Hi ladies,

I'm a lurked but I love this place, it helps set up my day with you beautiful ladies kicking a*s

I am in need of some advice.

I've been seeing what I thought was a HV man, he's done mostly everything right, however, he's 12 months clean and a girl ( He said he hasn't slept with her but they lived together while on drugs) He has messaged her a few times now and it makes me insecure . The messages are just "hello you, how are you mate/ fam... I have no idea if she responds because he's deleted them ( FB messenger and snap chat)

I've brought it up again today because I saw another message while we were watching videos on his phone.

I told him it makes me feel very insecure and vulnerable ( abandonment issues I'm currently getting help for) and he was disrespectful , talking over me, mocking me with "oohh my goood "

At the end of the phone call, he asked me to think about whether I want a relationship with him. We're seeing each other Tuesday ( we always see each other Sunday to Thursday but he stayed a little late this week so has to come to mine later next week.

Hea 42, lives with his parents, no job

Even typing that has me wondering wtf I'm doing!

I would truly appreciate any and all advice beautiful queens.