Monday Field Report post

bustersin · 2014-01-13T21:59:40+00:00

Fresh unplugged here. Married 8 years, had her for 14. Took the pill a few weeks ago, so this sums up my story so far.

I had some natural RP tendencies before. I refuse to be henpecked, never give into her when she's being emotional, let her deal with most of the housework. I made her chase me throughout college and I did not go monogamous with her until I graduated and offered to bring her with me. For my BP traits, I'm a computer jock and not very athletic (although I do lift for my health), I've always had a lazy streak, and I consider myself a liberal guy with compassion for women, children, the weak and poor.

About her. She cooks, she cleans, she's smart and has a valuable degree, she's cute, loyal, super traditional, and I got her as a young virgin those 14 years ago. High value woman. After 2 kids she now has a lot of weight she needs to lose, but I still find her attractive and love the hell out of her.

Her high organizational skills allowed me to grow complacent over the years. She took over our banking 5 years ago. She fed me well and got me 40lbs overweight. She gave me kids. Life, culture, and my laziness and ignorance have transformed me more and more into a beta. It seemed like the natural course. Just sit back and let it happen. We'll gripe about it with our buddies over beers.

A recent wakeup call occurred when I lost my last job. I am a leader in a well paying but volatile tech field and the funding got pulled for my whole team. Me and my 15 employees were tossed on the street. We saw it coming. I talk to my wife about my work and she knew it was coming. We succeeded technically but failed politically. It happens.

I had matching job offers the next day, and a few for 50% more in places I'd rather not move (NYC/SF aren't for us). I was calm and confident. I decided to take interviews and a few weeks sabbatical to recharge and help me decide where to go next. She couldn't handle the uncertainty. Her world came crashing down.

Sex stopped. Fights over nothing. We have cash on hand to live for years and are well ahead of the game in retirement funds, but somehow every time she had to transfer money to pay a bill I was failing her as a provider. She couldn't express her feelings to me in such direct words, but that was what my logic could pull out of the maze of her female mind. I took one of the offers and things went back to normal. But, for the first time ever it dawned on me that if I was really out on my ass, in the cold with no prospects, she'd be gone as soon as she could rationalize it to herself and her family and friends.

Then I found TRP.

I'm fighting for my manhood back now. Knowing the rules to the game makes it so much easier to play. She'd been questioning my purchases more and more, so I started a new bank account and took over paying the bills. She fought me, but I'm taking the lead in our marriage dynamic again. I no longer plead for sex. If I'm in the mood, I initiate. If she declines, I leave the house for a few hours and go watch betas strike out at a bar.

It's working. There's progress. There's hope.

Thanks to the community for teaching the ancient art of being an actual goddamn man. I'm looking forward to learning more. I expect we'll both be happier in the end.

emptyform · 2014-01-13T20:58:26+00:00

Just wanted to thank RP for helping me with my LTR game immeasurably. My main girl asked me, in a roundabout way (so we could fuck without condoms) to be exclusive, and I'm gonna do it. At some point she described me as having a sweet side, but definitely very masculine, "and it's so hot". That's never happened to me before, and wouldn't have happened. She's overall the highest quality girl I've been with since my first relationship in college, she appreciates me for who I am, and it's no coincidence that I started seeing her shortly after I found this subreddit 3 months ago. (Though I had been applying some limited RP concepts for years, I had never been fully immersed and had that inner transformation).

A couple hours after fucking her, she texted me that she wanted me again. Never felt like such a genuine man. Fuck the mainstream reddit hivemind that shits on this.

redpillspeeddate · 2014-01-13T19:01:15+00:00

It has been a good weekend with Saturday being one of my best days since swallowing the pill.

In the past I have not dealt with or been with many Latin American girls but I think my preferences might be changing.

I have a tried and true 3 or 4th date sequence with a new plate that always seems to work on setting her firmly spinning for me. I give her a surfing lesson. This does a number of things, it tests her in an uncomfortable situation, gives lots of nice drama, and gives one of the best dopamine hits in the world when she catches a wave. This puts me in a hard amused mastery position as I am able to teach her then show her how good I am at it. This date works really often to set those tingles off big, the only qualification is that you should have at least setup the situation where you have fucked before or been close to it. This date always ends up with fun after.

