My first post on trp. So cut me a little slack.

A little context (not intended to be a humble brag ) just to let you all know that it happens to everyone.

-Captain of the football team junior and senior year

  • treasurer of the frat house

Basically growing up I was the golden boy. Iieterally was the ultimate alpha chad guy

I raged it up, banged a ton of chicks, life was good. At least at 60+ chicks at this points. I also was a huge dickhead at this point. I'm actually not proud of it I was not a nice person.

Graduated, got a great job (70k out of college)

Had a nutso one night stand, started dating at 23. Moved to the other side of the country with her for my job. She tells me once we've moved that she's been married twice. Fuck. Of course cheats on my with my friend that in invited in from out of town. And im sad but understanding about it because what am I gonna do kick her out back across the country? (Never move in with a girl)

End that job move back. She leaves me because of growing apart or whatever. (Basically I was a beta bitch for the first time in my life)

Since then learned trp (aka back to what I've been doing my entire life)

My only point is to show you guys that there is no true chad alpha guy. At least I haven't met him. I'm probably the closest.

But for every cool dude in the bar or club I promise he's had his heart broken and then just changed his ways.

I'm much nicer now but I'm not intimidated of a guy and y'all never should be either. Because there has never been a dude that this hasn't happened to.

My only point of this post is because there is still a lot of anger at this Chad type dude but he is not your enemy. He's gone through your same shit.

Feel free to discuss I just feel a lot of anger here over thinking there are these invincible dudes and it's usually not true.