Reading this material makes me angry...

HumanSockPuppet · 2013-04-29T02:15:57+00:00

Way to much shit to do and not enough time...

I know what you're feeling. You feel like you're behind the curve. That if only you had learned this shit sooner, your life would be so different now. It's easy, tempting even, to think that you've "lost a lot of time" that you'll never get back. But here's the thing:

Everything that has happened until this point in your life HAD TO HAPPEN in order for you to reach the conclusions you have reached today.

Who knows how differently you might have responded to The Red Pill if you had heard it too soon? Without the pain of experience, you might have laughed it away, disregarded the Red Pill's truth, said that it was nothing but sensationalist patriarchal nonsense.

Your shame in defeat, and your subsequent anger, are precisely what it took to awaken you.

Be proud, because there are countless scores of other men who still languish in their delusions. There are men who never learned the lesson at all, and they carried their ire and sorrow with them to their graves.

As long as you're not dead, it's never too late.

thecajunone · 2013-04-29T01:46:12+00:00

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Deldar · 2013-04-29T02:19:36+00:00

I stopped giving a shit about what others think of me. I started lifting for strength, not aesthetics.

YessingtoHard · 2013-04-29T00:58:33+00:00

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RedHonest · 2013-04-29T05:46:42+00:00

Yep. Was omega until two years ago. Life is much better now.

Way to much shit to do and not enough time...gotta lift, socialize, make friends, get more hobbies, get a good career, go out, sleep, work...and make all the 'right' decisions so I don't waste any more time.

Just work on one or two things at a time. You need to personalize game to yourself, figure out where you biggest weaknesses are, and proceed from there. But think of it like this: In ten years you'll be 36. When you wake up in the morning, where do you want to be in your life? You know, absolutely, you don't want to be exactly where you are now.

Also remember that game is actually pretty holistic. The difference between alphas and betas, for the most part, is that alphas are in a success cycle and betas are in a failure cycle. The different components of game reinforce each other, each element makes the other elements easier.

There are two big stumbling blocks for anyone beginning game: First is ejecting out of the failure cycle; the second is getting swept into the success cycle. Right now all of your habits, your self-image, your personality while interacting with others, your physiology, your musculature, your weight, your career, your friends, all reinforce each other producing the beta you are today. Any or all of these elements are capable of pulling you back in.

To give you reference, I lost 180 lbs, gained muscle, shaved my head (was going bald), went on ADHD meds, moved across the country (away from my family), and started a new job. Ignore the retards who advise you, clumsily, "Be yourself." No, Re-Invent Yourself is the 25th Law of Power, and the only way of relishing truly what a man is capable of, and is how I became the attractive man I've become today. But I didn't do it all at one time, but one at a time, while I kept reading, and improving, and forming my habits and my will to what I wanted it to become.

It is more than possible. I have great faith in you.

2013-04-29T03:11:04+00:00

Luckily after the first couple phases of anger, rejection of social norms, and depression, you come out to the other end of focused anger/self-motivation, where you find a new drive to put yourself into.

That's my experience. I wrote some damn angry posts early on in discovering this forum. Now, I'm still angry, but directing that anger towards a personally positive outlet of improvement and getting shit done.

Luckily you don't have the wall to hit, unlike your feminine counterparts. Appreciate that, and move forward.

socal83 · 2013-04-29T03:14:08+00:00

But here I am now at 26 trying to turn things around...and it is overwhelming

lol dude i thought you were going to say you were 45 or some shit.

friend your fun times are only now beginning. i'm going to turn 30 this year and let me tell you, the last year of my life (after game/pickup/redpill has been fucking legendary and i see no stopping any time soon

IT REALLY IS ALL IN YOUR MIND.

learn pickup and wear a rubber.

Futsushi · 2013-04-29T01:55:35+00:00

Well, if you're single, go out and get working on your game. You seem to already know to hit the gym and work on yourself.

Go to /r/malefashionadvice and work on the outfit and live for yourself.

Most guys who go through a dry spell (relationship wise) and complain will hear the idea about not worrying and it will happen when you least expect it.

I thought about this recently and I think that is a total TRP idiom. Outcome Independent.

Just work on yourself and your social skills. You will make mistakes, but it only sucks if you don't learn from it.

There is a ton of good info here but the best thing to do it just go outside with your new found knowledge and practice it.

TD;DR: Don't go crazy, don't worry about shit but getting yourself in the best position for yourself. Everything comes from being the best "whatever" you want to be and not tying yourself to anyone's expectations. When it comes to people's opinions or judgments... Fuck 'em and then you get to fuck them.

captshady · 2013-04-29T13:03:03+00:00

Feed on that anger, to push you to start putting game in to action. It'll help!

I can empathize, only my experiences happened after my marriage went to crap. Did counseling, read bullshit online, about having a successful marriage, with an increase in the amount of sex. Every. Last. Bit. of advice, face to face or online, was about ME doing more. Nothing for her. "Oh, you're not getting laid enough in your marriage? Do more chores at home, let her sleep in while you get up with the kids (even if you have a job and she doesn't), tell her often that she's beautiful, tell her constantly you love her, run her a bath and put a towel in the dryer so you can meet her with a warm towel, and finally: Don't expect sex, or ask for it ... then it will come!

