THE GARBAGE COLLECTOR'S QUALITATIVE GUIDE TO SPOTTING THE INFANTILE RED FLAGS OF THE BORDERLINE WOMAN

Summary: this is an exercise for learning about the various red flags specifically pertaining to the infantile mindset of the Borderline Woman.

Introduction

This is an extension of Part II, QUALITATIVE GUIDE TO THE INNER WORKINGS OF THE BORDERLINE WOMAN'S MIND.

Borderline Women are people who are infants psychologically, and as such they also enjoy the same kind of stimuli and games that babies do.

They also have the strong tendency give away their mental age through (a) what they say, and (b) how they say it.

 

The goal of this series is to teach you how to visually identify the Borderline Woman. When you become adept at this, you should be able to ascertain someone’s mental age shortly after meeting them. With mastery, you’ll be able to filter them out just as surely as you can filter out any other baby in public.

 

Infantile Behavior in Action

 

All of these vlogs were posted by women who have been diagnosed as Borderline. The content in these videos is exceptionally cringeworthy; there’s no way around that when you’re analyzing and adult who is mentally 18-months old.

An analysis of the infantile behavior demonstrated will be provided alongside to the link to each video. The assignment for Part III will simply be to watch with a critical eye, and report back on anything you see that catches your attention.

 

VIDEO ONE:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zG0Nm3O5XoQ

 

The majority of this video is about making faces at the camera. Infants as young as one month are able to play this game, and it is a favorite for anyone under three months old.

She also refers to how she will get into trouble if she’s left alone. The word choice and content of the Borderline Woman’s speech is ALWAYS a reflection of her cognitive development.

This particular statement would be a red flag for the diagnostic criteria “impulsivity in at least two areas that are potentially self-damaging” (see Part II).

It's important to note that the Borderline Woman's ability to hide in plain sight exists only because people automatically take her mental adulthood as a given. While a normal woman is capable of saying something like this as a flirtatious joke, the Borderline Woman saying this will be subtly informing you of who she actually is. Figuring out how to spot the differences is tremendously helpful in learning how to avoid this type of woman.

 

VIDEO TWO:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yr7WneJli2w

 

From the Wikipedia page for Piaget’s Theory of Cognitive Development: The sensorimotor stage is the first of the four stages in cognitive development which "extends from birth to the acquisition of language". In this stage, infants progressively construct knowledge and understanding of the world by coordinating experiences (such as vision and hearing) with physical interactions with objects (such as grasping, sucking, and stepping).

The Borderline Woman's specific inclination towards soothing sensory experiences is no coincidence. Also note her specific use of the term “swaddling” when describing how she likes to cuddle with her blanket. The word choice and content of the Borderline Woman’s speech is ALWAYS a reflection of her cognitive development.

 

VIDEO THREE:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o5ZBByXVv3w

 

This video is self-explanatory. They are completely self-aware of their extended infancy. Of course they won’t admit that to you, because they know that they will lose their adult privileges if people find out that they are essentially frauds.

 

VIDEO FOUR:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h-5mM4dGc_o

 

This is a video where she lists some reasons why she might become angry with her boyfriend. All of them boil down to “I want attention right now.” For her, attention wins over her boyfriend: (a) being busy, (b) wanting to be left alone, (c) eating, and (d) sleeping. Her solution is to act like a bitch so that she can get a hug. This is exactly how babies act, and this is exactly how babies think.

Also notice how her focus is on getting the right reaction, as opposed to correcting her behavior and not treating her boyfriend like shit.

 

VIDEO FIVE:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oYjNkSuZ0Ss

 

This is the BPD hamster wheel in action. Referring back to Part II, this is an example of a Borderline Woman attempting to use introspection to come to a conclusion about who she is.

Metaphors are the go-to favorite of the BPD hamster wheel. This is because the lucidity of the metaphorical explanation provides shroud for the logical inconsistencies in the actual content of her speech. As such, an overreliance on metaphors in explaining oneself and one’s actions should be considered a big red flag.

In addition, her decision to call her “alters” her “characters” is her entrenching herself further into the make-believe play. They are completely self-aware of their extended infancy. The word choice and content of the Borderline Woman’s speech is ALWAYS a reflection of her cognitive development.

 

† NOTE: The following isn't about infantile features, but I still want to get your thoughts on this for a future post.

 

Take note of the intensity of her eyes and how they are darting around. You can clearly see how constructing her batshit metaphor is maxing out the (already feeble) settings of her cognitive capabilities. Specifically watch the part starting at [4:00] where she says “It doesn’t sound true.” Her eyes quickly dart up to the right then roll back to the front as she attempts to suppress a grin, and between [4:05]-[4:06] you can catch a glimpse of a genuine Borderline “psycho-face”. This expression only lasted for a second, but hopefully it was strong enough to force a gut reaction out of most of you.

 

Conclusion

Borderline Women are essentially babies.

Red flags for the Infantile Borderline include:

  • Acting like a baby (in any sense)

  • Overly enjoying things like a baby

  • Referring to herself in ways that could also be used in reference to a baby (e.g. word-choice)

  • Using rationalizations that sound suspiciously similar to how a baby might react in the same context

  • Overly relying on metaphors to explain herself, especially those that are laden with sensorimotor imagery

 

TL;DR: Don't trust any woman who acts like a goddamned baby. Assume that people are mentally children until they've consistently demonstrated otherwise.