So, I pick up my Mexican plate up, drive down to a small surf town on the coast, suit up (this is great because you are both getting naked or near naked in a parking lot) we surf for an hour then grab a quick lunch and head back to my place where she just about rips my clothes off. Only the second time with this girl (first was Wednesday) and spend the next few hours having a good time. She is leaving for Mexico for 2 weeks so she is getting as much as she can, she drops a shit test on me... So I only sleep with on person at a time so I am going to be not meeting anyone in Mexico... My response... That's nice, I am sure you are going to have a great trip. My beta self would have parroted her comment and kept to it. I know better now. At the last minute her brother who is her ride to the airport bails, so I end up dropping her off at the airport. I am smiling and pretty happy with how things are going. This is at about 7:30pm

Out of the blue an old plate pops up and says she has two Brazilian friends visiting and wants to go out. She says one is single and really wants a cute guy to go drinking and dancing with. I invited the 3 girls over and this is where the chicktini and having your own bar comes into play. They are supposed to arrive at my place at 9, they show up at 10 of course, I make it very clear if they don't make it by 10, I'm going out without them.

They show up and the Brazilian girls are stunning, even better the single one is the best looking with an ass that doesn't quit. I entertain by mixing some pretty complex drinks, mixology and owning a well stocked bar is a hobby of mine. (Mai Tais are great and strong) We head up the street to a former plates house party, more drinks there and the host pays a bunch of attention to me, further raising my value.

We finish our drinks and move on. We are walking about 3 blocks but before we get to the end of the drive way the hottie is complaining about being cold. The 2 other girls speak good English, but the hottie speaks almost none. I wrap my arms around her and hold her close for warmth. We head to the bar and on the way we are walking ahead of the other two and I grab her move her out of sight in a door way to kiss her. She just about melts in my arms, I made a game of it doing it about 3-4 times before we get to the bar. Kissing girls in doorways is a great move, and I think should be attempted on every date, it rarely fails and puts you in a great dominate position.

We get to the bar, of course one of them left their ID at home, but I work the bouncer a bit and we all get in, no cover and no worries about id. The girls are all 26 so it's not a big deal. The Brazilian girls of course make a beeline for the dance floor and the old plate hangs back with me. She tells me the game is going well and that I am going to owe her big for tonight, we agree on 5 favors. She then tells me, that I keep doing what I am doing, her and the other Brazilian girl are going to leave the hottie at my place and go home after if she is comfortable enough. I am good with this and she promises to make it happen.

We head out to the dance floor, hottie and I dance, make out and have a grand time. The music is crap and we don't even order drinks when my old plate complains she needs to go because in the morning she is taking them sight seeing. I call an Uber, a Black SUV (never hurts to look like a baller) shows up and we pile in for the 5 minute ride back to my place. I sit up front with the driver and he is just about beside himself with what I have following me. I wish him a good night and we head back in to my place.

I make another round of drinks, pull out google translate on my phone and hottie and I figure that we can actually communicate with it. This girl literally knows about 20 words in English, and I don't know any Portuguese. The other 2 girls call it a night and leave, and it's on with hottie and I. No big LMR, but she does try to keep her panties on in the bedroom a bit, I have none of it and have my way with her, some shit tests are physical. True to form the hotter the woman the better your performance, especially since I had gone several rounds in the afternoon. We end up using google translate on our phones most of the night to communicate but, I really saw why guys love Brazilian women. She was caring, she loved touching me and was so happy that I lead the night.

In the morning I get a text from the old plate that her truck is dead so can I take them in the morning? I'm cool with it because I do enjoy playing tour guide and spending a bit more time with hottie doesn't sound like a bad morning. We go pick up the other two, do a nice hour tour of the best parts of the area and then I drop the 2 girls of at the airport. The whole time driving hotties hands never left me, which is such a welcome difference than American girls who seem to lack that basic affection. I dropped off the old plate, we called it 2 favors for the airport and tour and I went home to get some sleep.

