askTRP Megathread September 27

geology_socks · 2017-09-27T16:15:08+00:00

How do you guys deal with the loneliness? I kind of miss having company. Everyday just feels dreadfully lonely. No one to look forward too. Just me. I can't really enjoy anything when I'm alone. So I usually just go to sleep.

I tried to pick up wood working and I got pretty decent at it but I didn't really have any one to show it to. The seems to be the same for all hobbies.

PGsinceDoom1 · 2017-09-27T18:41:05+00:00

Throwaway for obvious reason... Just had a baby with my SO some month ago. She really changed since. There is close to no sex anymore. And if we do it its just the usual stuff. Thought about cheating and would definetly do it, but dont know where the opportunitis are. Dont even feel bad that i think about it. Some advice?

bananabankr · 2017-09-28T05:19:14+00:00

I was wondering what TRP thinks of women who have cheated in the past. Do you think they can learn from their mistakes? For example:

Let's say a woman, (Sandra) is in a LTR with a man (Brad). Sandra is caught cheating (for whatever reason). Brad finds out, and being the TRP man he is, he immediately dumps her, without remorse, then blocks her number, deletes her from social media, and proceeds to go no contact. Forever.

Sandra is devastated, begging for remorse. But Brad won't come back or even answer her phonecalls.

After a while, Sandra has a new boyfriend (Chad). Chad is also very TRP, and she knows he is alpha. My question is, does TRP think Sandra has learned from her previous mistake and that she is now less likely to cheat?

jonknewnothing · 2017-09-27T13:30:00+00:00

Hi. Long time lurker here. I'm guilty of being a people pleaser. The thing is I know that's wrong but i still find it difficult to break away from it. Any tips or words of advice you guys can give?

STIMjim · 2017-09-27T15:42:56+00:00

What are some very important things to do to prevent yourself from reverting back to your “old” habits. I’ve been pretty good until the last month or so, but I’ve been losing motivation to improve myself. How do you keep on track and what do you do when you realize you’re being lazy and need to get back to it?

Vulgarvultures · 2017-09-27T17:07:09+00:00

Hey guys I got two things I wanna chime in on and ask what you would have done and what I can still do. I'm going to attempt to make this brief. Girl number 1 comes over we fuck and have a great time about 10 minutes of lying around later she wants to go again I agree an so we start now after a while she cums an then cums again. She asks me if I'm close I say getting there. Eventually it hurts her so I tell her to finish me off she Jacks me for a bit then complains about her arm being sore. I asked if her jaw was fucking sore and she said she wasn't doing it again. So I said fuck you I'll do it my damn self. I jacked myself off all while staring her in the eyes and as I did she mocked me an teased me saying I lost it yada yada yada. I finished and through it on her and wiped it in her hair an proceeded to tell her to gtfo. She goes in for a Hug I tell her to fuck off. And even though she called and texted this last sat. I just ignored em. Questions. Did I let it get to me to much? Should I have just let it go and fucked her more later on? If a girl tells you to beg for it do you say fuck you this dog doesn't beg or is it some dom foreplay that I maybe mistaken as her trying to control me?

Scenario 2. I met this girl at meijers. Cute cashier so I approach get her name we chit chat a bit she tell me she's got a fiance. Whatever, next day I come in go thru her isle again an just start some small chat. This time I invited her out and just pretended as if I never heard her mention her man. She giggles an reminds me of her man. Whatever... now the 3rd time I come through she says hi we small chat again an then this time she says hey you seem like a cool dude do you have a fb insta etc. To which I said no I'm not into that shit. But she got my number because she wants to be friends... now I'm thinkin biz markie type of thoughts now like I might just be that kinda "friend" on the side for her. but when I text her she doesn't respond at all sometimes to the question I've asked. So today I'm going to shake the friendly approach an go a bit more strong with my advances an just invite her over for some stress relief at my house. She's had a shit ton of things happen to her recently and she's only known this dude for a year an he's proposed. Anyone got any advice or reminders for me? I've read alot of the redpill any and all advice is great thanks guys

ibmasterrace · 2017-09-27T17:08:06+00:00

Discovered TRP beginning of summer vacation leading up to college. I've read: Side Bar How to make friends and influence people No more Mr. Nice guy (didn't find this particularly interesting given that I am rather young, and the book seems to be targeted at older "nice guys") 3/4 of the book of pook The Top posts as well as weekly top posts

I know practice is key. Problem is I'll be getting a whole lotta chances to practice in the coming week when college starts (meeting a whole lotta new people, thirsty chicks that have finally escaped their parents...)

