Suing for Mumu-Money

[deleted] · 2013-08-17T18:12:49+00:00

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W-Z-R · 2013-08-17T14:13:57+00:00

Christ, when women say stuff like "It's your daughter, you raised her for 4 years, shame on you." That's borderline sociopathic, imagine how he must feel to have invested so heavily in something, for so long, just to find it to have all been a lie.

EDIT: Mumu-money is a great term.

Offensive_Brute · 2013-08-17T15:51:05+00:00

His best option is to disappear. Scorched earth.

FAwhy · 2013-08-17T16:08:02+00:00

So you belive love for a child can be turned on and off like a switch?

Its fucked up how many women equate love to mean financial support. I'm completely disgusted. Just when i thought the red pill was starting to go down with less bitterness I read this.

Charlesthehamster · 2013-08-17T15:42:59+00:00

Ever notice that women who can have children aren't generally lining up to adopt and take care of other people's children, but instead bear their own. But then as soon as you find out you're not the father they say, "that's not what makes you the dad." Well if genes have so little to do with being a parent why don't they just adopt and take care of other people's kids more, save them the labor pains. Maybe because deep down they know it's bullshit, but they still need a provider.

Pushnikov · 2013-08-17T14:21:51+00:00

Ya, the legal advice that the law takes him to be the parent if it's not challenged early on is absurd (I don't doubt that it's true.) Seriously, legally enforced cuckolding. Brilliant. More ammo for the anti-marriage argument.

Max___Power · 2013-08-17T12:55:56+00:00

Lol at all the posters telling him that it is his daughter, despite it actually being fathered by a different man. The feminine imperative in action. Get the genes from the good looking man who would never consider you for a relationship and then trick some loser into raising it as his own.

As if you ever needed another reason to not get married, I can just blow a load in your wife, and if she decides you'd be a better provider for the child than I (and she will), well let's just hope you're not the type of person who likes money, happiness or autonomy.

Kronouranos · 2013-08-17T13:44:36+00:00

God, when women fake domestic abuse shit like that, I get pretty pissed off. The guy handled it well in that situation and still got severely fucked.

Damn.

toysjoe · 2013-08-17T13:08:08+00:00

That was one of those posts that after you read them, you have to close your browser, and just sit there for a minute whispering "Fuck...."

browndelicious · 2013-08-17T15:34:18+00:00

Take home lesson: always take video when your woman stays going psycho.

ss_camaro · 2013-08-17T12:48:41+00:00

OP in case deleted:

A bit of history: We were together for 7 years. She got pregnant 2 years into the relationship with a child I presumed to be mine. 6 months ago we got into a heated argument and she admitted that the kid wasn't mine and that she had cheated on me and gotten knocked up by someone who we both know. I had been raising someones daughter for 4 years.

I left that night and came to pick up my stuff the following day. She immediately got into my face and started screaming at me and insulting me. I tried to walk past her but she wouldn't let me. She grabbed a drink from the counter and threw it at me. I slapped her hard across the face. She called the cops and started ripping her clothes to make it seem like I did it. I didnt notice because I walked outside to wait for the police. When they showed up she started crying heavily and gave them an exaggerated story of what happened. Due to the red mark on her face, the ripped clothing and her creativity, they decided to arrest me.

I spent the next 4 months going to court trying to fight it. Ultimately my not-so-cheap lawyer kept me from spending time behind bars.

I acquired a criminal record and got booted from my job.

Now I've been served with new papers to appear in court. She is trying to get child support from me even though I'm not the biological father. She claims that I knew this all along and that I agreed to raise the kid as my own. I'm heavily in debt from my previous court case and I have no money to afford a lawyer. Im also currently unemployed. I love that kid but I dont feel its right that I should support her. Do you guys think I should do it or not?

tldr; Ex cheated and got knocked up by another man, ended up telling me 5 years later and is now trying to get child support from me, have no money left to try and fight it, thinking of whether I should just agree and pay as I do feel bad for the kid

Offensive_Brute · 2013-08-17T14:58:12+00:00

At what point does the man serve a lesser sentence for just murdering the wife? She's already destroyed his career, his home and his mental state.

[deleted] · 2013-08-17T17:58:34+00:00

Lookup the legal term "in loco parentis"

frazzleddd · 2013-08-17T18:32:38+00:00

What a cunt. Fucked him over legally and falsely and is now going back for more. Just goes to show always bring back up. I would've brought a bro with me to help get my shit the next day just to provide a second testimony

puaSenator · 2013-08-18T05:23:06+00:00

Sadly, he will end up paying. The state hates having to deal with the burden of a single mother, and will often do whatever it takes to provide her with relief. The amount of precedent is overwhelming. In OP's situation, even if they believe him and recognize that he wasn't aware the kid wasn't his, they wont care. They'll say he is the de-facto father, as he had assumed the role as a father, and in the child's eyes, is the father, so he is legally, under the law, the child's father.

Not only that, but this reasoning of "assumed father" stretches even beyond that. Again, the state hates dealing with single mothers and will do whatever they can to sort of force fathership on people. There are cases where the guy didn't even come into the picture until the kid was already born and learning to speak. Then, many years later, leaves, and is still forced to pay child support to a kid EVERYONE knew from the start wasn't possible to be his. Again, the states reasoning is that since he filled the father role, he is expected to hold that title for life.

It's fucking crazy. Stay away from single mothers like the plague. I see them on OkCupid all the time. It's kind of funny, because soon as I see an attractive and down to earth chick on that site, my flags go off. Nine times out of ten, it's either a fake profile or a single mom that's mysteriously unable to find a man after having a kid.

t21spectre · 2013-08-17T19:31:31+00:00

You need to consult with an attorney, and quickly.

Best piece of advice he was given.

On that note, I don't understand people who come to the internet to ask a question about something this serious when your first step is obvious, get an attorney, ASAP. They are either just cheap, or stupid. You'll never lose money hiring a good attorney.

puredoubt · 2013-08-17T23:58:03+00:00

I'm fucking amazed at how little you TRP guys know about what rights you don't have. You better wake the fuck up, all of you.

Title	Suing for Mumu-Money
Author	ss_camaro
Upvotes	58
Comments	73
Date	August 17, 2013 12:32 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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