Calling out your partner's bullshit?

cholomite · 2017-09-07T21:49:35+00:00

She didn't want to fuck you, what more do you really need to know?

Move on and find something better to do.

fuckmrp · 2017-09-07T21:47:14+00:00

Maybe she took a shit.

There's always a problem if you look for one bro.

BigAjax · 2017-09-07T22:07:20+00:00

It's not a stretch to say that you're a fucking jackass. You initiated, she said no and told you she has a brick stuck in her intestines. A day later, the two of you go out and have a good time, which is followed by a good fucking. The simplest story, which apparently is too complex for your sperg brain to handle, is that somewhere along the line she took a colossal dump and started feeling like a human being again. After that, a numbnuts such as yourself somehow managed to DHV in front of her and she got wet. How does it even enter your miserable head to think that there's anything the least bit post-worthy going on here?

As for your question, what part of STFU, especially about sex, is so mysterious that you couldn't have guessed what the right answer is ahead of time? You might want to get the lead levels in your house checked.

[deleted] · 2017-09-07T23:35:51+00:00

if you notice your LTR/Wife lying or making bullshit excuses, no matter the size, do you confront her on her bullshit?

I'm not sure what you think "confronting her" would accomplish. Moreover, you'd need to provide more information about your relationship and general sex life for anyone to give you anything beyond basic advice.

Spoiler alert: In 99.99 percent of scenarios, "confronting her" will accomplish absolutely nothing.

Maybe she was constipated, maybe she didn't feel good, maybe she just didn't want to fuck you. It doesn't change anything you should be doing in any capacity.

hystericalbonding · 2017-09-07T21:27:49+00:00

if you notice your LTR/Wife lying or making bullshit excuses, no matter the size, do you confront her on her bullshit?

Yes, but not in the situation you described. You initiated, and she said no. You can't negotiate desire. Maybe she really was uncomfortable from constipation, and maybe she wasn't. What difference does it make, other than that you need to lead her to a better diet?

2ndal · 2017-09-07T21:29:38+00:00

if you notice your LTR/Wife lying or making bullshit excuses, no matter the size, do you confront her on her bullshit?

Nah. I don't want to have to convince my wife to have sex with me. I have better things to do. When her resistance is playful, I'll push through it. When it's not playful, I'll lightly drop it and move on with my day. I know my wife so can read this pretty well.

Hard to tell the tone of the shit excuse she was giving you. Was it playful?

simbarlion · 2017-09-07T23:52:34+00:00

This is so easy.

A&A = "Hey babe, anal sex is great for fixing constipation"

Red-Curious · 2017-09-07T21:31:27+00:00

Direct confrontation is only to be handled by those with an iron frame. If you don't have that, don't do it because you're probably going to come off as butthurt. You're better off with STFU/AA/AM/WISNIFG stuff, etc.

If you do want to call her out on it, be prepared for her to DEER, which is going to make her defensive, raising her ASD and LMR and ultimately make it harder for you in the future if you don't have the frame to plow through in the present. You're probably also likely to come off as a jerk rather than an arrogant tease with an unwavering drive to get what he wants. The former is bad, the latter is good (although sometimes you have to be the former for a while to get to the latter).

BobbyPeru · 2017-09-07T22:18:45+00:00

No.

Either continue to escalate with kino, words, (this has worked for me with similar excuses)

or accept sex isn't happening today.

Calling her out makes you look weak. DNGAF.

470_2_700_nm · 2017-09-08T01:58:54+00:00

She was looking for anal you idiot!

Westernhagen · 2017-09-08T03:06:52+00:00

"oh I can't tonight babe I think I'm constipated"

"No worries, I'm going in through the front door tonight, not the back door."

AustralianArm · 2017-09-08T06:15:47+00:00

Occam's Razor would suggest she took a good dump and cleared the brick from her back passage.

donedreadpirate · 2017-09-08T09:24:01+00:00

AM is good for this so well done there. Women are masters of rationalizing so why would you directly call out something she's using her feels to justify when you could just fuck with the hamster instead and get 100x the return. Which is what you did, inadvertently. You showed her you're worth fucking so she fucked you. Or she just took a fucking massive dump that morning.

BluepillProfessor · 2017-09-08T16:03:50+00:00

what happened to the constipation

Constipation can be relieved in 10 minutes or less.

Title	Calling out your partner's bullshit?
Author	Murphbah
Upvotes	1
Comments	34
Date	September 7, 2017 9:21 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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