Well it still took some time after my first experience to get some more good action. (Check post history for original post, can't seem to link it)
SET-UP:
I sadly do not have an exciting story about how I started cold approaching and picking up girls, but I guess I used the more accessible method: Tinder.
What I did:
When I used Tinder a year ago, my photos were shit, I looked like shit and got shit matches in return. This time was different however. I upped my game and my appearance. I got some model grade pictures taken of me by a friend who happened to be a photographer. Funny bio etc, you get it.
There is still more optimizing to do, but basically I got 100 matches in about a week, which is a huge upgrade.
The field report:
This was my second tinder date (first with another girl) and I made the girl travel to my city, which already was a green flag for me. She later told me she was convinced I was a catfish, because I deleted all my social media and am basically untraceable.
We met up and went for a coffee, the weather was extremely good, so soon after we started drinking etc. I had a script in my head for the rest of the day and this is the first time I was actually able to execute it to the dot. I lead her along (which she said later unarmed her). Took her to some cheap pizza place, near my place. Went to my place soon after.
Mistakes:
Along the way I dropt frame quite often, I guess I was lucky this girl was really forgiving in that sense (thanks to appearance probably). I went a bit Billy Beta after dinner when we got to my place, but I recouped and got back into leading.
Back to field report:
I was scared shitless to make a move. I was a 23 y/o virgin who has never been in this situation, so it was quite a comfort zone challenge. After a few hours (!) I finally made out with her and she was all over me. She kept saying that sex wasn't going to happen. I ignored her and teased her in the right way, found her trigger points and continued my game. She kept insisting on it. So after some time I just withdrew attention after triggering her. She kept coming back, watch her actions not her words. This went on for a few hours and it worked so fucking perfectly. I managed to lay her and fucked her in the morning again.
Feelings I had after lay:
I must say that I had zero butterflies and shit. I just executed my game plan and it worked. I felt fucking powerful, to have that ability. The slow build up was way more enjoyable then the actual lay.
No oneitis, no real intention to plate her since she was a little too into me at some point. I could string here along for a few weeks, but I dropped my frame a bit too much to actually want that.
Final thoughts:
This lay finally got me over that anxiety being a virgin gave me. When I downloaded tinder a week ago I was actually scared to start conversation on Tinder, but after a while I got really fucking good at it. I apply the same logic to this lay. This will be a catalyst to actually laying girls more regularly and with an ever upgrading frame.
I feel strong, manly and in the flow. I actually wanted to get back to working on my side business and projects straight after the lay. I have this huge urge to improve myself and build SMV. No time for LTR's.
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