Marrying foreign women won't help you

HAMMURABl · 2014-09-28T13:23:34+00:00

why do western women act like they do? because they can.

why do women in foreign countries not act like the western women? because they can't.

put a foreign woman in a western environment, and she will act like western woman. because she can.

sir_wankalot_here · 2014-09-28T13:22:21+00:00

And if you do, never bring them back to your country or allow them to get a citizenship. There are actually forums on how to screw the western system for all it is worth.

Western values which we assume are universal are not.

bring_the_gimmedats · 2014-09-28T13:43:37+00:00

I knew she was Russian before he even said it. The second you show weakness to a Russian it's over.

Silvestroyer · 2014-09-28T14:02:07+00:00

The system is fucked beyond repair. This shit has become global. Pump & dump and enjoy your single life guys

Glenbert · 2014-09-28T13:29:33+00:00

LTRs that work are ones where the participants constantly find ways to DHV to the other. For women it's pretty easy: enjoy sex, don't get fat. They can also cook and clean, but few men require it these days.

For men, it's an arduous journey of constantly improving their station in life, constantly moving forward... all while remaining just as charming as you were the night she first touched your dong.

I seriously don't think most men are capable of this anymore. So now you see men trying to "hack" their way toward LTR stability by employing unicorn hunting algorithms to pick the mathematically perfect wife. They obsess over their nationality, religiosity and sexual experience. All this because, deep down, they aren't up to the task of constantly finding ways to DHV; to beta backslide.

Yes, those things all impact relationship stability, but none to the degree that the man's alpha or beta-ness impact stability. Think of the most beta/omega guy you know and imagine him with a unicorn. Next imagine the most (marriage-minded) alpha you know and pair him up with an average women... not a porn star woman, but your average non-unicorn. Who do you really think is going to have the more stable LTR? Deep down, that unicorn's biology is craving something different. FoMO is strong in unicorns.

Stop believing that if you had X, life will suddenly be easy street. Stop trying to "hack" your life. Yes, somethings make life easier, but underneath it all, life is still a hard thing, especially for guys. That's the way it is. Accept it.

Note: unicorns don't actually exist, anyway.

AssedM · 2014-09-28T13:16:08+00:00

It takes exceptionally strong individuals to overcome the incredibly toxic environment mainstream western society has become. People, girls especially, tend to conform to the mainstream rhetoric for the sake of fitting in. Its easy to find a 'good girl' overseas when that is her societies ideals which is promoted by the mainstream. The trouble is if you take her back to the US, she will be bombarded by the US mainstream media promoting hypergamous culture. She will almost always fall inline with the mainstream even if she is against it, it will slowly creep in through media and self-policing of other woman. For woman, unless she is truly strong willed (very rare), she must be surrounded by like-minded females to have any chance of fending off the brainwashing that is US media.

I just watched the new music video 'booty' by j lo and iggy, I swear to good it looks like hypnosis. Repeating the same phrase over and over again with constantly flickering from changing scenes with a high frame rate.

TekkomanKingz · 2014-09-28T14:33:46+00:00

Eastern European women are a big no-no.

Sorry Ivana.

Philhelm · 2014-09-28T14:27:50+00:00

One problem is that when you sponsor an immigrant for permanent residency, you must fill out Form I-864, Affidavit of Support. If anything happens to the marriage and she ends up on the dole, the government can reclaim some of its money. The immigration costs are high too, and there is often a waiting period, depending upon whether she is already in the U.S. with a visa. Then, they can file false VAWA petitions claiming that you had abused them so that they can get/keep the green card. Too much risk.

otto192 · 2014-09-28T14:33:54+00:00

Yeah I agree with this. Without pointing any fingers at countries, I have seen more than dozen cases. The guy marries a girl from a 'developing' country, they are married for 5 years or so. Once the girl gets a footing (passport, job, financial independence.. Etc). she dumps him, divorce rapes him then moves onto to a better guy. This is well known in Europe but still I see a lot of men going for foreign ladies.

Hamilton5M · 2014-09-28T18:12:55+00:00

Italy, Spain, France, Ukraine & Russia

NOPE

roflzaur · 2014-09-28T18:42:47+00:00

My ex-neighbor a wealthy dentist. I was 16-17 years old with my parents who live in a million dollar house in California. He had new a new car every three months, he had a hookup at several car dealerships or something. He had an bmw m6, mercedes e350, and a lambo at one point.

He brought a good looking woman from Iran, and married her so she can get citizenship. He sent her to get a masters degree at a private school to study computer science. He bought her a lexus SUV.

