Summary: Conferences are great places to mingle. Handling shit tests and being cool about last-minute resistance (LMR) while not acting butthurt will get you the prize. I offer you my story of conquering a virgin, and the abundance of red pill truths it illustrates.

BODY

Math conferences are always dominated by super nerdy beta males. I can't help but roll my eyes seeing their orbiting tendencies every time some (scarce) female was around.

Getting a little tired of sitting down and watching people talk, I decide to take a break and do a bit mingling. There are a few young average looking ladies at reception and I'm getting distracted by them. So I head over and do some red pill style orbiting of my own. Some chatting, some light teasing, and these ladies are eating it up. I imagine they don't get much of a chance to interact with fit men with veiny arms like me in their daily lives. One particularly cute chick sitting at a different desk, let's call her Claire, comes over and engages in our conversation. Cats are curious creatures...

  • Lesson #1: When talking to a group, engage everybody. If it's all girls, I make it a point to talk to the ugly ones just a bit longer than the rest.

Claire is a bit shy, right up my alley. I don't think much of it at the time, just an afterthought, so I go my own way, talk with a few more colleagues, when I get this sudden urge of asking Claire out on a date. I never did this sort of thing in a foreign place, I'm used to having the home advantage. But for whatever reason I am in a great mood today, feel totally grounded, focused, like a laser. Seeing how I've been completely bombing my day game for like 3 days in a row now, I figure I'll take advantage of this zen state I'm in and see what comes out of it.

I have nothing to lose. My laser-like focus takes over, and I walk over to her and just straight up ask what her lunch plans are. No name exchange, no small-talk, nothing. It's like I know deep down it's gonna work. If you ever day game, you know the kind of mental state I'm talking about. You are completely indestructible, shit tests bounce right off, nothing phases you. If only I could be like this all the time. But then it would be a little unfair to the ladies ;)

  • Lesson #2: When instinct takes over, don't try to fight it. Stop thinking, get out of your head, and just do what nature intended you to do all along: BE BOLD. Fuck the surroudings. When you are present in the moment, it's completely irrelevant how many people are around you that could potentially witness you epically fail your approach. You just don't notice this stuff in that moment. Of course it doesn't always work (depends on the girl too), but when it does (if she is receptive), the results are incredibly powerful.

  • Lesson #3: Don't be afraid to step outside your comfort zone. If you're in a new environment but you feel the urge to approach, just fucking do it.

Turns out Claire's busy for lunch, but her evening is free. Even better. She gives me her contact info (and name), but has no idea who I am. Overall during the entire interaction she is incredibly shy and submissive. But despite her shyness, she is very receptive. It's in the bag. I will at the very least make out with this girl.

  • Lesson #4: Gauge a woman's interest level in you based on how willing she is to go along with your date idea. Is she receptive? Submissive? Does she let you call the shots? Great! She's worthy of your time. If she tries to wiggle around, she is too rigid and you shouldn't waste your time with her. The date won't be fun at all for you with these types of women. I know, I've had two very boring dates this week with this exact type of rigid woman. Learned my lesson. She tries to change plans? Say NO. Let her sit in their own misery while you're off searching for a fun gal to spend your time with.

Ok so it's date time. I do the usual: walk around a bit, then sit somewhere and go for some kino, walk around some more holding hands (good ol' palm reading trick lol). I escalate very slowly in the beginning - it's just my style. She's super receptive so far, so I try to get us to a less public place for the kiss. Claire's super nervous, and when I bring her close in for the kiss she stops me. Most guys fumble the football here (I have in the past!), and get all butthurt and defeated. But I know better. No means "try again later". She says she's afraid someone will walk by and see us (very important!).

We keep walking around find another isolated place with no ppl around, talk some more, lots of kino, she's leaning on me. I am hard as a fucking rock and she can definitely feel it. I'm not ashamed. I also learned that she's a virgin. Then she turns around and drops the bomb on me: Ok you can kiss me now. BOOM! Eager betas jizz in their pants at this point, but I take my fucking time and enjoy every second of it. Later she tells me you did a very smooth job at getting me to kiss you or something like that. I didn't do jack shit but sit back and let her warm up to the idea.

