...is not to play.

I feel like I can beat any shit-test, approach any female, create chemistry, and out-game anyone when I approach the situation from a fundamentally present and zenlike state of no-mind. Then there is no game.

I think the problem with redpill, or at least the problem in the interpretation of redpill, is that we all try to memorize and reenact behaviors and methods instead of practicing a state of mind and a way of being. It's sort of like we've sold out for tips and tricks and just focus our attention on replication in order to get results. I say that is a shadow of what redpill theory is meant to be -

We go on and on about gaming girls and strategy, as if they are something foreign to us, somehow outside us. That's just your ego taking control, and I think every time I've ever fucked up an interaction with a girl it was because of my ego. Not necessarily just ego in the self-righteous and narcissistic sense, but ego in the sense that puts up walls and defenses because he is afraid of getting hurt or rejected - the ego that distances oneself from another, the ego that prevents me from seeing a woman as an individual who is exactly and especially like me, just from a different hometown with different hobbies. It's almost as though sometimes the woman herself was the enemy that was preventing me from access to her vagina, but this is all wrong.

Gentlemen, we are not meant to "game" every female as though we have slyly tricked them into surrendering sex, we were meant to do more than that, we are to make every woman we meet helplessly <i>fall in love with us</i>. Women should feel so empowered, free, expressive and alive in our presence that simply associating themselves with us makes them feel beautiful. If I could summarize what I've learned from this sub it would be this -

  1. If all you do is mimic the actions of others on this sub, you will never stop failing.
  2. If you are practicing game, you do not have game. If you are not practicing game, you have game.
  3. Through memorization and strategy you will fail, but in letting go and seeing yourself in the woman in front of you, you will succeed.
  4. When it comes to women, if it's not paradoxical, it's not true.
  5. It is unwise to perfect your own "one size fits all" approaches, pickups, and lines. It is wise to approach a woman every time, as though she is unique.
  6. If you measure success by how many women you've slept with, you've lost yourself.
  7. If you look at women who reject you in low regard, the first step in ending this is to look at yourself in higher regard.
  8. If you're worrying about looking for indicators of interest, you will miss them - do not focus on focusing.
  9. A shit test is not her trying to hurt you, confuse you, or even to test you. A shit test is a defense mechanism. She may not even be aware she's shit testing you. The best defense against a shit test is not to fire back, stay quiet, or anything in particular - all that matters is that you recognize it, are completely unfazed by it and continue as though it never happened.
  10. There is not one right way to do this and a million wrong ways, really, it's just the opposite.

Love you guys