Just stop caring.

fuck_six_sigma · 2014-05-04T19:06:33+00:00

This post looks like a tweet. I appreciate the sentiment but the mentality seems lazy. In my situation health and money are top on my list of priorities too but the web of subcategories associated with them is very carefully calculated. "Just stop caring" works for a lot of things and can help center your priorities on the important things but the flippancy behind it is dangerous.

sadshark · 2014-05-04T22:13:10+00:00

What happened to "The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy" ?

Is this /r/makemefeelgood ?

ibuprofiend · 2014-05-04T17:57:56+00:00

At some point everyone has the revelation that everything is in your head. Fucking everything is just your representation of it. Now I don't mean this in some mystical immaterialism sort of way, I mean that your feelings are your choice... your experiences of things are mediated by your attitudes.

Accordingly, you really can become happy just by changing your attitudes towards the things around you. Stop pining for "the One" because people say that's what you need to do. Choose for yourself if you want to pursue the One. Stop fucking cringing before women because the world says you need to be a feminist. Choose for yourself how you want to value women.

This will make you more self-centered, but women love that. If you devalue a woman, she will infer that you are much higher status than she is (whether or not that's actually true), and desire you more for it.

-drukpa-kunley- · 2014-05-04T19:18:46+00:00

Yes and no.

What you are speaking of is being outcome independent and putting yourself first.

Which is extremely important, but it is only one part of the equation.

You still need to understand sexual strategy and how to play the game. Because the game is happening, and either you learn to play it or learn to lose.

Beardsman2 · 2014-05-04T22:30:54+00:00

You're missing the most important one. Relationships. Humans are a social species, you can pretend it's not important to you if you want - it could be to your benefit - but that is just rationalizing. Relationships make us happy and they give us power.

Manuel_S · 2014-05-04T23:01:23+00:00

1 - Health 2 - Money 3 - School.

School is a method to earn money and get yourself the life you want, not the objective. So - choose the field according to your objective, and pace it for the same reason.

If you doubt me, ask liberal arts majors... check closest wal-mart, 50% odds on any counter.

Health? Without it everything else is unmitigated shit.

awfukbye · 2014-05-04T19:07:51+00:00

This is definitely true. Once you focus on those three eventually your mindset will follow I can't exactly explain what happens but you exude something that attracts females. Mostly sluts tho

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-Tyler_Durden- · 2014-05-05T01:45:13+00:00

Health should always be #1. Money is meaningless if you are sick. Live simply and don't be part of the consumerism scam. You don't need stuff.

magicalbird · 2014-05-05T05:57:24+00:00

tl;dr post in terms of sexual strategy is: MGTOW

[deleted] · 2014-05-04T19:35:10+00:00

For sure. I don't worry what others think of me. I do what I want with my life if I think it is right. I don't live to be any representation of what any segment of society considers to be an ideal model. I instead, through my own thinking and logic, have come to my own idea of what I should strive to be.

Being a guy who has fucked over 1000 girls definitely isn't part of that. I know someone who has at least fucked 250 girls because all he does is he tries to get laid. He's broke and depressed with no direction in life. He knows all there is to know about game, but he has nothing else going on for him. He lives an empty life.

Go out and accomplish great things and women will find you. I'm not saying not to try and get laid, but don't make it the centerpiece of your life. If you have goals much more important than girls, being the aloof man, mysterious man who is moving up in life will be much easier for you to pull off and will make you much more attractive to the females.

LibertarianLibertine · 2014-05-04T20:14:34+00:00

None of those 3 priorities says something about what you really seek to accomplish.

averagecycle · 2014-05-04T20:51:32+00:00

www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zp-U79tlScw

I highly recommend this video especially to new guys. you cannot truly swallow the red pill until you put yourself first and stop giving a fuck about everything else.

pro_skub · 2014-05-04T22:41:27+00:00

Your username seems to be in conflict with one of your priorities, just sayin'.

Anyway, I kind of agree. I'm probably older than you and for whatever is worth, I'll tell you the biggest shift in my priorities in the last few years: I have become more and more selfish with regards to the working life. That doesn't mean I focus more on money, necessarily, more often is the opposite. It means I'll have things my way or not have them at all. The workplace will eat you up if you let it, the rat race is a big scam.

maxmangel · 2014-05-04T23:21:37+00:00

I see there is nothing about people on your list. Humans are social creatures. We can't just turn that off. If you have no good friends, not only will this, in some ways, make you sad, but you'll also lose important social training. I know a guy who's main problem with women is that he is 'creepy' - and this stems from his lack of social awareness.

aazav · 2014-05-04T23:52:46+00:00

Exactly that.

bennyha1 · 2014-05-05T03:00:04+00:00

I have just recently discovered this sub and when i read " you are the prize last week it changed EVERYTHING. My phone wont stop and its all the girls i never thought i'd get. thanks red pill.

smokingmonkey420 · 2014-05-05T03:09:11+00:00

I think you're full of shit.

Does that offend you? Even for the slightest instant? It shouldn't, since you apparently don't care about anything but your top three.

You can pretend not to care and even trick yourself. But ultimately you will care about more things than you would like. Of course, if you fool yourself into believing you're this kind of aloof badass who doesn't give a damn about anything you'll only find this out when something unexpected happens to you. But it will still influence your behavior in the meantime despite your best intentions.

PaulRivers10 · 2014-05-05T05:47:25+00:00

If it doesn't concern one of these three things, it is trivial. This helps put things into perspective for me. Do the right things and girls will come your way. What do you think, red pillers?

I think that an entire generation of guys had this attitude, but found that it didn't work.

Men pursue, women decide - women don't show up at your door all by themselves.

Your "women aren't important" attitude is a women's attitude. They can afford to look pretty, sit back, and wait for a man to come along to sweep them off their feet. Men can't do that. Now, if you personally want to forget about women for a while - that's fine. But don't pretend that girls are going to show up on your doorstep. "Just sit back, wait, and one day it will happen" is advice and a mentality for women.

narcissus88 · 2014-05-04T18:10:01+00:00

I think you would be freer if you didn't care about those things either. See, the Cynics, or Christian or Buddhist saints. The life of the Cynic is easy, but can you live like a bum?

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Title	Just stop caring.
Author	smokingmonkey420
Upvotes	39
Comments	45
Date	May 4, 2014 5:33 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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