(The following story has had a few details altered in order to preserve my anonymity.)

For those here who can't dance, here is something that may help with motivation:

I went out and danced a few days ago. It was an event where newbies could try Bachata. Met this cute 20y/o chick (body 8, ass 9, tits and face 7) there. Blonde. Very firm, especially belly and ass. Tight red top, and even tighter blue stretchy pants. Slight camel toe and well defined ass crack. Just how I like it.

Anyways. She couldn't dance, until I taught her that is.

I went DaddyMonster on her and made her do things which no gentleman would ever make a girl do on the dance floor.

I teased the fuck out of her when she made cute mistakes (push) and praised her when she was relaxed, compliant, and did well (pull).

Most of all I danced. Scandalously.

She shit tested me of course. Examples:

  • After the initial dance, I danced with some other chicks for a while to check what other merchandise was availible. I then decided to dance with her again, and approached her up close (like really invading her personal space) and said "You owe me a dance." and she of course said "Why do I owe you a dance?". "Because I want it." I replied. She asked to go to the bathroom first. She was rummaging through her hand bag, and I think she was looking for a tampon. I said ok. I didn't wait for her though, and danced with other chicks instead. When she got back, she actually interrupted my dance with another girl and asked to dance with me.

  • I picked her up and carried her a bit, to test her limits and reactions. She squealed like a 12 year old girl. When I put her down, she did the big underlip thing and said "You're so mean!". My response: "Aaaaaw, was Daddy a meanie? (stroking her cheek and hair) Did Daddy scare baby girl? ("Yes..." in tiny voice.) Come here (pulling her in, putting her crotch on my leg and slow dancing/grinding), Daddy is going to make it all better..." She became even more submissive and pliable after that.

  • When I went for the first kiss, she turned her face away. I put a finger on her cheek and turned her face back and kissed her on the nose. Her knees went spaghetti and she started giggling hysterically and blabbering about her "cold nose". She then started nuzzling my neck and holding me tight(er), and then it was on.

I didn't get her to come home with me. I didn't close fast enough. Also, she was probably on her period. I probably should've focused on her instead of checking out other merchandise, but meh, DGAF. This is beside the point though.

The point of this post is this:

Because I can dance (and I'm fairly good at it too), I have more potential venues where I can pick up healthy, young, fit girls. I also have more tools in my pickup-tool-box than I would otherwise, and they're powerful.

The girl wants to meet me this weekend, so even though I didn't fuck her yet, the effort certainly wasn't wasted. Potential new plates makes my cock happy.

Also, other chicks I danced with commented that it looked "really hot" when me and that girl danced, so that's a Demonstration of Higher Value right there for future exploitation. Girls gossip you know. Win win.

TL;DR: Dancing, especially couples dancing, is a force multiplier for game which allows you to speed escalate kino with plausible deniability, which bypasses a lot of, but not all, Anti Slut Defence.

So learn to dance ffs. Take courses.

Other benefits of dancing:

  • Moves from couples dances are often applicable to solo dancing, which means your repertoire of club dancing moves will increase and become cooler. Chicks will approach you, if they're brave. Often, girls will be both impressed and feel intimidated (and tingly), and unless you tell them to dance with you, they will sit for a long while and just eye-fuck you when you dance.

  • You increase you mobility and muscle control, which equals a much better posture and a much smoother walking style. Girls regularly comment on my posture and walking style. This is an indicator of fitness, and girls know this on an instinctual level. See the next point.

  • Dancing is a combo of cardio, coordination and flexibility training, which means you also fuck better.

  • Since you have to be able to read the girls you dance with in order to lead them properly, you automatically become much better at reading body language on an instinctual level. This can't be understated. Seriously. You'll become so much more sensitive to IOIs it's almost ridiculous.

  • Your confidence will increase hugely. If you know that you can take almost any girl onto the dance floor and have her giggling and swooning within 10 minutes, you know that any time you spend with a girl on the dance floor is a boon you're giving her. You are the price, the reward. She is lucky to get your attention, and most girls are astute enough to pick up on that.

  • Dancing is probably the fastest and best way to find out if you and a girl have chemistry. You'll know within minutes if you're compatible.

  • Dancing establishes high value through social proof. Dancing with one girl who looks like she's having a good time being led by you instigates others to want to find out what you got that is making her so damn happy. (Kudos to u/RPstudent)

General response to the commentators who "don't want to have to impress girls to get them" or some such:

Going out of your way to not impress women is just as needy as going out of your way to impress them. Those with the attitude that "I don't want to do XYZ because I don't want to have to impress women, I just want their respect" are still letting their conceptions of women control their actions, albeit in some weird reversed way.

Here's the low down: Learning to dance brings value to your life. It's a fun skill, and it's good for your health. Attracting women is an unavoidable side effect of your increased value. If you're sufficiently good at dancing, women are going to be vying for your attention. You're not dancing to their tune; they're queuing up to dance to your tune. Their attraction for you is just a side effect of you doing stuff that brings value to you.

Also, if your intent is to impress women, you're not going to become a very good dancer, because you'll be thinking too much, instead of just doing.