You don't live together. She spends another night out with friends. That's the 2nd time this week. You were hoping to spend time with her tonight before she leaves on a week long vacation with girlfriends. She suggested maybe after the night out. 10:00pm comes and she tells you she's too tired and would rather sleep. You get angry and tell her "Ok. See you next week or whatever. Wanted to spend a night with you this week. Clearly you don't give a shit." then you leave.

She texts you in the morning. You upset her. She is threatening a break in the relationship. She's says she was planning a dinner and movie together today (before she leaves), but would rather spend the day alone. You try to justify yourself to her but fail. You apologize by text like a beta, because she isn't answering her phone. She suggests talking next week and doesn't respond to your text apology all week while on vacation.

Tomorrow she's coming back from her trip. She still hasn't contacted you. She may or may not suggest talking some time in the next few days. What do you do? How do you react?