How to get better at STFU?

Nntropy · 2025-06-10T21:25:25+00:00

How to get better at STFU?

Since you appear to enjoy numbered lists:

Identify when you are feeling the urge to change the words coming out of her mouth with words coming out of your mouth.
STFU.

Environmental-Top346 · 2025-06-10T21:39:39+00:00

Clearly you’d rather naval gaze about the theoretical ramifications and epistemological intricacies of shutting the fuck up than actually shutting the fuck up.

So here’s my advice.

When in doubt, Shut the fuck up.

Saying nothing and being thought a fool is better than opening your mouth and removing all doubt’ - Seneca, probably

HornsOfApathy · 2025-06-11T02:00:06+00:00

Try a visualization exercise.

Confident_Trouble865 · 2025-06-11T00:20:33+00:00

Meditation if you’re looking for a serious answer. Increases the time and control in that period between something happening, and you reacting. But also, you’re overthinking it. Just STFU.

Direct_Charity_2575 · 2025-06-11T03:31:07+00:00

You need to read more sidebar content on STFU. STFU is like the gutter guards on the bowling lane. It’s to keep you from rolling gutter balls- DEERIng, whining, stepping on your dick- things that make you unattractive. When you get more attractive and can naturally avoid acting unattractive, you take the guardrails off.

It’s there for your protection. Guys that don’t need to STFU don’t ask questions about STFU.

DisElysium · 2025-06-11T04:24:48+00:00

If she pulls out a gun. In that case just Suck It The Fuck Up. SITFU
Yes but then wasn’t your fag ass emotional side the one who got you in this mess to begin with?

businessstravel · 2025-06-11T14:43:38+00:00

STFU isn't just about your pie hole, but it also includes any technology babbling BS that you feel the urge to type out.

You have to accept the fact that you will always be the bad guy. Where are you on your MAP?

BobbyPeru · 2025-06-13T02:52:53+00:00

Posts on this sub always ask the wrong questions as evidenced by this post. How do you get better at STFU? Like anything else, you practice STFU. At first you’ll be bad at it and she will know you’re butthurt. The more you practice it, the more stoic you actually become because you learn to deal with your fag@oty feelings in that silence. Also, it’s worth h mentioning STFU doesn’t always mean going mute. Many times, it just means saying as little as possible. The most important part is you don’t DEER. Not DEERING will make you strong.

mrbadassmotherfucker · 2025-06-15T11:00:18+00:00

By getting better at NGAF

JediKrys · 2025-06-11T00:00:53+00:00

Got to find a way to expend the energy instead of talking. For me, I take a walk. Even if it means I look like an idiot leaving the house several times a day. I also have a row machine that works. Until you can just stfu you need to work it off.

SoundProof4 · 2025-06-13T16:46:04+00:00

STFU is just acronym for time and space. If a woman is invested and she starts a heated argument, you're answer is time and space. Separate yourself until she cools down. It works every time for emotionally invested women.

Title	How to get better at STFU?
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Upvotes	15
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Date	June 10, 2025 9:15 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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