Is this guy fucking serious?

[deleted] · 2013-10-25T06:13:34+00:00

I've got one word for the guy: Annulment.

puaSenator · 2013-10-25T07:45:51+00:00

Wow.... I feel absolutely terrible for this guy. Think about it. She did this because she figured she could. This guy has absolutely no boundaries set up for himself, so much so that she's even open about how well they click and how she now wants to fuck him. She's telling him, right to his face, that she wants the alpha fuck and he's the beta buck. This guy fucked up a whole lot to let it get to this point. This is incredible. To even be confused about the situation and ask Reddit for advice on something so glaringly obvious shows he is one weak man. Poor guy.

TheeRyanGrey · 2013-10-25T09:46:01+00:00

Stopped at I'm 23 she's 28. I knew it was downhill from there.

Never date a woman older, richer, more powerful, more famous than you. She will resent you quicker than you realize.

rhettdu · 2013-10-25T10:40:09+00:00

There's nothing shameful about asking for advice. The shame comes in if he ignores what everyone is telling him.

Fuck me, if my wife told me that she wanted to hook up with some guy the first thing I'd ask is what the fuck she thinks being married means. Do vows mean nothing to her?

That relationship is doomed. He needs to start spinning plates.

ihavespellingproblem · 2013-10-25T06:28:08+00:00

Annul the marriage and walk away. Nothing to do there. This is what happens when you marry a whore.

jakethesnake76 · 2013-10-25T13:49:30+00:00

The guy needs clues, badly. This is what I posted to him:

1) she is not physically attracted to you.

2) she thinks you will make a good provider for her and for her (not necessarily your) children.

3) she enjoyed being a hot slut and riding the cock carousel in her teens and 20's. Once she realized that her looks would not last forever, she looked for a chump to lock down, and found one.

4) Many/most women have an inborn tendency for a dual sexual strategy which involves preferring out reliable, non-aggressive men as financial providers and masculine, dangerous men as genetic providers. ("Alpha fucks, beta bucks.") Read the studies on how women's patterns of attraction to men changes at different times of their menstrual cycle: when they are fertile they rate "bad boys" much higher than they do the rest of the month.

5) you will never, ever, ever be able to rely on this woman's fidelity.

6) every single word of what you wrote is easily explainable with common knowledge frequently discussed in /r/theredpill.

7) you're screwed and the soooner you accept that the better. Get out before you're stuck with 18 years of child support for a cuckoo's egg.

PerniciousOne · 2013-10-25T15:05:31+00:00

Red Flag number 1: Wife hanging out with another man a "fair amount".

She says that they have not done anything, but I am 95% sure that they have been banging already, she is trying to get the husbands blessing so she can continue to get sexed regularly without any guilt.

Red Flag number 2: They have only been married a few weeks.

A few weeks should be the best time for a married man. This is almost the only time where you can almost have sex on demand, you should be the one experiencing your wife, and not some other guy.

Here is my advice, Get the F out of your relationship now, if she is not banging him right now, she will be. She may not bang him, but will be banging other guys in your future. She is only looking at you to financially and emotionally support her while these other guys use her like a drum.

Immediately speak with a divorce lawyer, and express your concerns to him. You have been only married a very short time so you may even be able to get it annulled. You are going to be screwed either way, so I would make sure to protect yourself.

Archwinger · 2013-10-25T16:38:04+00:00

I've said it before and I'll say it again and again:

When a woman admits to doing something wrong, it is always, always, always to cover up something even bigger, that the man would be even more pissed off about.

There are billions of people in the world. We meet people all the time, men and women both. During our lives, we're going to come across countless people we're attracted to. We don't confess every attraction we have to our significant other. UNLESS, we're a woman exemplifying the paragraph above.

This is one of those funny things about attraction. Men logically understand it. Women don't. A woman thinks that if she's attracted to someone else, ever, it must mean that there's something wrong with her current relationship, something special about her attraction, and she absolutely must act on it (e.g., "let it run its course.") It just doesn't compute for a woman to feel a strong attraction to a man and not act on it. If she's attracted to someone else, it must, must, must mean that her current relationship's a failure, which means it's all right to cheat.

hashtagpound2point2 · 2013-10-25T07:00:59+00:00

How this guy ever got with this woman in the first place, I don't know

She was approaching her 30's once they started dating. Her SMV has gone down drastically over the years, she fished for a young beta she'll have no respect for, and reeled one right in.

I checked out the thread, everyone's told him to get an annulment and that she's probably already fucked him. He hasn't commented at all so I'm not sure if he's taking any of the advice. Just through this story you can tell he has very little respect for himself and doesn't get much from his wife, so I wouldn't be surprised if he just lets her do what she wants and he keeps on becoming more and more miserable.

Learn how to say 'no' to your women, guys, it's how you get respect from them in the first place rather than letting them see how much they can walk all over you. If he knew this beforehand, none of this would have happened.

