askTRP Megathread April 26

TomHicks · 2017-04-26T14:52:29+00:00

Is there going to be an official statement or response from the mods on the recent events?

DetectiveJohnKimbel · 2017-04-26T15:14:49+00:00

Best advice you can give to a junior in high school who just started lifting and talking to more people this year?

kevin32 · Wed Apr 26 14:09:49 2017 UTC

How much more traffic has the sub seen in the last 24 hours since it made headlines?

DirtJellyBeanz · 2017-04-26T13:31:06+00:00

What stuff are you "suppose" to deal with while in a relationship? Obviously no relationship will be fight free. So what are things that are normal, and not normal to argue about? thanks

redpill-account · 2017-04-26T13:16:51+00:00

How do u exercise jawline?

I've got down to 12% body fat , six pack good shape but I still have a very mild turkey neck

Are there specific weight exercises (shrugs)

Face exercise ?

Thxs

imsorted · 2017-04-26T23:36:46+00:00

I've finally got to a state of body and mind I'm happy with, getting lots of female attention but for some reason, Im losing interest in women(not gay).. it's like I can see through their bullshit and makeup and can't be doing with all the shit that comes with it. I've got a bang lined up for tomorrow but to be honest, I'd prefer to get on with my own projects. Has anyone ever felt this total change in themselves? Will it pass? Because at this point, I see a future where I'm just being selfish and happy on my own, working to constantly better myself.

rigbed · 2017-04-26T13:12:38+00:00

I can't seem to see a consensus here. Some people here say you shouldn't expect to be able to date 20 year olds once you're in 30/40s and others say you can if you maintain yourself. What is the consensus?

grlahmb · 2017-04-26T15:23:58+00:00

I've recently being looking into and practicing Stoicism. I'm concerned however that it may take me away from some useful beliefs and mindset's I've successfully picked up from this life changing sub.

Where does TRP and Stoicism have contradicting views?

What have experienced Stoics noticed as the main benefits/ set backs?

jamiryo5 · 2017-04-27T00:10:55+00:00

What are the thoughts on looking at cleavages? Should I ignore them or stare for a couple of seconds to show my desire? Or just for a moment like looking at the sun?

awaken471 · 2017-04-27T18:34:44+00:00

I currently work 44 hours a week (I work at my college). In the spare time at work, I swallow the pill and read a few things about a few hobbies.

Focusing a lot on social skills (never had much) and my body. I've been lifting 4 to 5 times a week, also checking my calories and nutrients everyday.

However, I feel VERY demotivated about college, skipping a lot of classes (Software Engineer) and end up staying at my place watching netflix or something else. It's the course that I have the most affinity, but I see myself flunking in a few because of attendance. It seems to have many useless subjects and the Diploma feels farther away each semester.

Have you seen yourselves in a similar situation? How did you overcome it? It's currently the only part of my life that I'm struggling a lot in finding a solution. Am I lacking a mission besides my body?

Thank a lot and sorry for my bad english

canadianbacon22 · 2017-04-26T15:56:11+00:00

I'm one of the young guys (17) who's trying to figure out how to get my life in order. I graduated high school a year ago, but joining the military soon and everything seems to be going well. I have been working out to get up to standards, dropping fat and building strength. I'm picking up quickly on my cybersecurity hobby for my military career.

But I don't feel like everything I'm doing (except joining the military) is genuinely for myself. I feel like I'm just doing it so people would find me attractive.

BargainBinBoyfriend · 2017-04-27T00:56:35+00:00

OK, question for you all: I've never actually watched The Matrix... is it worth watching, or is knowing the red pill analogy all one needs?

_MysticFox · 2017-04-27T07:16:14+00:00

I'm in university, and I'm so fucking concerned with Law 5 and social circle game that it fucks up my outcome independence/approach anxiety/inner game. Everyone knows everything and one fuck up can poison your preselection and social circle game.

Also, how the fuck do you approach without any context otherwise you're a fucking rando? There are huge walks to classes, the library, etc. and everyone's traveling solo or with a group.

good_guy_submitter · 2017-04-26T13:27:30+00:00

I was in curious situation last night. I was at swing party (dancing swing, not that other swinger party) and I went to a girl to ask for a dance. At the time, she was talking to some guy (stranger). I am interested in what is better approach: should I be dominant and directly ask her for a dance, or should I be friendly to them both and ask a guy if it's ok if I take her for a spin.

My thinking is that being dominant is more attractive to the girl, but it may also seem as I am intentionally trying to dominate the guy to show off, which is beta behavior.

