Some of you guys are still sleeping.

I see that in the posts that get upvotes and the questions that get asked.

The way common fucking sense is challenged.

Some of you guys reading this are very much asleep.

There are some who are starting to see the reality and are way too fucking angry.

Some anger is OK. After all, you were sold a lie.

You were told that you can be yourself and you'll find a woman who will love you. You were told that women are equal to men but should be protected. You were told that out there among all the loose women there was a vestal virgin who will be your own personal maid, sex worker, lover, chef, friend, mother to your kids and she'll stay with you forever.

Because you are special.

Pick up any book, movie, anime, comic, fable, etc.

Look at the ideal woman and relationship and realize that that is a fantasy.

She's not going to wait for you when you go away overseas. She's not a virgin who saved herself for you. She's not to stay with you forever. She's not your best friend, a replacement for your mother and your own personal whore all in one.

How can she be?

Not only is that shit one hell of a task but it's also fraught with challenges from her environment, the dogma taught to her and the family and friends she keeps.

So, wake up.

I say this time and time again because it's true. There's not much aside from minor nuances that any vet can say that hasn't been posted and immortalized in the side bar.

So why so many of you can't be bothered isn't because of her or feminism but because you're too fucking lazy to be bothered.

You're too fucking lazy to pick up weights and get stronger because it's hard.

You're too fucking scared to approach a stranger because it's new.

You're too fucking stupid to realize that no one here can change your life but you.

Life is hard, scary and risky. If all you do is read theory than you'll never do anything.

You've just discovered a new way to cope with failure.

You want shit. That requires work to attain. Nature doesn't give a fuck about how you feel.

Ground your expectations with reality and calculate what you can sacrifice for what you want.

Finally, go out there and try shit.

Take risks and put effort into yourself.

If we can all pool our experiences and create a fucking guide to getting the girl(s), making bank money and living the life but you can't be bothered to open the fucking book because you'd rather debate and it requires you to go outside and do shit...

Why should you deserve anything other than misery and frustration?

Wake up.