Have you noticed how every time the topic of "slut-shaming" or women's sexual history is discussed on reddit, there are always those highly upvoted comments saying "What's wrong with liking sex?" or "Sex is amazing, I don't see why enjoying it would be shameful."?

Yeah, cool, but my question is: What is actually a better strategy for a woman who really likes sex: having it on regular basis with a carefully selected, high-quality partner who knows her preferences and cares if she comes or not, or, sloppy, drunken copulation with the first passable male who comes along?

As always, it is important to notice the sexual dysmorphism and the "sperm is cheap, eggs are not" rule here: it is a man's sexual imperative to have sex with as much women as possible, that's why we get it up and finish with ease, no such thing with women though. It is beneficial for them both from the biological as well as social perspective to have sex within longer-term relationships.

Why don't they then? There are a few key reasons I can think of:

  • Crippled self esteem and the need for validation

That one is self-explanatory, "How can I be worthless if I made so many cool guys cum" is not a healthy line of thinking, but hey, whatever gets you through the night.

  • The need for novelty

That's probably the healthiest incentive of them all. We all like the thrill of the unexpected and wonder what else is out there, but it's easy to see why dissatisfaction with the present becoming a pattern does not bode well for future relationships.

  • The lack of control over primal urges

A simple irresitible need to fuck right there and then when a suitable opportunity presents itself. The crowning attribute of "cheating whores". I don't have to explain why you don't want a girl who has no control over her animal brain.

  • The inability to commit

Again, pretty self-explanatory. Attachement and emotional intimacy issues preventing her from forming a meaningful bond. And again, not a trait to wear as a badge of honor.

And the most common one:

  • The quality gap between men willing to have no strings attached sex and those willing to commit.

A phenomenon well-described in the red pill writings. Inflating her ego with vanishing alpha cock can really send her perception of her Sexual Market Value and standards to the Neverland. The oh so sweet sperm of a drunk, much higher quality male going through a dry spell is a powerful drug indeed. There are less extreme forms of this mechanism, but they all result in severe dissatisfaction with the males her real value allows her to attract and keep leading to more indulgence in the pump-and-dump carnival until she crashes into the wall and begrudingly lets some despicable beta pick her up. And it's all misery from there.

Now that we've established what pushes women into promiscuity, I hope that none of you will buy into the load of shit that there is a sizeable group of high value, emotionally stable women who are good relationship material, who accumulated a massive number of sexual partners simply because they "like sex". Red pill wouldn't be worth shit if it didn't reflect life, so: do you know any? Because the mythical creature that is a woman who gets labeled as a slut while being a paragon of virtue and her only sin is being "sex positive", is something that I yet have to see. And even if I ever do, seeing the number of drunken, characterologically repulsive, entitled and delusional skanks I've come across, it's not likely to change my general views.