demographic is guys over 50 so I suppose I’m good for market research. Plus, it’s a bit of a “thank you” for, as she said, “being cool about everything.”

I suppose the only good news for her is that she became very successful. She joined up at the right time during the pandemic when OF exploded, she’s gorgeous, and she’s willing to have sex on camera. She probably makes more money than I do now.

On the other hand, whatever she was going to do instead is over because everyone knows who she is or quickly finds out. So there goes that “veterinarian dream” or whatever it was. Her relationship with her parents is, to say the least, strained. Not only because of her chosen line of work, but that she involved her younger sister at the beginning – her sister did a lot of the original photography when she was starting out and of course, had to be sworn to secrecy WRT their parents. Nobody has been banned from Thanksgiving, but let’s just say things aren’t great on that front. Oh, and anybody with $15 a month or whenever she charges can see her butt hole.

Her romantic relationships can be problematic as well. Guys who are OK with that sort of stuff aren’t typically HVM. The guy she was dating at the time she started was OK with it at first, but eventually he dropped out of the picture. Also, someday she’s probably gonna have kids – I know she wants them from our conversation – and those kids are gonna have to go to school. Somebody’s gonna find out, and someone’s gonna have pictures of mommy naked. It’s not going to go well.

GlassApprehensive620 · 2026-08-13T00:35:24+00:00

Anyone who brags about having a lot of money is shallow as fuck and probably really does not have a lot of money..

CountTheBees · 2026-08-13T01:54:03+00:00

you either choose to be a moralistic and virtuous person because you believe it’s valuable and worth being for a greater cause…or you don’t and you live a selfish, hedonistic lifestyle

Errr. Well, yes. But most people live somewhere in between. By that logic someone who bakes cakes is contributing to obesity and early death. Every day we make thousands of little moral choices. Worry about your own moral choices, not others'. I have tried to be virtuous my whole life and failed utterly -- I don't know if you can relate.

life is just totally unfair and there’s no rhyme or reason to it

If you see money as the ultimate reward - maybe, but not really. There are also things in this life worth more than money. Many people who come into money lose it after a few years. If you are religious, any rewards in this life don't count towards your reward in heaven and can even hurt it.

More practically - sex workers are directly hurting their ability to see men as safe and trustworthy protectors, husbands, and leaders. They are also damaging the way men see them and their RMV, lowering the quality of man they can marry. They are also wasting their best, most attractive and fertile years on OF. It is not a great life strategy if they want a stable home and children.

Horror-Word666 · 2026-08-12T18:47:41+00:00

This girl I used to hangout with over a decade ago does OF. I found out because i stumbled on one of the gone wild subs and she was on the front page riding a toy 😂 Anyways I creeped her profile and she had 500k twitter followers, but all of her videos seemed like it’s still being filmed at her parents’ house. I don’t think having that much followers actually convert to cash because there’s a lot of them just want free stuff. btw we’re mid 30s and she’s started making shitty porn with men too. Doubt anything good comes from this line of work, tbh men that are husband material won’t marry her, just some degenerates lol

BumpinBellys · 2026-08-12T15:27:11+00:00

Not sure your religious beliefs, but in the Bible it mentions how it's easier for a camel to fit through the eye of a needle than a wealthy person to get into heaven.

Not to say there aren't very moral wealthy people. There absolutely are, but they generally save their money for their grand children, great grand children instead of blowing it al showing off to strangers online.

What they have in material wealth you may have in wealth of wisdom. One is invaluable the other is short lived.

PlatypusOld5480 · 2026-08-12T18:02:13+00:00

It is hard to see other people have a lot for what seems like little effort. But this group of people has their own set of deep-seated problems too, which you hopefully will never have to deal with.

I know a few women in the sex worker industry. Some of their biggest problems they run into are having to go further each time to keep the same audience, because the male audience is partly driven by pushing the envelope with sexual extremes. The audience will quickly jump from paying one woman to paying another. The women have recognition problems in public, stalkers, addiction problems, STDs, and issues maintaining relationships because men often think the worst of them.

Depending upon what they are willing to do on camera it can take a toll on how they really feel about themselves. The money is a blessing. But the devil gives and the devil takes away. One of them tries to disassociate her body from her feelings. She is very messed up and tried to end her life twice. She also now completely hates men and can't have a healthy relationship.

AutoModerator · 2026-08-12T15:07:38+00:00

Title: Vent about only fans

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Full text: I would think this is a community that would share my feelings on this? We’ll see I guess 🥲

I got/started a social media management job for an only fans creator who lives local to me, about a month ago. I took the job, despite my personal opinions on OF, because I’ve been looking for a job in social media for a while and it was presented to me, and because she’s an OF creator, she has a huge following which looks even better on my resume.

What is becoming really hard for me is seeing these OF girls all day on the Instagram accounts I manage. They are constantly making videos flaunting their wealth, and they have insane wealth.. 20 year olds with mansions, or big pieces of land. And it just feels so unfair. That those of us who have pride in ourselves and want to succeed in life based on our skills and hard work/dedication to a goal, are struggling and will probably never have that level of wealth. And they got it from having s*x on camera and posting naked pictures/videos of themselves online.

To me this is one of the biggest examples that life is just totally unfair and there’s no rhyme or reason to it, you either choose to be a moralistic and virtuous person because you believe it’s valuable and worth being for a greater cause…or you don’t and you live a selfish, hedonistic lifestyle. Also, to live a lifestyle like that and then to brag about the wealth you acquired from it… it’s just so gross when we all know how much suffering there is in this country, let alone world, due to poverty and financial insecurity.

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Ok-Journalist7629 · 2026-08-13T07:31:26+00:00

Honestly, you cant put that on your resume. You can obviously, but it is not going to help you get a better job. People are only doing to see that and associate you with that same content you claim to dislike. If you want to include the experience I highly recommend lying and saying it was a YouTuber, and keep the job duties the same.

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