Now: any last minute tips to maximise my time before I begin? I've been reading more and more field reports to study the application of the theory I've been reading.

Would you recommend I:

Finish "the book of pook" Read "The Rational male", or as much as I can finish Read "The Game"

Ive got a pretty good grasp of the concepts, I just want to absorb as much as possible before I head into the beginning weeks of college that are the perfect place to test all this new shit out.

Thanks fam <3 Hoping to come back with some successful field reports ASAP

SmokedSalmon5 · 2017-09-28T05:21:11+00:00

What's a good Instagram caption for a shirtless pic?

TheWolf149 · 2017-09-28T08:34:33+00:00

I'm studying abroad and I met a girl (also international) at a pub crawl and decided to go out to an open air college festival the next week. There was a lot of mud and drunk people so we decided to go for a walk through the city.

We had great chat and teased here and there, yet what struck me was that she said she never had a boyfriend before (she's a HB8) and that most of the guys creep her out wherever she goes, as they start to text her immediately. I sensed a little bit of BS, but the fact that she was a bit cold overall was supporting her claim. It started to rain and I opened my umbrella, she complained that I should stop holding it because she can take care of herself, so I left her without cover whenever she mentioned it. Before we departed, she hugged me for a long time like she wouldn't want to let go, and I went along with it.

Fast forward a few hours later, I was going to a party next to the festival when she texted that she was at the festival, drunk and needed a little bit of help. I went to pick her up and helped her a bit with the motion sickness part. We get to the party, barely get on the dancefloor when a guy swings by and they start humping before making out in the middle of the crowd. I started laughing as she just barfed 5 minutes ago and ignored her for the rest of the night. She started panicking when I went to the bar and mentioning that she is thankful I took care of her, now that the other dude left.

Haven't talked with her ever since, except for last week when she asked me if I was mad at her, to which I replied "have you done anything?", and static since then. What would you have done?

TRP_mask · 2017-09-28T13:20:51+00:00

So this Reddit page lately has a big influence on my life, as I'm lifting now and far more outgoing, as well as becoming more socially aware (but definitely not good at it yet). Whenever I'm feeling down, I come to this page and it gives me confidence. Thanks for that by the way.

Now I've been bullied in the past for being ugly. This never hurt me before because I was very self confident on my own, but when I hit puberty that started to change (I'm 17 years old). Not only that, people always told me that I look like my father. Not look like him in terms of just being able to see he's my father, but look like him as in an exact copy. One of my friends recommended me this page as a result, and I've read many posts since. Now I have my moments of being down and being very confident. My father, which I can of course rate since I'm a bystander, looks really... silly I guess. He is long, skinny and every movement he makes looks clumsy. Whenever I think of myself being ugly, I immediately think about this view of my father and feel like I'm lost, since I 'know' I'm a copy of him.

I'm not here to whine about it, I just wanted to try and show what goes on in my head when I am feeling down. My question then becomes, from a TRP perspective, what can I do to keep that confidence? Because losing confidence also means a weak frame, which I want to prevent.

DrGoldenPath · 2017-09-28T14:32:21+00:00

Fellow redpillers! So, I am going out with a girl from tinder, and i have observed some traits that could be potential red flags(?). I would like your opinion if you find these alarming.

-Dont study/ dont work -Is a bit into Isla religion -Most male friends -Lots of male friends -20,8 thousand instagram followers -Seems to have many secrets -Lives far away

Thanks in advance, DrGoldenPath

[deleted] · 2017-09-27T18:32:57+00:00

Women love being chased. When my unicorn (ex) almost branch swung (we broke up on good terms later), instead of "it just happened" she said "he's an awesome guy pursued me single mindedly and relentlessly, and that made me feel sexy and desired."

