Never forget that she is a child

Whether you are talking about plates, STRs or especially LTRs, you can never forget that she is a child. She has the body of a woman but the more attractive and feminine she is, the more childlike she is. Neoteny is the adult retention of child like traits. The studies on this are not clear but there is some evidence which suggests that having a more childlike face as an adult elicits better responses and more resources from other adults. There has been a previous post on this but the science is not complete. Some researchers have suggested that evolution due to sex selection may have occurred due to males seeking more neotenous features in female faces. So while the science is still thin on this one, to me it makes sense.

We do not need science to tell us that women are children. It is a well established red pill truism so I am going to proceed with this post on the assumption that neoteny due to evolution or sexual selection has resulted in more attractive women being more childlike not only in appearance, but more importantly in their minds. Remember the last time you bought your girl a soft toy? Remember her jumping up and down like a child and clapping her hands? Well what more proof do I need.

It can be easy to forget that you are sitting with a child when you are alone with your girl. After all you just violated her in whatever lewd fashion that happened to take your fancy. She has a grown up job and went to university, she seems to understand the plot of Game of Thrones (she doesn't). You have also grown up being told that she is your equal and she deserves your respect (she isn't and she doesn't). So how do we break through this illusion of maturity?

You break the illusion by observing her behaviour and her reactions. Why does she still have soft toys on her bed? Why does she have hello kitty pyjamas? Why does she cry when watching movies? Why is she scared of moths? Why is her favourite food ice cream? Why does she vote when she has no concept of the left or the right? Why do you spank her? That's right, of course! It is because even though she looks like an adult, and you have been conditioned to believe she is an adult, she is actually a child.

How do we use this secret and powerful knowledge to our advantage? We use it to make our lives easier, to quell the frustration we feel when they misbehave, to encourage behaviour we find desirable and importantly, we use it to help her live a happy life thanks to our alpha guidance and protection. Your girl does not want to think and she certainly does not want to lead, that is the job of an adult. You are the grown up in the relationship, so act like it.

If a child misbehaves then a good parent corrects their behaviour either with loving guidance, stern words, or in extreme cases, a spanking. Women are no different from children. A good parent does not lose their temper (frame) when a child misbehaves. Next time she misbehaves try and remember that she is a child and you will not lose frame. It mentions on the sidebar that the best way to treat your girl is like she is your daughter (obviously we excise the sexual aspect for the purpose of this discussion, this is a thought experiment and a lesson in frame).

A lot of behaviour which would be considered beta is perfectly acceptable within the context of a decent relationship when you are alpha enough (whether plate, STR or LTR). It is fine to talk in a silly voice to your girl, buy her a stuffed toy, play childish games with her. Do it sparingly and use it as a reward for good behaviour. Always stick to the 2:3 ratio of giving her 2 rewards for every three she gives you. Having some childish fun with your girl has several good effects. Firstly it is a great display of comfort, secondly it makes her think that you are her dream guy, the alpha who has feelings (of course you are faking it - you viscious, Machiavellian, testosterone beast) and it appeals to her true nature, the child within.

In my opinion this knowledge is most useful within the confines of an LTR. When your woman is acting out, remembering that she is a child helps you to hold frame. Always know that you are the adult and you are making ALL of the decisions. Knowing that she needs to be comforted and made to feel safe, and providing that adult guidance for her will improve her behaviour dramatically. Treating her as an equal is the dumbest thing you can do, would you ask a child to help you build a house?

So remember that if you are alpha enough, it is OK to have some fun with your girl. A teddy bear given to a girl by a nerdy, fat, cunt-struck teenager is "creepy!" the same teddy bear in the hands of Chad is "adorable!"