Literally, be a good looking man, and you just have to exist. Women throw themselves at you.

Nerdy, stupid, intelligent, sporty, artsy, rich, broke. Whatever. If a man is handsome, nothing else matters to women sexually.

"Asshole" is simply what a handsome guy gets called by shallow women who've been pumped and dumped by him, because they were so looks-obsessed that they fucked a guy despite him having fucked all of her girl friends.

"Nice guy" is nothing but a euphemism for "ugly/average looking guy who's well mannered."

"Creepy" is nothing but a euphemism for "ugly/average looking guy who who dares hit on a woman."

An action performed that would be deemed creepy and harassing in nature if an average looking male did it, will be deemed "bold and confident" performed identically by a hot guy.

Anyone who's had legitimately handsome male friends know exactly what I'm talking about. Women approach them(or at worst give stupidly overt signals - women suck at flirting), catcall them and literally drag these guys off to fuck at parties after exchanging one or two sentences.

LOOKS is ultimately what sex appeal is all about. Your physical appearance tells a woman's subconscious in miliseconds whether you're breeding material.

Unfortunately, women beat around the bush, leaving average looking and ugly men on the bleachers while they observe handsome guys going through all the girls one by one(or sometime two by two - not uncommon for "Chads").

Average men get perplexed as they see men with less social savvy, less intelligence, less confidence, more confidence, more intelligence, more social savvy get more pussy than them - (as in, there is no game or personality type that makes women wet by itself.)

They start thinking "maybe he has a cool one-liner" "maybe it's that dude's body language" "I should go study PUA" - only rarely does the average man understand that it's all looks. And it's a rare conclusion for most men, because women never insinuated that they are sexually attracted to men's appearance. Nor did the movies. Nor did teachers. Nor did parents.

Women are the ultimate bullshitters on this subject. It takes a lot of observing + trial and error before the pieces start connecting ever so slowly.

Understanding what masculine facial anatomy and adiposity is(most men can't rate men, and most men also think they're 2-3 points higher than they actually are) can take you a long way in the process, and make you see male-female dynamic more clearly. Be prepared for an ego-shattering experience - especially to guys who had preciously convinced themselves they were handsome(possibly a cashier smiled at you once, your mother calls you handsome all the time, your best friend complimented your muscles).

Women have a vested interest in keeping up the illusion of looks not mattering - because they need the guy they rejected in their prime, to be there once her prime is over and she needs to settle down after "having her fun". Sometimes at various periods of their "prime" they also need those guys as fallback "boyfriend-material"(any man who's ever been called this should actually think "ughhh") when those women are on a downer-period after having been burnt by another sexually attractive man who has so many options that she was simply another fling/ONS in a long line of those. Then you might get to take her out, wine and dine her and watch The Notebook with her - while handsome jocks laugh behind your back because you are treating the woman they ran a train on an hour after meeting her, like a princess.

Women fuck guys with "player" reputations constantly, despite every single red flag being present in the hunk's personality, demeanor and reputation. Why? Because a handsome face speaks to her vagina in a different language.

5-10% of guys fuck 90% of women. Even objectively ugly women have a chance with drunk hunks in the night-life, and they sure as hell take it. A hole is a hole to most men. To women, a dick has to be attached to an otherwise handsome physical appearance(emphasis on face).

Handsome men tend to embrace being "players" as they know it's rare for a male to have unlimited options at hand at any given time - something that women take for granted. But handsome men hold all the cards. They have their pick of whoever they want for a long term relationship, if they so please. Chads have so many options that they could literally put an ad up for women to come take a "job interview" and prove to him that they deserve his exclusivity.

The dynamic only slightly shifts when men enter their mid-thirties. Handsome hunks are not the majority of men, and most women come to learn this when they're 30 and Chad didn't choose her as his long-term commitment.

The selection suddenly available to average men at this point, are the same women that would've rejected him 10-15 years earlier. Before those women were struggling with fertility, before their estrogen levels plummeted, before they became man-haters(because average and ugly men apparently also need to be punished for pumps and dumps at the hands of handsome guys), before they became bitter for ultimately not being able to tie down a hunk.

"Luckily" for women, tons of guys are willing to be there at the end, for women who would've never considered them sexual prospects in their late teens and early twenties. Unfortunately for those men, they will never be shown the same sexual passion she showed guys she actually fancied.

Women spend their entire youth rejecting average and ugly guys, but if those same guys don't bend over backwards to her settling needs when she's 33, desperate and in need of a stable family-man, (even though he doesn't give her the tingles), then those men are sexist manchild losers who refuse to grow up and provide for her like "a real man" - while she texts and fucks a hot plumber on the side.