I've accepted the concept of AF/BB several years ago. I worked on making myself better every single day since 2011. However, back then I was completely broke.

During this process, I discovered that I could have multiple plates (some were even friends with each other) who would drive me everywhere, buy me food, buy me things, etc. All in exchange for my TIME. That's it. I realized that when you become a man of VALUE and raise your SMV, women will do ANYTHING for your time. And that includes, swiping Daddy's credit card with unlimited funds multiple times a day for you.

The cool thing about this is that I would encourage my plates to date other "men." Why? Not just because I myself am polyamorous but because my plates would generate a network of BBs that would pay for THEIR stuff. They would drive THEM around. They would be THEIR emotional dumpster. If my plate's car broke down at 3 in the morning, they had a list of BBs to call for help that would show up in a heartbeat to help her and get nothing but a hug and pat in the back.

Eventually I would meet my plate's orbiters and the result of the night was always the same. The BB would buy our group drinks, I would separate myself to go meet other people. My plate would usually end up repulsed by her orbiter. Usually end up making out with me (sometimes in front of their BB/orbiter). In the end of the night, my plate would stay at my place.

I could give tons of FR about this stuff so if you guys want more detailed info (I started my RP journey in PUA) just ask in the comments.

I'll leave this video here. Just watch the first 4:30 minutes. I've already lived through these. But I hadn't seen the AF/BB switch flip so quickly before. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HGEO6ig8WsM

TL;DR Be the AF. Encourage your plate to have orbiters/BB. You get the better end of the deal. Always. Also, watch the first 4:30 minutes of the video.

EDIT: I'm about to make this long as hell but IDGAF

Oh, and as a side note. Once you have this (be the AF and encourage them to have orbiters) system setup, I invite you to try this out:

Explicitly explain to your plate the concept of AF/BB. Maybe not necessarily using these terms but openly talk about the idea of the "provider beta man or nice guy" and the "fun confident alpha." From my experience thus far, 100% of the time, they openly confirm all of this. 100% of the time. Not 75%. Not 90%. 100%.

And just to be clear, I'm not talking about crazy, daddy issues, desperate girls.

I'm talking about attractive, high value, sophisticated, raised well by their non divorced parents, kinda girl. I'm also talking about the hot nerdy girls. The hot girls you meet at a sand volleyball court. You get the point.

When you bring this concept to light, something interesting happens. They consciously become aware that they've been doing this their whole life. This phenomenon happens to women from all walks of life. From the perfect 10 unicorn in a sorority having a bunch of rich betas buying her expensive gifts to the HB9 engineering girl that has a herd of engineering betas always helping her with her homework and projects. It happens EVERYWHERE.

Now, I want to be clear about something. Women don't keep orbiters/BBs to be "mean" to boys. Or "use" them. As a matter of fact, they don't really DO (actively take action) anything to get everything they get from a BB/orbiter. They simply ALLOW this behavior to happen.

Let's analyze this for a second. Imagine if you had girls constantly trying to buy you things, clean your house, your dishes, buying you food, why in the world would you go out of your way to get them to stop? If you're clear about your intentions and already told her that you just want her as a friend (and nothing more), you did your part. If she continues orbiting you and hoping for it to work, that falls on her.

So this is what my plates do. They ALLOW their orbiters to do stuff for them. Despite my plates not reciprocating anything, the orbiters continue to cater to their needs. And I completely encourage this. It makes my life SO MUCH easier. I don't have to be the emotional tampon. I don't have to buy them anything. My only function is to enjoy my life and I make sure she has an amazing time when she's actually with me.

For those of you that know NLP and understand the concept of "anchoring," I'll make it simple. She gets horny, she thinks of me. She needs help with an assignment she thinks of one of her orbiters. She wants to have an awesome fun time, she thinks of me. She ran out of gas on the way home, she thinks of another orbiter. Get the picture?

I know to some, these concepts might seem a bit extreme but again, I invite you to try them out for yourself and watch the magic unfold.

Don't knock it til you try it.

TL;DR read the post, try it out, if you don't like it, go back to whatever behavior you had before. It's worked for me and I'm not buff, rich, or tall. I'm just pissed off for success.