How do you square the (mutual) enjoyment of pursuit with a DGAF attitude?

DamiensLust · 2017-09-27T18:46:30+00:00

Would love some advice as I'm pretty new to this.

So I've been attempting to game a girl in my class. I'm the most confident person in the class, regularly make the class laugh and have been spending plenty one on one time with this girl. She'd been giving me positive signs (telling me we should go out together etc) and then today we went to get food, I was putting my arm round her and linking arms (when I actually put my arms around her she patted my back showing she wasn't exactly comfortable with it) and later told me she's not used to people getting in her space. I commented that she looked hot that day and she asked if I was hitting on her and that she wasn't used to guys saying that out the blue. I held frame and told her it was just an observation, then later on after we'd been laughing and I'd been push-pulling I told her we'd never work, at which she got a little offended and told me about another guy she's been talking to and what made me think she was even looking at me. I laughed it off then spent the rest of the class laughing with her friend.

How would you guys react in this situation? I'm ready to drop her as its not like I'm fixated on her, but she's pretty hot and I'd like to salvage this if I can.

Fradier · 2017-09-28T00:58:46+00:00

What recommendations would you give to a Junior in High School? Im a virgin and starting processing TRP ideas for a few weeks now but find it difficult to apply a lot of the info since I cant exactly bring some chick from the club back to my house to bang, im underage and live at home. Im really just curious what you guys think I should be doing/ how to attract high school girls, also what I could do now to to better myself and my life in the future.

Primspeon · 2017-09-28T00:31:13+00:00

I'm not doing what I should do everyday, I can have a week of full motivation to finish all of my workout, reading and meditation routine and then next week I just stopped doing any of these. Any disciplinary suggestions?

setsuna0 · 2017-09-28T15:32:38+00:00

I found an Aikido dojo nearby. It was really cool I was thinking about starting since it's only $50 with uniform included. And is flexible with my work schedule.

Anyone try Aikido? What's your favorite martial art? I'm picking one up to compliment my weight lifting.

Locust- · 2017-09-28T18:01:11+00:00

I've been lurking for a few months now. I've read everything in the sidebar, but found very little about comfort tests. Why? They are more difficult to handle than shit tests, first of all because they are harder to recognise and secondly because they require to show a side of us that is usually hidden. I think a good analysis on the matter could be useful. I know LTR are not the main focus of TRP, but this could be interesting for the sake of it regardless.

In33dmon3yz · 2017-09-29T18:14:46+00:00

How can you deal with chronic illness alone? Not even women who have the same issues can deal. Just be alone for ever? I mean i could fuck bitches i am good looking , ahletic all of that. But this illness made me its bitch

[deleted] · 2017-09-27T15:31:58+00:00

hi. Im 16 and from Turkey. I want to swallow the red pill but not understand that well. I am not even a beta, just a fuckin' gamma. This is cause of that ı have goddamn 1st type megalomania. ı dont think ı need to medical or physologial treatment. Can ı solve that with monk mode?

womans_algorithm · 2017-09-27T13:45:46+00:00

I had fun with this girl (she is 24, I'm 26) at 2 or 3 parties (making out, feeling her up, no sex, she stayed in my bed with me after last party), where I was being textbook RP. After the sleepover, the next day, she asked me if I still want see her (I said yes) and if we are exclusive (to which I said no). My question is, why did she want to have this "the talk" so soon? Is it possible it's because she was unsure if I like her (since I didn't give her much attention at parties and dances with other girls as well)? I thought it's normal for a woman to ask about this after a month or two, not after 2 weeks.

Bside_785 · 2017-09-28T11:09:45+00:00

Where can i meet girls? Im 17 and yr 13 of 6th form and idk where to meet girls outside of school

Title	askTRP Megathread September 27
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Date	September 27, 2017 1:09 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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