  • Lesson #5: When facing resistance, DO NOT ACT BUTTHURT. I cannot emphasize this enough. Do not try to convince her to kiss you. Do not try to use logic. It's not a debate or a negotiation. Women don't want logic, they want feelz. And they want those feelz from a strong man who is not easily shaken up. So simply move on, change the scenery, act like nothing happened. Of course my ego was hurt a little (DUH), but the ego is less important than the end goal, which is to get the girl. So I kept my mind in the game, eyes on the prize, brushed it off, continued being the same cool, playful guy I was before the kiss attempt. The less you try, the stronger the impact. And in the end she did the move.

I suggest we go to her place since her roomie isn't there. She says no. It takes a little more convincing mixed with kino/makeout/conversation, but it eventually boils down to me making it perfectly clear that I plan on making out with her once we're there, but if she feels uncomfortable at any point or that we're moving too fast, all she needs to do is say so and we'll slow down.

  • Lesson #6: *Women want to feel safe around you. They are shy creatures, so make them feel safe. If she's resisting you coming over (or her going over to your place), try providing a bit of comfort.

Once at her place, it's makeout time. I'm enjoying this. A lot. Submissive women are fucking awesome. Sumissive virgins are even cuter! In between heavy petting, I stop, pull back, start talking about mundane nonsense. She must be so confused at this point. Every time heavy petting resumes, there's zero resistance to the new stuff I introduce. Fingering her pussy was met with no resistance. Clothes are coming off little by little with each cycle. I teach her how she should touch/stroke me. She's a good learner.

  • Lesson #7: Two steps forward, one step back. There's no rush fellas. Take your time. Savour it. Savour her. She wants you to.

We talk about her virginity, and I learn Claire's actually very sexually frustrated. Translation: she's dying to hand over her V card to the right man. And what better candidate than this smooth Romanian man lying in bed next to her?

To be honest, I was a little bit dumb here. We were doing this back and forth thing and took me some time to figure out she was ready to give me her V card. As soon as I realize I'm being dense, all I do is say I think it's time we do something about your sexual frustration. Her response: do you have a condom?. Of course I have a condom. A man is always prepared. It's in the bag at this point.

  • Lesson #8: Don't get too caught up in the feelz. It's easy to get sucked into the moment with this hot sexy woman lying naked next to you, and lose sight of the end goal. Look at the big picture, read the signs, and realize she wants the D.

  • Lesson #9: Always be prepared. I always carry 1-2 condoms with me everywhere I go. Don't be the fool that doesn't land the lay simply because he didn't have proper preparation.

Right before we get down to business Claire tells me: we are both taking advantage of each other. You are taking advantage of me, but I want you to know I am also taking advantage of you. Translation: I am just the alpha fucks for her. This right here was is the most important lesson to take from this story.

  • Lesson #10: Don't be fooled by women's surface innocence. Your feelz will get hurt.

Women will use you as a tool to achieve their goals. In my case, this gal wanted to lose her virginity. I just happened to be the right man at the place and time. Forget about all the sweet innocent gestures from before, or the affectionate cuddles and deep soul gazing. Bottom line, I was a means to an end for her: she can brag to have lost her virginity to a muscular alpha.

I certainly don't expect to hear from Claire in the future. If I do, great. If I don't, that's ok too. I realize that I only had her in that moment, but that means absolutely nothing about what'll happen in the future. Women live in the now. Whatever they feel or say or do applies only to the present. Any promises they makes about the future are irrelevant and meaningless.

Whenever you are with a woman, you only have her for that very moment. So enjoy it while it lasts. Whatever she may say about her feelings for you will very likely change and be the exact opposite 5 minutes later. Her innocence, all of that sweetness... they are totally meaningless in terms of who she is as a person. Innocence is very attractive to us fellas, so we might as well enjoy it, but it'll catch us off guard and blind us if we are not on guard.

LESSONS LEARNED

  • When talking to a group, engage everybody.

  • When instinct takes over, just go with it.

  • A submissive woman is an interested woman.

  • NAB: Never Act Butthurt.

  • Women want to feel safe.

  • Two steps forward, one step back.

  • Getting caught up in the feelz will cloud your judgment and make you lose sight of the situation.

  • Always be prepared.

  • Innocence is like make up - it's only on the surface. You can't know what the real her is like. In other words, AWALT!

Stay smooth fellas!