WalkTheLine3210 · 2017-04-27T13:19:24+00:00

Any advice for someone moving to a much smaller city? I live in chicago and obviously living in a large city provides a certain amount of anonymity and freedom. Because of this I've never had to worry about constantly running into ex gfs when out. Same with casual flings etc. But I'm moving to a much smaller city (where I'm originally from) and 1) Dating pool of eligible/attractive women is MUCH smaller and 2) I think it will make logistics of dating around much more difficult - this has already happened where two women I was trying to game knew each other (unbeknownst to me). I was unaware of Red Pill at the time so I now know that the right frame can deal with this. But I'm thinking I'll just have to be much more selective in who I chat up. Any thoughts?

AndySmalls · 2017-04-27T16:50:57+00:00

Im just visiting and I have nothing but distain for all you pathetic losers. That said, I do have a legitimate question.

What is your end game? Where will pumping and dumping, manipulating, and just generally having no respect for woman leave you in the end? Explain to me how this thought process doesn't lead to a sad lonely existence later in life?

seaguy87 · 2017-04-26T14:18:01+00:00

In your experience gaming/dating/marrying/having any semblance of a relationship with a "conservative" woman, i.e a woman whose hypergamic nature has been constrained either by religious or social mores, et cetera, have they ever had problems with your past sexual experience or issues with you being sexually experienced?

francie-brady · 2017-04-26T16:56:42+00:00

I've been hanging out with some guys which are all beta BP and they get no women. Is it bad for me to hang out with theese people? Does it affect my image? Should I make friends with other guys who are having more results?

HybridFractals · 2017-04-26T20:10:13+00:00

34 here. How can i be more aggressive and assertive at work and life in general. I'm an easy going person but i often feel like people sometimes walk all over me. And when that type of situation comes up i always back down automatically. I don't like it and i want to change.

This is about work and life in general. Dealing with other men. Not dating if that helps.

drypumpkin20 · 2017-04-26T17:16:20+00:00

Starting to think I'm underestimating my caloric needs. Sometimes seeing a drop of 4 pounds at the end of the week, however, strength is not declining. Stay on course or add more carbs?

5th week of cut btw.

deepthinkerT · 2017-04-26T23:51:09+00:00

what do you guys think the artificial womb is now a reality!!!!! The very first of its kind where a premature fetus can develop outside a womb all they have to do now is bridge the gap between developing full embryos in this newly created artificial womb http://www.theverge.com/2017/4/25/15421734/artificial-womb-fetus-biobag-uterus-lamb-sheep-birth-premie-preterm-infant

XZTALVENARNZEGOMSAYT · 2017-04-26T21:25:17+00:00

Is Tinder easier when you display wealth/are rich as fuck? Anyone have experience?

bearinfoxhole · 2017-04-28T03:11:25+00:00

What is the problem with guys these days. Some industrial pollutant in the water? Why do they try their best to please women, and while doing so start to behave like sad puppets? I mean, it is usually the man who is the provider and a bread winner so why should he also devote himself to please woman. Shouldn't this be other way around? Woman pleasing a man for bread and shelter?

TruffleDump · 2017-04-27T08:15:44+00:00

I may be too late for this, but here goes:

I'm not strong in math. At all. I did okay in statistics, but shit like algebra and geometry I find rather difficult, mostly because it relies on any number of formulas you have to internalize and recall situationally.

Understanding this and approaching a point where I will be transferring to a 4-year college (potentially) next year, would it be wise for me to pursue a major in finance, or would it be foolish given my historical struggles with math?

moargainz · 2017-04-27T11:28:14+00:00

What are some good date ideas/stories/examples for late 20's that are, eh, "alpha"... none of that chick shit you'd read on "OMG top ten dates" by women or BP'rs?

Been out of the game and social world generally for six years, about to get back in after a LTR went to shit, and a lot has changed since college.

Amendog · 2017-04-27T13:29:41+00:00

Hey you Red Pill guys. What are the advantages of going monk mode? My game needs serious improvement too

d0lphinsex · 2017-04-27T14:24:56+00:00

I have a problem where I get really nervous when I try to tell a story to a crowd >= 2 people. I get red in my face and neck and I just stumble on words. Any tips how to remain calm?

SteVe_Brule_man · 2017-04-27T15:05:59+00:00

TRP theory when a friend upstages you on a girl you were working on. What to do when you are working on a girl and a friend swoops in out of left field and grabs the snapchat right under your nose?

AmatureProgrammer · 2017-04-27T15:22:29+00:00

Porn and masturbation addict here, how did you cut off porn and control your urges?

Also, I have social anxiety, if you had social anxiety, how did you overcome it?

Pm-me-gift-cardz · 2017-04-27T16:22:50+00:00

It's already been asked to a degree if mods will respond to certain events and I'm okay with not getting one.

But what are some of the opinions on specific prominent comments recently brought to the attention of the public?

Specifically about a female being "smart for a woman" or about hypergamy being an intrinsic trait to women, and societal institutions being necessary to keep this trait in check, slut shaming, religion etc.?

And for you personally if you frequent this subreddit:

Do you believe most on here should hate women? Do you think they do?

