TL/DR: what women want and why the rest of the world spins their wheels trying to figure it out.
"The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is 'What does a woman want?'" -From Sigmund Freud: Life and Work by Ernest Jones, 1953
Sigmund Freud’s views on women stirred controversy during his own lifetime and continue to evoke considerable debate today. "Women oppose change, receive passively, and add nothing of their own," he wrote in a 1925 paper entitled "The Psychical Consequences of the Anatomic Distinction Between the Sexes."
Donna Stewart, M.D., a professor and chair of women’s health at the University Health Network, explained, "Freud was a man of his times. He was opposed to the women’s emancipation movement and believed that women’s lives were dominated by their sexual reproductive functions."
Freud found out many keys to life and the human mind, but never the answers to women and what they want. Somehow, someway, we've all converged and found a little corner of Reddit that was able to figure out one interesting theory, and the reasoning behind why Freud couldn't find his answer: "how could men truly know what women want, women don't even know what they want." Freud chased his tail and submerged himself into their thinking. In turn, he was left with nothing but confusion.
And I say that, to say this; it isn't so much about what women want, as it is allowing them to step into your frame to determine the focus is on what you want. So although beta bux and everything in between are sexual strategies, they are pretty awful ones and this stands to be true whether or not the person uses their strategy consciously. That is true because constantly feeding a women's desires is a no where road. Constantly looking to find out what women want, what they're looking for, and how to be around them, is a no where road. It must be hard to be as confused as women are. Despite what women say, if they ever got their carrot, they wouldn't enjoy it. They enjoy chasing the carrot around and being told they can't have it. They like knowing they're not good enough for the carrot, and a small nibble is all they'll get for now.
Isn't it funny how things work out in life? I mean, here I am, sitting among some of the luckiest people in the world. People who sit here and use logic and theory to rationalize life as a man, and life with women. I say the luckiest in the world, because the red pill clears the air, we aren't confused anymore.
If things don't work out with a girl good, she wasn't willing to enter your frame and good thing that is cleared up... here's why: she wasn't interested. Why? Because of X and X and your SMV isn't high enough. Here's what you need to do to fix it.
Trust, even Chad has doubts about his future and women. Even Chad doesn't know how to handle every monkey wrench thrown at him. Being a natural has its benefits, being a natural with access to TRP is life on easy mode. Chad is the type to eventually get married and lose abundance to an extent. Society eventually takes its toll on everyone who doesn't question it. Will this happen to everyone who plays Chad? No. But, that's why Chad is more of time period in someone's life, than it is a particular person.
Some of what we find at TRP is a mix of methods in regards to what women want. There is nothing better than being that perfect in between, without extreme views. You can keep plates spinning for years. Women hang around and won't question the fact that you fuck other women. You're too valuable, they don't want to fuck up a good thing, and they'd rather share you than not have you at all. Because you're self aware and understand the game, you don't find yourself losing frame out of confusion or desperation.
We say AWALT, not to be literal, but to say that "the majority" particularly acts according to this paradigm. Each one is tuned differently, the traits we care about most seem to match up equally across the board. We know because after sitting down and talking about it, they all seem to follow the same pattern. Of course there are exceptions (to an extent.), every system has them.
So what is it women want? We can say without a doubt it is a man of value.
If we look closely, all of Freuds questions could be answered and it justifies the behaviors you learn at The Red Pill. Stoicism, fitness, cockiness, abundance, IDGAF, etc. these things come natural to a man in the top 20%. I am talking self esteem, self respect, etc. don't confuse the world value exclusively with financial worth. Remember, when girls call a guy an asshole, it's because he didn't value her as she has been by other men, as she expected. It's a compliment, because it means that she isn't in his league... oh, and women are hypergamous.
THIS IS WHY WOMEN LOVE ASSHOLES, no other reason.
So... TRP kills two birds, with one stone. Genius, isn't it? You become a man of value and invest in yourself. You showcase and promote your value to others (you can be valuable and not know it, this is why the personality traits of a high value may work on women, even if you aren't necessarily high value, but the other way around turns into you getting walked on by her.) because of its attractiveness (when I say showcase, I don't mean the tangible aspects necessarily. I mean to showcase your value through your personality and looks.).
Life is simple, the small details don't matter: just become a man of value, and everything else will follow. Dont be like Freud and spend 30 years trying to figure women out, be like Chad and spend 30 years investing in the gym and your self worth, and anything else that means something to you. Life's short, and Freud could of got his answers with a simple clicking of the subscribe button.
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