When she got done with her school, she divorced him and took half of his money. She got the house and kept the SUV.

I went to get my teeth cleaned with him last year, and I am now 22. I asked if he would get married again. He told me, "marriage was something for the older generation. The world is changing, don't get married".

He implied imo that women in America are turning into entitled narcissistic whores who watch too much Disney princess movies and have no self respect, thus do not respect anyone else. Thus, they have no shame divorcing a man. The solution is to not get married. She played him and don't let a woman play you.

TheRabid · 2014-09-28T15:32:00+00:00

In this day and age, why do men still want to get married? I don't understand it at all.

Hoboshanker · 2014-09-28T16:10:24+00:00

You guys should look up on the "Leftover Women" in China. I feel bad for my fellow brethren over there, Chinese girls are way worse than Western women in terms of their sense of entitlement.

General_Fear · 2014-09-28T18:37:58+00:00

Western society is a brain washing machine. At every turn, women are told that men are no good. On the radio, TV ads, sitcoms, novels, news, movies etc etc . . . It's non stop. That constant message and changes a person.

You see that a lot in politics. There was a Senator who ran as a Washington outsider and won. Funny thing was that he had 20 years experience in Washington DC. But the voters thought he was an outsider.

Motherocean · 2014-09-28T23:32:26+00:00

It makes sense that the fantasy of escaping America and finding a hot, complacent foreign wive is just that, a fantasy. Oh well, It still might be worth leaving the country in a few years when the shit hits the fan.

justthrowmeout · 2014-09-28T20:01:17+00:00

Well then it seems most/ all red pill men won't be reproducing. Is that the answer? Most women of quality aren't down with having kids out of wedlock.

VaginalAssaultRifles · 2014-09-28T16:03:18+00:00

Married a Mexican (born and raised there, immigrated in her 20's) who is almost completely sexless now. Can confirm.

kanaduhisfruityeh · 2014-09-28T15:44:13+00:00

I've seen claims that marriages with foreign women actually last longer, on average, than marriages with domestic women. But it is hard to find reliable stats comparing marriages to foreign women with marriages to domestic women.

anonlymouse · 2014-09-28T20:28:01+00:00

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Perch1 · 2014-09-29T10:37:18+00:00

It's All Women Are Like That, not All American Women Are Like That, not All Western Women Are Like That. All Women.

Okay. Women are women, sure. But they're still better in some other countries, particularly those where the power of shame is utilized. I noticed that LTR-able women are much, much more common in Korea than they are in the US. The difference is real.

HalfAsianBob · 2014-09-29T02:21:00+00:00

I married a Chinese woman. Quite good looking and sweet. Then again I am pretty good looking by Chinese standards. Tall, white skin, big eyes so it was easier to me.

That being said I have no idea how Chinese men tolerate their women and their lives. Lots of them, I mean lots, are probably never going to see marriage let alone pussy outside of a prostitute. There are a lot of young good looking couples but a lot of guys are just busted and wear glasses and look like slobs so of course the women will complain.

My wife is alright. She's loyal and moral and family oriented. More than I could ask from a western woman. She doesn't sleep around and never will. But I'm aware how things work here. Leftover women have insane standards for men (usually, tall rich and handsome) and failing that once they hit 30-31 they start looking for a foreigner. It's pure hypergamy plain and simple. But there's simply not enough tall rich and handsome Chinese guys to go around. Pick one of the three, not all three. Most guys are probably going to die alone. Then there are the girls who just want to fuck foreigners. It's bad all around.

You simply can't win at life.

I also got a cousin who is Chinese. She's pretty ugly. Does sports fitness training and all that. Dark and with a mouth like a fish. When I was in high school and living with her family she would bring home giant white and Jewish guys and get pounded out on the couch. Then she found some meek tall polish guy (6'2", 260 pounds) and married him, then had a kid. Eight months after the baby was born she divorced him (actually finalizing now). She got what she wanted - the genes. Everything else about the guy was beta and she wanted nothing to do with it.

If you want to really have kids, I mean, do you want to do it in a foreign country? There's no opportunities here, there's no opportunity in the Us, it's fucked everywhere. Part of the problem is that betas believe that god lives life. How many of you would trade places with some slave waiter working in a third tier city in china? What kind of life is that? The Chinese piss me off with their worship of money and education. At the end of the day people just laugh at them. They hate each other and treat each other like dogs. These Chinese fathers are essentially sending their daughters off to the US to get fucked and chucked by alphas.

Title	Marrying foreign women won't help you
Author	anonlymouse
Upvotes	82
Comments	150
Date	September 28, 2014 12:36 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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