Do you believe women are typically or inherently lesser than men?

Do you feel dating in America has led to oppression or abuse of men?

Lastly what are your general thoughts, if you care to generalize, on the female gender specifically in your part of the world and as a whole?

I hope nothing in this line of questioning came off pompous, rude or offensive and I appreciate the feed back. this thread is my first visit to this thread and before exploring or furthering my own pre-opinion from reputation I'd like to have input from frequent users. Thank you.

awfulworldkid · 2017-04-27T19:51:19+00:00

any question

Why do you guys have to be so misogynistic? A lot of your advice is generally good for self-help, but the community as a whole seems to have an incredibly unhealthy attitude toward women.

mindplaybyneo · 2017-04-27T19:53:04+00:00

We cant stoop low to womens logic and argue with them. Let them yap like what women do.

africancurtainrod · 2017-04-28T14:53:59+00:00

First sexual experiences are fucking ROUGH

This isnt so much a question as a rant, but Ive been just recently introduced to TRP for a month or so and Ive noticed some serious positive results. Ive hooked up with 3 girls this past month, which comparative to before, is a lot. two of them was just a one time thing but one of them has been a few times a week.

Just for context, Im 18 years old and have not really been sexually active, as much as Ive been able to, I 'lost' my virginity a drunken night over a year ago and hadnt had as much as a blowjob since. until recently where I found this girl who is crazy about me and my new personality. last night we were at a bar, and she came to sleep at my house. I escalated things at went down on her, after she pulled me back up and went down on me, lasted a total of about 45 seconds before things... ended for me, I was embarased but she seemed cool about it. I told her to give me 5 mins before Id be ready to go. 5 mins pass Im ready to go, put the condom on and right after that, flop, soft as a pancake. I cant imagine anything more emasculating.

Currently holding my head up high and trying not to let it get to me. but god damn this is going to be a rough patch to cross...

SupremeJugg · 2017-04-27T21:42:35+00:00

Alright so I'm 18, I've been in a LTR for about a year and I have let my guard down and been really beta in recent times. I would pay for the dates and make sure she was taken care of, and as most of you know it didn't help me like I had thought it would. We've been arguing some more. More than usual. And right now we're taking a small break. Just a day or two because her parents are going through a divorce and the stress from that (they are blaming her for causing it) on top of us arguing has been a lot. Anyway my question is. Is there anyway to reverse the idea she has of me being more of a provider than Alpha? I've been hitting the gym and I'm getting in better shape. Doing everything that I should have done a long time ago. I know I'm young, but I'm just looking for advice and we're all on the same team so I figured asking here would be my best option.

mithrilbong · 2017-04-27T23:41:04+00:00

I look beta, my approaches suck.. with that being said, I consider myself pretty redpilled when I'm actually in a relationship. I've never chased a girl when she wants a break, and I don't take shit from women. I treat them as good as they treat me. Nothing more, nothing less. It's just that speed bump of meeting women that fucks me.

My best friend is alpha as fuck, but he's like a brother to me. Would having him wingman me help or hurt my efforts?

hoborichboy · 2017-04-28T03:17:54+00:00

What is the right mindset towards masturbation? I'm in high school and am unsure of what to think of it

ExtrovertThrow · 2017-04-28T12:20:44+00:00

This is more directed at the individuals of this sub, if this is allowed. How do you feel about women who don't want kids? About a girlfriend of yours who reveals she doesn't want kids?

murloc10493 · 2017-04-28T12:25:27+00:00

Someone crashed into my parents' car (that is insured) and i wasn't mad (when i should have been). Instead of pulling over and confronting him, i just drove off because i just can't defend myself in a real life debate. There must have been a lot of attention on me and there would have been a LOT of expectations about how i should be angry and assertive. I just can't be angry and nothing can make me angry idk why. I'm too beta and i'm beyond psychiatric help, i guess.

SupremeJugg · 2017-04-28T21:57:49+00:00

I figured, I really appreciate the reply. During our "break" I've written her off. If we do end up talking soon I'll try to slowly change the tide of how things were going before hand, but if it slows down my own progress I'll move on. Thank you man

llye · 2017-04-30T23:36:59+00:00

So I started to atke the red pill a few days ago, but a few questions keep nagging me.

Why are eastern european and asian girls different from usual western girls when it comes to LTR.
Generally, how do you deal with risks of std and is it on your mind much? This one is frightening to me.

rigbed · 2017-04-26T15:13:29+00:00

I was in a group of very beta guys at a tavern and the greeter was a perfect nine: short, super skinny tight dress Sasha grey face. She was probably young 20s I'm 19 and I look younger because I've gained face fat and I have acne and even though I'm tall I don't look like a man, and this chick would be wooed by plenty of older rich guys regularly, due to the area. For hot chicks at bars and restaurants what is the key for AMOGing whoever her social circle is?

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