"When we used to live in caves..." -One foolproof method to determine your chances of getting laid in any social event.

Juan-San · 2017-10-16T12:15:36+00:00

This is why, when you approach a girl who is with others, either male or female, you don't go straight after her. You game everyone she's with. ESPECIALLY if you barely know anyone there. It gives you social proof, and women act like a hivemind, if everyone thinks you're an awesome guy worth spending time with, she'll just go with it.

TooHoly999 · 2017-10-16T12:02:46+00:00

This is a golden objective measure of status.

Aktiv8r · 2017-10-16T12:54:08+00:00

Lets be honest "When we used to live in caves..." the ultimate method to increase your chances of getting laid is...

To kill all the other men in that cave...

mugatucrazypills · 2017-10-16T19:49:18+00:00

There's a business corallary to this which is if you tolerate disrespect from one of the other males or people ... you're gonna get fucked/killed.

Too often in the past I've encountered someone who obviously has it out for me and won't hide their contempt for me, and the nice guy in me if has been told to negotiate a compromise and go around that person.

There's nothing wrong with negotiation, trade and of course compromise is the way of the real world. But when the person you're negotiating or dealing with can't hide their disrespect for you, anything they negotiate is seen as the result of the disrespect and others will pick up disrespect and taking you down as a useful tactic.

When someone gets up in your business you need to deal with then there and escalate to whatever level is required. You can't put it off, you can't let it fester. Bring all the resources you have and try to sweep them off the chessboard NOW if possible.

IkWhatUDidLastSummer · 2017-10-16T15:19:53+00:00

First of all, not being focused on the women (depending on the way its done) can be viewed as you dont give a fk about em and they wont expect you to be a thirsty beta right from the get-go, so in that sense it can be good.

The point is, sooner or late you will have to initiate contact with a woman if you expect to get laid that night, it doesnt just fall down from heaven, men have to work for it. Unless youre ridiculously high SMV but even in that case she may be too intimidated by you and will not approach to have you bang her because your frame is much stronger than hers.

I dont usually talk to women at a party unless i intend to get laid, simply because i find women boring for the most part. If they arent usually boring the trade-off often comes with them being ugly. They dont care about sports, politics, society - and if they care about society in any sense its just something they parrot from what theyve heard from a famous person on instagram, so in that sense it can be really hard to connect with women on interpersonal levels. So if the intend is not to bang them i for the most part find women a waste of time, there are some exceptions though naturally.

utact · 2017-10-16T14:15:24+00:00

Fair to point out that an IQ of 80 is on the threshold of “Low” and “Low-Average” intelligence.

Questionnaire7 · 2017-10-16T16:47:03+00:00

Can confirm. A girl I hadnt seen in 6 or 7 years appeared at a concert once. I barely knew her back in highschool. We talked. About a year later she hit me up asking me to get her something that I couldn't do. Week later she invited me to a party at her place. She had a boyfriend so I spent the whole night interacting with everyone there but her. Mostly the guys. At the end of the night I was too drunk to leave so I stayed. She arranged for us to sleep in the same bed. When we got in she had us spoon. My hand was on her stomach. Within a few minutes she moved it up her boobs so I started playing with them. Then I went under her shirt and continued. Within 4 or 5 minutes she turnd and said "ok heres the deal, we can go over into that room and hook up if you want." We fucked for 2 or 3 hours, I got my first blowjob (but only for a few seconds) and I did anal for the fist time too. I was blown away.

Always talk to the guys and draw them in.

SAPPHIREAURA · 2017-10-16T17:20:57+00:00

Good looks and high IQ are not everything trust me. You can still have social anxiety and be insecure which will bring you to TRP. Men still need game on some level unlike women no matter how good looking you are I feel. Social. If you're a chad that's insecure women will sense that and not be attracted

userillusion · 2017-10-16T20:41:31+00:00

Women outsource mate selection to the male dominance hierarchy.

1UPZ_ · 2017-10-16T23:32:26+00:00

19?

Lol you should be working on yourself... not focusing on getting women.

They will come (no pun intended) when you are at your best form.

You'll just get side tracked and lose focus and hunger if you continue.

48756394573902 · 2017-10-16T17:02:19+00:00

If you're extremely good looking and have an IQ above 80 you wouldn't need to be reading this in the first place.

But still I cant help myself, its so fucking interesting seeing how the other ~~half~~ nine tenths lives.

Indianmon312 · 2017-10-16T17:13:36+00:00

This actually is something I might have to try out. Never actually thought about it this way. Im guessing by low and high status you mean alpha as well. Can you go more into you saying its a reliable method? like did you observe it or test it or both.

Bigjohnthug · 2017-10-16T13:56:41+00:00

Just talk to the males.

This seems to contradict this:

If you feel comfortable talking to everyone there, it means that you're definitely not low-status. Your chances skyrocket, all you have to do is keep meeting girls and eventually one will let you take her home.

Is it easier to talk to guys? I've always found it harder, because with women you have the innate physiological desire to talk to one another. With guys you have to have things in common. Also, if you have to keep meeting girls, how do you do that by only talking to guys?

SirJamesTheOptional · 2017-10-16T15:36:54+00:00

This sub makes me cringe sometimes.

PaperStreetVilla · 2017-10-16T20:47:53+00:00

Notice, talking with beta males is your solution. I didn't see you "do" anything.

Know how best to see if you'll get laid? Go try to get laid, report what works.

Be attractive
Don't be unattractive

hasantaskin33 · 2017-10-16T20:16:21+00:00

If you look hot enough, you don't need to be that high value unless you ruin it by a shitty game.

hatemyself97 · 2017-10-16T20:37:09+00:00

I'm just out of a long term relationship and I agree with this for parties, which is where you'll find most interesting women.

The beta girls that don't go to parties don't care about this

francisco_DANKonia · 2017-10-16T20:42:56+00:00

My theory is slightly more skewed toward a marketing perspective. You want to do things that make people gossip (in a good way). Then your stock goes up and you can cash in.

If nobody is talking about you, it doesn't matter how comfortable you are, but being comfortable is almost 100% necessary to get people talking about you.

WalterEArmstrong · 2017-10-16T23:59:11+00:00

"If you're extremely good looking and have an IQ above 80 you wouldn't need to be reading this in the first place." When I first read that I thought WRONG! But after a bit of contemplation I can believe you're right.

truthwillbedownvoted · 2017-10-17T03:08:51+00:00

Yes, but if all of the males that in the group are stupid?

plainposter · 2017-10-17T03:11:40+00:00

Ok, great post, and you missed the final point so I will sum it up quickly.

When you do feel nervous talking to a person or group of people, this is a clear sign that your value isn't high enough/you aren't strong enough yet. So get the fuck back to the gym, lift even harder, make yourself more presentable (washing daily, smelling good, intelligence, strong social value, know when to shut up/take it easy, emotional value, and financial value signals for a group to accept you), read some self help books if you really need to (how to win friends and influence people is a GODLY book. changed my life), and kick even more ass than you have been. when you feel that nervousness, get back to the gym basically.

SubjectiveObjects · 2017-10-17T04:19:21+00:00

I'd rather be treated like a normal person

JustSomeThief · 2017-10-17T01:59:15+00:00

This post is gay. Reported

Title	"When we used to live in caves..." -One foolproof method to determine your chances of getting laid in any social event.
Author	wechattrp
Upvotes	409
Comments	65
Date	October 16, 2017 10:54 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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