Total cost on the day, $15 for burgers after surfing, $15 for the uber ride home, maybe $10 bucks of my booze and a tank of gas. Who says you need lots of $$ to get laid?

tl;dr I get my Mexican and Brazilian flags in one week via surfing, and an old plate pre-selecting the hell out of me. Driving both girls to the airport after.

Edited for grammar and crappy iPad entry.

PFN_LIST_FUCKED · 2014-01-13T19:28:06+00:00

This story just wrapped itself up nicely last week. Back in December, I went to a bar and met three girls: A, B and C. 'A' was an old friend of mine. B was waifish with a hint of goth. C was young and the hottest of the group. 'A' asked me to join them outside, so I tagged along. I was mostly quiet for the first part of the night, until B and I argued about movies. During a lull, C asked if I wanted another beer. She came back, I thanked her and pulled her in a bit closer while I talked to her friends.

The contact continued. C and I only had a brief conversation about her job and about music. She continued to offer me beer and cigarettes for the night, while I was trying to get in good with B. Her two friends left for a moment, she jumped tongue first into my mouth. When they came back, she asked me to meet her in the women's bathroom. I went in, told her we should go back to my place and she demanded that I took her now. It wasn't a busy night and it afforded us a degree of privacy.

I attribute it to pursuing her friend, and she tried to win my attention by offering vices and closing the gaps fast. I got her phone number at the end of the night and met up with her later that week only to discover her quiet nervousness. I had difficulty producing the same energy I showed at the bar that night because I had nothing to work with besides shy responses. I considered it a loss and moved on.

I went out last weekend, ran into some friends and caught up with them. C was floating around, but I never stopped to talk to her. My friends left, and I went to another bar for a snack and to talk to a bartender friend. A good friend of mine showed up and he cut me off when I was telling him this story. He showed me his phone and a text conversation. 'A' took a picture of me making out with C to show my friend, and he already knew the best parts. My friend added that 'A' is frustrated with C because she's banging dealers to score free coke. Neat.

snwborder52 · 2014-01-13T21:46:54+00:00

I made out with and got the number of an HB7 last night. I've never done that before. I was limited to 5s and 6s for most of my life.

Quick backstory. I was obese and an omega. Lost 80lbs I'm now merely an overweight beta most of the time. But when I'm at Karaoke, I'm an alpha. I have an incredible voice (I can do fantastic Freddy Mercury impersonation) and not surprisingly, my SMV is at it's peak right after I finish singing. Also unsurprisingly, I pretty much can only pull at karaoke. I try other places of course, but I have 10x the success at karaoke on Sundays.

I meet 7 last week. She hears me sing and we flirt. I'm also gaming another girl. I promise to sing with her that night, but then break my promise in order to sing with the other girl (who drops "I have a boyfriend" right as I go in to kiss her. Doh). This week she sees me flirting with another girl as she walks in. Massive SMV. She sees I'm not only the best singer but I display social dominance as well by having lots of friends and the attention of other girls.

I have my hands all over her for most of the night. I do small things to display my dominance. Tell her what to do, tease her, etc.

My favorite move of the night is after we made out. I'm sitting on a chair and she's dancing in front of me between my legs lightly grinding on me. I'm not touching her at all, but let her do her thing. She starts to drift away, so I grab the back of her belt with one finger and pull her back in. It was a subtle move, but it felt really powerful and she responded by grinding more. The move said no. you are mine and will dance where I want you to.

She wasn't dtf that night, but promised she would be back next week. I got her number and plan on setting up a pre-karaoke date for some comfort building time so by the time the magic hour rolls around, she leaves with me instead of by herself.

Oh and the other girl from last night? She gave me "I want to fuck you" eyes and promised to come back. I'll be picking her up as a plate as well in the future. The seed has been planted.