ShadowsByTorchlight · 2013-10-25T14:25:45+00:00

He tied the knot as a young Blue Pill, this was going to happen with 100% certainty. All he can do now is divorce, unplug, and move on. I wish him the best of luck.

donxjohnson · 2013-10-25T15:33:49+00:00

She has already been fucked like a cheap brass by this work colleague and that's all ive really got to say. This guy is a moron.

drrtyfrrnr · 2013-10-25T10:18:05+00:00

I don't feel revulsion for his actions only for hers. He probably thought it was twue wuv and he is pretty obviously not a world-weary guy who's been through everything. He should dump her and get a girlfriend younger than he is and not marry her for a while.

Zackcid · 2013-10-25T14:31:42+00:00

The sad reality is that most men are in scarcity when it comes to girls. Most guys would be "lucky" if they got a girl. Girls are aware of this disparity (80/20) and they reinforce the system. Because of this stupid fact, too many men are willing to put up with these women's bullshit just so that they can stay together. It's sickening and every man should know that the most powerful tool in their arsenal is showing a woman to the door if she's being a bitch.

OP is also ignorant because he still believes women think like men. He thinks and speaks very logically about this situation ("if she were in my shoes wouldn't she feel shitty about this? We've been married for 1 month, etc."), but he doesn't understand that logic doesn't matter to women. She doesn't care about some silly contract she signed a month ago stating that they are husband and wife, she only cares about the emotions and what makes her mind and vag tingle. That man is providing her with those emotional spikes and tingles, so nothing else matters.

bsutansalt · 2013-10-25T17:13:27+00:00

All the classic red flags of a extremely beta male: She's older than him, has more sexual experience, and after a few weeks of marriage is already looking to hookup with other guys.

It's threads like his that reminds me that red pill is triage, as in you can't save everyone. That guy is probably beyond saving at this point. Maybe down the road after he's been ripped off by divorce courts and has a decade to dwell and gain some status will he see the error of his ways.

CurveballSI · 2013-10-25T16:02:18+00:00

There's about a 95% chance this is a troll.

TRPsubmitter · 2013-10-25T07:57:22+00:00

The fact that she discussed it with the other guy first and feels she can simply "ask permission" shows that she views her husband as a beta provider and NOT as the man who gets her off sexually.

Secondly, the fact she did it so casually and honestly shows that she has NO fear of negative consequences from him. She doesn't respect him and has no fear of repercussions.

I found this to be the best comment there:

She's asking with no intention of accepting a no.

If you say no, she'll either do it anyway and hide it- has already done it and wants the post-approval; and/or keep trying to convince you.

Here's the link: http://bit.ly/1ihFmBL

LifterofThings · 2013-10-25T13:10:28+00:00

I think open relationships can/do work in certain circumstances. Beginning one with one partner in a sort of hostage situation, I'm willing to bet, doesn't work.

Every time I've seen this situation play out, the guy/girl has already fucked someone else and is trying to retroactively get permission.

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pitlord713 · 2013-10-25T16:26:10+00:00

These threads always make me sick.

billnye_theRPguy · 2013-10-25T19:06:50+00:00

Well, I gotta give it to his wife, at least she told him. It's probably a massive shit test, but it's still more than what 99% of women would do.

He's lucky in a way - he has a chance to turn his life around at a young age before things get any worse. Other women say nothing and then the guy ends up fathering kids that aren't his, a crippling divorce in his mid-30s or something. At this point if he's dumb enough to stay in the relationship nothing will be a surprise moving forward.

[deleted] · 2013-10-25T16:19:12+00:00

Wow.

This dude is FUCKED.

Not in the good way.

Bawlin_Cawlin · 2013-10-25T16:31:45+00:00

I came here right after reading that post hoping someone else saw it....thank you sir.

Chunkymaster · 2013-10-25T19:34:06+00:00

How can you expect anyone to respect you when you have so little respect for yourself? Poor guy

neilmccauley1980 · 2013-10-25T19:50:17+00:00

The only response when a bitch comes with this type of conversation is a scornful are you crazy look. If she wants to discuss further, then open the door and tell her leave now or to shut the fuck up and fix you a sandwich.

life036 · 2013-10-25T22:45:43+00:00

Poor kid's 23 years old and stuck in the matrix. There's no need to berate him, he's just ignorant.

He needs help, knowledge and a red pill more than he needs our ire.

Brodyseuss · 2013-10-26T01:12:44+00:00

This makes my brain hurt.

WheelbugScaphism · 2013-10-27T00:25:13+00:00

Get out of there.

youtube.com/watch?v=_W_szJ6M-kM

semigod__ · 2013-10-25T07:07:42+00:00

what a pathetic piece of man.

Is this guy fucking serious?

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Title	Is this guy fucking serious?
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