How to weed out sluts from LTR material?

JP_Whoregan · 2014-07-03T13:08:58+00:00

Rule number one: shut your mouth and listen to them talk.

Once they start rambling, they'll reveal more hints about their sexual past than you can ever imagine. Verbal cues such as "I was with this guy once who...", or "one time my boyfriend in college did...", or "I've been with a guy who did xyz..." and you can literally start adding up the cock-count in your head over the course of a few discussions.

The key word to look for is "with". Women will rarely come out and say "I fucked so and so" or "I had sex with so and so". They'll say I've "been with."

cray-cray-cray · 2014-07-03T15:34:41+00:00

Here's what you do...

Spin plates until a girl really stands out. That is the way to go for several reasons.

Preselection. You'll find hotter girls that way overall.
She'll stand out compared to all of your other options. You'll have a realistic measuring stick.
You'll be entering the relationship right. You'll go in with abundance mentality (so you will be willing to bail if needed).
She'll know you have other options, so she'll be on good behavior, herself. From there, you need to maintain that.

ColdEiric · 2014-07-03T16:33:23+00:00

How do they talk of their dad, uncles, brothers and other males in her family? Are they men she reveres? Men who have done so fucking much for her sake? Or assholes who did this and this to her? Does she wish that she knew real men? Or does she praise the one's she already know?

valesauce · 2014-07-03T15:26:40+00:00

her family, her behavior, prime indicators. It's not impossible to find a virgin just don't expect her to be Megan fox, is It so bad to marry a 6 who was virginal and who is absolutely smitten by and devoted to you, vs a 8-10 with n=10+, mouthy, shit tests, drama? Looks fade anyway, have your pumps with the hot ones, then when you find one who is prime for Ltr, keep her. And yes go for young ones. No older than maybe 22-23, preferably 18-20 or as young as the consent age in your area. If she has a good family and the right predispositions she won't slut It up just like that.

Ps If you frame yourself as the kind of man who doesn't tolerate bs, she won't dare lie to you, unless you go for those air headed ones with literally no conscious thought process. I can get a woman to admit to me her past, she just as to feel that I won't judge her too much and that if she lies it will bite her in the ass, hard.

Doomsday_ · 2014-07-03T18:40:12+00:00

what tactics to use to filter sluts at the time when I want to start looking for an LTR

The same way you screen for any other quality. Just talk to her to find out her opinion on female promiscuity. Rather than asking about her past directly (e.g., her number), casually mention your slutty female friend went home with a rando the other weekend and see how she reacts.

Look at the attitudes and behavior of her friends and her social group.

once I'm ready to settle down with someone, she'll need to be pure

Don't put such a value on "purity," it's simply impossible to find. Look for a girl with a low number of past LTRs as her previous partners.

How the fuck can we stop them slutting it up through all their prime years

We can't.

DanG3 · 2014-07-03T17:58:59+00:00

What is VERY significant about this post is that now Men are discussing how to choose among options. That kind of thinking, and more of that kind of thinking (abundance mentality with Men as "buyers"), will turn the SMP on its head, and rightly so - finally!

scalentorn · 2014-07-03T13:39:06+00:00

First of all this belongs to /r/asktrp. Anyway, It's really hard to do that but there are a few ways to gauge her sluttiness;

She travelled a lot = She fucked a lot.

She fucked with you on a very short period of time(on a party, first date, 15 mins after first interaction etc.) = She did that to many men as well.

She goes out at nights = There might be a few exceptions here but most likely, she is a slut. Even though it is a "girly night out".

The way she wears is also a gauge for her sluttiness. I would never, ever take a girl who wears shorts seriously for example. just fuck it and dump it.

Ozymandias30 · 2014-07-03T17:06:00+00:00

When your out with a girl, observe the way she is with other men. Nearly everyone has a sneaky glance at someone they are attracted to, but this is different to a full on flirt while you are present. How does she react when your out and a guy that works out smiles at her? Does she fall for every guy that makes her laugh? Is she the type that gets off on cheap validation?

Crackerjacksurgeon · 2014-07-03T14:16:14+00:00

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BruceIsTheBatman · 2014-07-03T16:53:52+00:00

It really doesn't make sense to me to assume that just because the younger ones are more likely to have fewer partners, that says anything about their character in the long term. This is where the red pill sort of fails to make sense for me. An older woman is more predictable based on her life experience and choices. Why risk it with a younger girl? Oh, right, the unicorn. Good luck.

10pack · 2014-07-03T17:52:47+00:00

All sluts have low self esteem.

mordanus · 2014-07-04T04:54:05+00:00

Another way to do it is to get a really good female wingman to dig for you.

JoshtheAspie · 2014-07-04T01:56:23+00:00

When you think she might be LTR material, and the two of you start seeing each-other more often so you can see if she really is or not, see what happens when you get sick. Don't whine, don't expect outright coddling. Just see what happens, and how she reacts.

This isn't about the sluttyness factor, but rather her general suitability for an LTR.

bertstare10 · 2014-07-03T16:52:06+00:00

Any girl who tries to tell you how much of a slut they aren't or how much of a good girl she is.

Alternatively, girls who wear heavy thick red lipstick.

Basically the harder a girl tries to act like she is good the more often she isn't.

AnotherLostCause · 2014-07-03T23:55:32+00:00

Listen to what she says about other women, who are slutting it up. You are looking for bewilderment at that behavior. Also see what she thinks about other women who got knocked up by bad boys and are now single moms. Again you want her to say that woman is crazy.

nicknameminaj · 2014-07-04T20:32:45+00:00

why do you give a shit if she's banged some folks again?

trpsavvy · 2014-07-03T13:01:36+00:00

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Mengs87 · 2014-07-03T19:57:22+00:00

1 - travel with her. Not to some cushy resort, where everything is taken care of. No...someplace fairly difficult, where you have limited cash, and don't speak the language. You want to see her react to challenges, and improvise. This would weed out the princess types - they're only good for ONS. Do you want someone totally dependent on you for the rest of your life?

imaterriblelurker · 2014-07-04T10:08:07+00:00

You cant have it both ways, expecting sluts to fuck and then not taking the chance that bitch you want as an LTR was secretly a slut, riding that carousel.

If you ask me, these women are using the exact same tactics. They want a provider, emotionally stable guy with game. The best way to do that is give in to the emotionally stable provider with game. After a while, you become what they were looking for. This guy wants a slut? Yeah, I can do that! This guy wants the virginal little princess? "Ouch, Ouch, you´re hurting my pussy! I never had a cock before!"

We´ll work up on that kegel, keep that pussy tight, the body rocking, move to different city when we´ve used up all the cock in our own. Get a good paying a job, find a dick on the weekends and when we feel like it, either lie to an alpha or get those beta bux.

After all, the sexual marketplace is amoral. I dont need standards and sure, I will lie. About my numbers, about my age, about the money I make about how non-receptive I am to cock in the ass.

Best of all, I can do all of that knowing none of you dry little dicks can do anything about it :)

You´ll end up hurting the sweet, nice innocent little girls and turning them into stone cold bitches like myself. I wont lie, I am slut and what? It wont ever have any repercussions for me. Just the same as it will never have any repercussions for you.

It´s 2014, get with it. Get your dick wet, if this whole "beta-wanna-be-natural alpha" thing doesn´t work for you, you know there will be crack whores and escorts waiting for your dolla dolla bills.

Title	How to weed out sluts from LTR material?
Author	mushioov
Upvotes	33
Comments	93
Date	July 3, 2014 12:43 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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