Here is a fine Blue Pill example from a few years ago. I learnt a LOT from the BetaStrikes I made back then.

Background:

I was a couple of years out of High School at the time, had been lifting for almost a year so and eventually developed a reasonably eye catching physique. Always been a natural Extrovert since I was a young child. However, I was clueless when it came to intimacy with girls. I guess I might've been an HB7 until I opened my mouth and some unnecessary Beta Drivel fell out. I was a good opener yet I couldn't close to save myself, because of this I had a low n-count back then.

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I made a Tinder account and managed to get a few matches. I matched with one girl. Sarah. She would be about an HB7, had a really nice face. Ended up messaging her with the standard NiceGuy opening repertoire.

"How is your day going?"

To which she would have replied to with some standard white girl line. Small talk then commenced on the Tinder App for days. Keyword days. Eventually within a week of it she gave me her number. The small talk then transitioned to text messages. I'm sure it was for a couple weeks that it went on like that. Then I got hit with the obvious hint.

"What are you up to this weekend?"

From that I organised going to a bar and getting a drink with her. One drink became half a dozen and we were both a bit tipsy. We (she) decided that we should go for a walk, which of course I agreed to. Ended up staying out late, eventually went home and was exhausted the next day. Looking back, there were so many opportunities to initiate and escalate. I was just oblivious to her signals. It was a consequence of putting women on the pedestal. I thought of them as nonsexual well behaved virgin princesses.

Despite my lack of awareness of her IOIs we continued to Text eachother throughout the following week. The next weekend I set up another date. It was an exact mirror image of the first date. Same bar. Same drinks. Same walk. Out late, too tired for the gym the next day. No escalation. Continued to Text the following week. Went out for lunch. No escalation. Continued to Text eachother.

Eventually Sarah invites me to her friend's Birthday drinks. She also invites me to stay over at her house after. This is when full clueless Beta mode activates.

The start of the night went really well. It was a standard house party and I really enjoyed the company there. One by one a couple of her friends would ask me.

"What are your intentions with Sarah?"

"When are you going to seal the deal?"

"Do you think the two of you will be serious?"

Now, whether the HiveMind was just shit testing me to find out my value or they were generally concerned doesn't really matter now. I can't remember exactly how I answered those questions. It wouldn't have been confidently, and it definitely would've screamed BETA. But thats not the complete Fuckup. Her friend eventually says to me.

"I think you and Sarah would be good together, would you like some advice? Don't rush things"

After the party we go back to Sarah's house. Made out a little. A little bit of oral etc. Didn't have a condom so couldn't have sex. Afterwards I tell her

"I really like you" (Feel free to cringe)

She reacts by saying

"Shutup"

Then I play the ultimate Beta trump-card

"Do you want to be my girlfriend" (feel free to cringe even more)

She said yes to that. But, you already know what happens next. She went cold. Antarctic winter cold. The next day was fine, said goodbye to eachother and went our ways. We continued to text eachother for a few days, then her interest slowly died. As expected. I was a little bit cut up about it. Maybe even a case of oneitis. It was nothing time couldn't heal though.

Summary:

The reason why I decided to post this is because it is a real life example of how women can treat you when you as a man give away your most precious resource easily. All that time I wasted texting her, staying out on those dates, and even hamstering over her caught up on me and placed me in Beta-Orbiter Land. As it says in the "ruining virgins for everyone else" post in the sidebar,

" If a man gets friendzoned, it's his own fault, because he wasn't sex-worthy to the woman he choose to spend his time, energy, attention, money, and emotional investment on. He should have either had better game or picked an easier target."

Well I learnt it the hard way. Its clear that women want to chase a guy and have to earn his time and commitment to a relationship. Even if he does initially come across as high value at the start, giving commitment away to easily will still place him in the friendzone.

The sad thing is, back then I thought that is what women wanted. I thought they wanted a niceguy to give them Instant Relationship. Total stability. Yet they want the process of pursuing the commitment of man, and not the actual thing.

As for not escalating and being unaware of IOIs, the more experience that I have had with Women has fixed that one. Now it is a natural thing for me. Some readers might find this post a little autistic, long winded and cringey. That is fine. It is. It reads almost like something you'd expect to see on 'The Undateables'. But that was me.