Been offically LTR with a girl for 3 months. We already talked about Christmas and holidays how we hate the pressure of being told to get people gifts and shit. So I’ll buy her flowers and random shit when I feel like it because I want to.

Her birthday is this weekend and she literally went ahead and planned a get away for us before I even got the chance to do anything. She paid for everything and when I asked her how much everything was she told me. You ask too many questions. This is what I always tell her when she asks me when I plan shit.

So I laughed and took it as she wanted to treat me. But again it’s her birthday and she’s been great and doing everything for me. So id like to show up with something cool to give her.

I just got her flowers so I don’t want to do that again. I was going to grab some wine for the trip. Glow sticks and cut them up and throw them all over the room before we fuck and switch the lights of. (Read that idea here).

But I was wonder what else I can get or do. I don’t want her paying and doing everything when it’s her birthday.

Any ideas?