PFN_LIST_FUCKED · 2014-01-13T18:32:55+00:00

Make your story a comment so it can have its own thread, so we can have reports and their own responses instead of giant jumble of both.

nechoha · 2014-01-13T22:28:27+00:00

First fr. Last week was first week of spring semester at my university. I ran into a few guy friends and exchanged numbers, raising social capital by being a Goto guy. I received two girls numbers, a taken girl (more in a bit), and one girl I plan swap numbers with tomorrow.

The taken girl I met in my morning lab on Thursday. At lunch, she's waiting ahead in line and sees me, she waves and I smile back. Get closer in line and listening to what she puts on her burrito (it's like a moe's). I say, "Yuck, cucumbers are disgusting, we can't be friends." Some teasing ensues where she won by calling me old fart (I am 21, she's 20), but I do Mae a point to take my phone out and ask for her number. Friday after my first lecture, she wake into classroom for the next class. I'm dressed up bc I wanted too. I'm standing talking with my instructor and I see her smile, she can't stop looking at me. I eventually have to say out loud, "XXX stop staring at me." She stops and is speechless. Later, I get an email from her that she can be awkward and just got into an r ship but still gives me her number. So I'm ignoring the email and just going to raise my smv in general and in places I have/will run into her again. And ask for her number again Thursday.

JirosGyros · 2014-01-13T19:01:11+00:00

Not a great weekend for me. Not even worth a full FR.

Friday - Not a damn thing, but got a telling off from the boss for my antics with the redhead last week. Apparently some customers complained. Hilariously the customers dont know the half of it.

Saturday - 3 phone numbers and a make out. In what was for me a ballsy move i asked for 2 phone numbers simultaneously. 2 friends, both wanting a song, being slightly flirty. Told them i wanted their number.

"Which one of us" "Both of you"

They kinda looked at each other and gave them. Got a snog and plenty of replies from one, she's pretty much agreed to "audition" for me next week, nothing and radio silence from the other :-S

sadshark · 2014-01-14T04:15:50+00:00

Intro: 2 weeks back went out on a wine & food date with a friend and 2 girls. We got them drunk, but left them high & dry because we had other plans. They couldn't believe that we left them like that, nothing like that ever happened to them. They are both promoters to car shows, cigarettes and whatever else, so they have stunning bodies, not so good faces though.

This Saturday: One of the girls, K, asks me to come to her birthday in a club. I tell her that I can come on one condition, sarcastically, she would have to take care of me since I won't know anyone and I'm really shy in social situations and talking to girls in general. She laughs her ass off and tells me that's total bullshit, she knows my reputation.

I get to the party, I immediately introduce myself to everyone, and the other girl from the previous date is here, M, she hugs me and seems genuinely happy to see me. I ask K why are her guests sitting down, and she tells me that she can't make 'em dance. I just say "after this, don't underestimate me", I go to the table and starting talking to everyone, 10 people sitting down, after 3 minutes everyone is up and dancing. I don't like to dance in clubs, but I wanted to push my social proof. I tell K "told you to not underestimate me, it took me 3 mins to do what you tried all night", she "I can't fucking believe you managed to pull that off, hugs me tight and bites my neck" .

The monkey dance contiues on the dancefloor with me alternating between K and M. Both grinding on me, pinching my ass, me pulling them in, pushing them off. There are 4 girls in the group (also promoters), all surrounding me while the other chumps are sitting on the outside circle nodding their heads like parrots and watching the entire scene unfold.

I get on a 1-on-1 grinding session with M, i interlock my fingerswith hers (i swear, this is fucking golden, gives SO much confort), squeeze her hand tight and pull her in for the kiss. When she approaches my lips, ready for the kiss, I turn my head to the side and whisper in her ear "that's not nice, K would see us", she grabs my lower back hard and bites me on the neck (wtf is with these girls and biting?). The reason I didn't kiss her there is because i knew it would cause drama, since it's K's birthday and she was already giving me the stinkeye when I was dancing with M.

