Destroying her

broek_325 · 2017-11-21T16:39:40+00:00

This is much better than being a whiny bitch and begging her not to leave etc. But I really think this revenge/women are evil mentality is not healthy, and new guys reading this should not replicate it.

It would be perfectly fine to handle it calmly, give her the bags and see her out. When she’s left you can chase other girls and go about your life. Your calmness alone will speak volumes to her about how little it bothers you, and that will trigger her hamster if that’s the goal.

No need to “destroy” anyone, unless you are facing an internal battle of your own, in which case you need to figure why you feel that way and address it.

VickVaseline · 2017-11-21T16:39:23+00:00

Wait. What? You left an angry ex at your place?

I'm thinking that's the perfect recipe for torn-up clothing, smashed dishes, if not setting the place ablaze.

ReluctantPawn · 2017-11-21T17:07:56+00:00

Really not necessary. Hand her her bags, say ok, if you’re on good terms wish her the best and leave. To me the whole show is petty and unnecessary. Yes you showed her abundance mentality. Who cares you are done with her. Take the high road and move on.

MattyAnon · 2017-11-21T17:36:14+00:00

TL;DR fight her with her own weapons, call another girl right on the spot when she wants to leave you. Make her feel the same pain

Sure, but let's neither pretend this is destroying her nor have misleading titles like "Destroying her".

As well as making this sub look like something we're not, it's not true. She'll have a new man within the week.

OmegaMan2 · 2017-11-21T15:28:43+00:00

Well played.

She was in the process of dumping you, so you let it be known that you have options. Had you whined and cried after her she would have felt justified in leaving you. Now she has to wonder if she acted a bit too hastily.

I'll bet that she now regrets her decision.

ShiftyMcCoy · 2017-11-21T17:27:09+00:00

You're a terrific fiction writer.

MisterRoid · 2017-11-21T15:36:33+00:00

It did sound a bit silly, but hey, it seems like it worked well, and that's what matters! I would probably have told the bitch to fuck off and that I don't do friends, lol. Maybe it's a bit petty to want "revenge", but I also find it satisfying on its own to make a girl upset if she has displeased me, and it tends to be beneficial as well.

Morphs_ · 2017-11-21T15:45:50+00:00

Interesting move. But can you backtrack the reason why she wanted more space? In my case I overpursued my gf out of oneitis/neediness. It actually took a talk with a good friend to realize that fact. Something lowered her attraction over time.

RPAlternate42 · 2017-11-21T18:11:55+00:00

call another girl right on the spot when she wants to leave you. Make her feel the same pain

You started amputating a gangrenous limb with surgical precision and ease... and then, at the last second, decided to throw the scalpel in the trash and instead gnaw the rest of the limb off with your teeth.

Do things for you. Calling that girl was clearly done for her. And if you think this is about "making her feel pain" you are wrong and you know it. This was about making drama for her as the audience. You grinned and smiled when she texted and called you.

She is now enthralled with the idea of you and I predict you are using this as leverage to get back together with her. you have solidly and completely done everything in her frame.

Why not block the number? Why even deal with the woman at all? You are like a hoarder: you are keeping an old newspaper in case you want to read it again. Do it enough and you won't have to dig in the trash for treasures because you have been filling your entire life with your relationship refuse.

Doing shit to make women jealous is female behavior. This was, literally, a bitch move.

tenxs · 2017-11-21T17:36:52+00:00

“Oh, you break up with me?! Let me just turn around, grab my phone and make a date right in front of you, that will show you.”

Sounds pathetic and cringy enough a chick could have done it. Enjoy your revenge fee-fees. At least you ghosted her.

Your title is retarded btw

cashmoney_x · 2017-11-21T18:11:23+00:00

This is dumb. Stop posting and work on yourself.

halfback910 · 2017-11-21T17:12:15+00:00

It's funny. I realized that my last relationship was stupid and over when I came to the conclusion that my significant other cheated on me and I realized i just didn't fucking care. I wasn't angry or jealous or possessive at all.

In many ways, I had been waiting for an excuse and one just fell in my lap.

BillSander · 2017-11-21T17:59:47+00:00

Indifference...? Not really. Keep working though. The goal is shrug-level ZFG.

BokehClasses · 2017-11-21T18:43:59+00:00

This is beyond stupid.

We all know women have more power than men in today's world. Doing this to her just gives her an incentive to get you back. It could be a false rape accusation, it could be false domestic abuse claim, or she could ruin your future relationships by making you believe your current GF is cheating (story from a female reddit poster who did the same thing).

So rather than being stoic and really alpha, you decided to lash out one last time to hurt her feelings. Very poorly played OP.

Either play it as a stoic alpha, or even play it as a beta. Playing beta means people will see you as weak therefore run away from you. Correctly knowning when to pretend to be beta is a really good skill to have.

chuckthundercock · 2017-11-21T18:46:28+00:00

As other posters have mentioned, take this as a lesson. IMO actually telling these stories support the demonization of TRP by the womyn. Truth is you need to really just retrain your brain to not blame her, as the reason she's leaving is YOUR FAULT. You were weak, you let a girl you wanted to stay decide you weren't alpha enough. If you didn't care you wouldn't want revenge, you'd be indifferent. If you were indifferent, she never would have left. There's a strong lesson for you in this post son, listen to your RP brothers..

fearlesslionx · 2017-11-21T17:03:57+00:00

Well done my man, that is why you need external abundance sources and abundance mindset

Jabberwooky2008 · 2017-11-21T15:19:58+00:00

Where does this get you exactly? It seems like you’re an egomaniac who doesn’t even get sex now.

acetylcysteine · 2017-11-21T17:31:21+00:00

you're in a LTR, yet still getting girls numbers at bars? bit sketchy if it was a true LTR

Yeralt · 2017-11-21T17:32:17+00:00

What are red flags? Sorry but im new to this reddit

huge_gap · 2017-11-21T18:30:02+00:00

This is fun revenge porn, but the amount of effort you put into dealing with this girls breakup was too much. Shoulda just said "ok, pack up your shit" and walked away. At the most, have her shit packed so she doesn't fiddle with your shit and then say "there's the door."

Too tryhard, but otherwise entertaining.

Title	Destroying her
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	70
Comments	63
Date	November 21, 2017 3:15 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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