I woke up every day with one focus ... making her happy. Went to bed thinking, "I guess I failed at making her happy today, because we're in month 4 of not having sex". Then came that call from Vegas one day, when she took my place with 4 guys friends, and one female friend, because she "needs" a vacation, and I stayed home with the kids. Her question, upon landing in Vegas: "Can I not be married on this trip?" Inner voice: "It's not that she doesn't want sex. She doesn't want sex with YOU, dude."

Gentle-Mang · 2013-04-30T15:40:45+00:00

But here I am now at 26 trying to turn things around...and it is overwhelming. I feel like a college kid that forgot to study for his final and is about to fail.

One of the nicest things about being male is not having a biological clock to contend with. Your 30s are your prime if you take care of yourself.

Don't worry, you've got your whole life ahead of you.

DukeofEP · 2013-04-29T02:41:41+00:00

Hey man. I'm really happy for you, but you can relax. You're WAY ahead of the game. I didn't figure this out until about 33. The vast majority of men will not figure this out in their lifetimes. You don't have to stress about doing a million things at once. Work on changing your approach and attitude toward women and everything else will follow. You're not going to reach your peak SMV for another decade or so, so everything's just going to get better. Don't worry about what you don't have. Go red pill from the inside out. Taking the pill was the hardest part.

dreamingawake09 · 2013-04-29T03:43:44+00:00

Hey man, don't even trip over it. It happens to all of us here at TRP. When we first learn about it, you get bitter and angry, that is always step 1, the next part is coming to terms with it all and figuring out what YOU need to do in YOUR life. You're 26, I'm 22. We're still young, unmarried, and haven't been taken to the cleaners by ex-wives, unlike some of the other members here in this subreddit who learnt the hard way.

I use to be one of those nice guys and all that bullcrap, and it didn't get me anywhere. You can still be respectful and get what you want, but being nice ALL the time will get you nowhere. Learnt that while in college, and turned it all around, started getting in shape and eating better, developed passions in the hobbies I've partaken in, and life is pretty legit. One thing you have to remember is that women shouldn't be your priority, they should only be a compliment to what you as a person are.

So for now, focus on yourself, your goals and your ambitions. Develop those passions for the things in life that you love, just overall improve yourself, don't worry about these hypergamous chicks and all that shit until you fell ready to join in on the game. Once you do that, it becomes extremely easy. Stay up man, and stay you.

silent_regard · 2013-04-29T06:44:04+00:00

Perseverance man. You still have time. It will pay off. Every great man has gone through shit. You can't realize your full potential unless you've repeatedly stared defeat in the face and said "I will do better."

telnet_reddit_80 · 2013-04-29T09:32:03+00:00

gotta lift, socialize, make friends, get more hobbies, get a good career, go out, sleep, work

Socializing, friends, hobbies, and a career are all optional.

has anyone else here gone through anything similar?

Overwhelmed with the amount of shit to do, yes, all the time. Split it into small, manageable chunks and execute. Also, read The War of Art.

ss_camaro · 2013-04-29T08:10:18+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/realmasculinity/

Vespaman · 2013-04-29T14:03:42+00:00

Im in the exact same boat as you mate

Bletz · 2013-05-01T03:13:56+00:00

This is the stupidest sub-reddit I've ever seen. I hope this is a circlejerk, so far what I've gathered is that:

-Woman have totally conquered the "sex game" and use it to fuck whoever they want whenever they want and it is societies fault.

Manipulating woman into having sex with you is the path to happiness

Am I missing anything?

2013-04-29T02:32:21+00:00

Good.

lordslag · 2013-04-29T02:43:49+00:00

I made these realizations around 28 or so, without the aid of men like you find here. I went mostly went MGTOW and turned Ghost. Mostly hookers and hotel rooms for me when I have cash, Game when I don't. I'm giving serious thought to marrying foreign, I remember the way those Filipino girls treated me.

In any case, welcome, and don't worry about those itching sensations, they're just your spine and balls regenerating themselves.

GaiusScaevolus · 2013-04-29T05:01:58+00:00

How did you deal and not go crazy?

Who said I didn't go crazy?

Anger is natural, crazy is natural. Hopefully with further study, self improvement and the corresponding gains, you will come to accept these things as facts of life. To be clear, it never becomes okay, but eventually you'll accept reality and it will bother you less.

Deldar · 2013-04-29T06:59:48+00:00

Squats and oats.

ElChingaso · 2013-04-29T07:54:24+00:00

Fellow 26-year-old here. Found The Red Pill last month

I strongly relate to the feeling that living The Red Pill can seem like an uphill battle

The Red Pill, however, is the truth. Entropy favors the truth

I try to live the Red Pill not by mimicking those I think to be Alpha, but by observing my own actions and the world around me through the filter of Alpha vs. Beta. Are the words that will come out of my mouth Alpha or are they Beta? Is the action that I am about to take Alpha or will it be Beta? I am constantly fucking up but I know that if I can continue to look at things in an Alpha/Beta context my behavior will inevitably change in a positive way

Yes life aboard the Nebuchadnezzar is difficult. Yes you can hook back up to the Matrix. But do you really want to?

r_rships_account · 2013-04-29T07:59:56+00:00

Fuck at least guys are honest about what they want for the most part, THAT is what i would have liked to see from woman too

Ha. Ha. Ha.

lifewrecker · 2013-04-29T16:07:12+00:00

Go punch a brick wall. That's what I do when I get angry. Then you can walk around with manly swollen, scraped up knuckles. Nobody will F with you.

Title	Reading this material makes me angry...
Author	YessingtoHard
Upvotes	63
Comments	54
Date	April 29, 2013 12:55 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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