I take M's hand and tell her to "come", she "where?", me "just come". She follows without hesitation led by my hand, we get out of the club and the second the door closes behind us I pull her in and kiss her. She's fucking moaning just from a kiss. We continue for about 5 minutes then I try to pull her home. I say "let's go" while pulling her towards the taxis parked next to the club. She asks where we're going, I tell her "let's be adventurous, and live in the moment, carpe diem". I get to the cab with her and she stops. "Please tell me where we're going". I tell her that we're going to my place where I we can chill and drink a bottle of wine. She says "no, I can't leave K on her birthday, not tonight". I tell her "well, I'm bored of this club, im bouncing, either come with me or I'm going alone". She replies "I wish I could, I REALLY do, but not tonight, I can't just dissapear like this on her birthday". I let go of her and prepare to get in the cab, she stops me and says "You have my number, I'm out of town for the next 5 days, but on saturday come over at my place and I'll give you the massage of your life", I pull her in, give her a kiss and make a pinky-promise (bitches love pinky promises). Tell her to wish K, happy birthday again, and leave.

No f-close, either because I couldn't hold my frame when she said she can't leave K behind, or simply because of the birthday logistics. Either way, a fun night, and a new social circle full of females. Next saturday I'll get that "massage".

Edit: Forgot to mention that M has a boyfriend for 4 years, like I give a fuck, but just goes to show how TRP is 100% right.

slcjosh · 2014-01-14T05:05:07+00:00

Birthday weekend!

Had an awesome night friday.

Worked late (I have an awesome career revolving around sports so working late is something I enjoy). Finished up my work around 945pm after two nba franchises finished playing. I had a few beers during the event because fuck it its my birthday. I was feeling good. Went to one of the bars im a reg with my friend and his plate. Rolled in, bouncers giving bro hugs, and bar tender chick has my drink ready on the bar by the time I walk up to the serving station. I grab my drink and pay, and notice this girl next to me who is very sexy, eyeing me. I wink at her, slam my drink and motion her to come over.

Big smile on her face, she walks over and asks "who the fuck are you" very playfully. I joke with her I told her I was a famous actor I own the bar etc etc. I never told her anything serious but my name we chat a bit, and another friend of mine comes to say hi to me. I tell her to give me her number because I need to entertain my minions. She puts it in my phone. I playfully push her away and tell her to stop trying to seduce me and shes a scorpion woman. Laughs are had she leaves.

Talked with friends a while, three of which are female and quite attractive. Two are very drunk and touchy. One is a a pretty big sloot so she is very handsy with me. I'm just enjoying the attention and the value its adding to me for other girls. The girl I number closed earlier stopped by on her way out, hugged me and said shed call me. She had a beta orbiter hanging behind waiting to leave with her. I could literally see his heart fall out of his ass when she said shed call, he was visibly upset. I felt bad for the guy for like .09 seconds and then carried on.

Spent the rest of the night enjoying my friends and company, shot some pool, and some random group of guys and girls bought an ass load of shots for me and my friends for my birthday weekend. I Got pretty drunk so I just played dj on the juke box and talked with a lot of people. Didn't run any more game.

Saturday I hosted a party at a bar. Had about 25-30 guests come and go. Mostly played a good host and socialized socialized with dozens of people. By 12 i was shit ass hammered due to 15 people buying me a drink. A buddy of mine offered his house for an after party, we went there before the bar closed. Don't remember shit about the after party, but I did wake up naked in a bed with one of the cute girls who lives there. Looked on the floor to find my pants and cigs so I could gage how serious the hangover was going to be while i enjoyed some black death. Saw two condom wrappers on the floor and just chuckled a bit to myself as I pulled my jeans on. She asked what was so funny and I said "I'm calling the cops, you took advantage of me" I smiled and spanked her ass as I left. Smoked, realized I wasn't hung over miraculously, and called a buddy to come pick me up. Went back in to girls room, she was putting on work clothes. I told her to "hold off on the pants, I wasnt through with her yet". She said " you used up all the condoms last night. I just smiled and said "ah yeah" and walked out to the football game while i waited for my ride.

Spent the rest of the day working. Good bday weekend.

Title	Monday Field Report post
Author	redpillspeeddate
Upvotes	37
Comments	41
Date	January 13, 2014 6:04 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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