We’re both in our early twenties and started dating before I discovered this subreddit.

He mentioned in the beginning of our relationship that he has gone to “blowjob shop” which are a common thing in his country, twice, and that he also regrets it deeply. I was a fucking libfem idiot and thought “it was before he met me, it shouldn’t bother me”.

There is literally nothing about him otherwise pointing to being a LVM, he treats me like a queen and puts so much effort in. He truly has been a great boyfriend so far.

We’re currently long distance due to the outbreak. When he called, I told him honestly that it started bothering me, even though I was okay with it before. I know he regrets it and wishes he wasn’t such a pushover with his friends in his younger days, but ultimately, there is nothing he can do to fix it.

I would like to know other women’s opinions on this. I keep telling myself that this is breakup-worthy, but at the same time I feel like I would ruin and otherwise good relationship.

I am currently contemplating whether I should be ready to bail at any other sign of LVM behaviour, or if I should just do it now, and potentially regret it.