1.Pressuring her to answer is a waste of time.
Girls are bitches. They don't act with honor. You can't expect equality from them. They are psychotic. Thus, their code of conduct may be weird for someone with rational thinking to understand.
I used to freak when she leaves me on "seen" for hours if not days. I got with a crazy argument with a girl over this (like a fag). I didn't realize that I was just AMUSING HER while burning my frame, time, energy, mental sanity.
The truth is incredibly simple. So simple that a five year old could see it:
Wait for it...
If she wants to answer, SHE WILL ANSWER.
If you ask a question and she leaves you on "seen" or "delivered" for days, it's over. Forget about it.
- Bitches are redpilled
Bitches have used the "hamster", "dread", "teasing" and other gay shit forever.
Even if there's a remote chance that a BETTER guy is coming on the horizon, you are put on HOLD.
They want the best for them and that's it.
In fact, those moves are so bitchy that bitches probably invented them. Ironically, men are now forced to apply them too one way or another.
- She HAS seen YOUR Messages
I see it all the time - WOMEN never let GO of their phones. Girls texting on the street without looking where they walk. Girls constantly texting on the bus...Girls LOVE texting.
Once I was on a tinder date that used to ignore me for days before. The whole time she was flipping her phone....
So?
So, brother, she is NOT busy to answer your messages. She just doesn't want to. Is it a shit test? Sure. But trying to play her mind games results in torture and evaporates precious energy.
No woman that does that to you is worth much to YOU because obviously she does not respect YOU.
The only woman worth double texting is your boss, mother, girlfriend or wife or female friend - someone who has shown some kind of respect for you in real life.
- Turn off read/seen and always leave with a question
This is what I started doing.
I turn that shit off.
That way I don't obcess whether she has read them or not. When you mind is deprived of that option, it stops thinking about it. It's kinda like turning off your phone - when it's off, the mind does not expect it to ring and rests in that regard.
Another option would be to turn off ALL notifications so that you see her messages way past they've been sent.
It doesn't work for me, though.
I would be happy to hear your experiences in that regard.
Thank you for taking the time to read this post.
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