I need to puke

Redpillbrigade17 · 2021-02-25T02:12:58+00:00

What does she think of this post? Go ask her.

Lol

Get up. Dust off. Reload. Repeat. The ego is the enemy. And stop taking yourself so seriously. Your work - yes. But not the outcome.

Good luck

yellowdopamine · 2021-02-25T03:08:48+00:00

Is this asktrp? Are you 15 years old?

Shit happens, man. It just happens.

You worry too much of what your wife thinks. Don't be such a pussy. You should be worrying only with your health right now.

LukePranay · 2021-02-25T01:58:50+00:00

IMHO, this situation is in one of the least relevant /important areas of 'evaluation' - the truly important ones being: your integrity, attention to details, kindness, empathy, care for others, self-care, empire-building determination, fun/peace vibes, presence & flow states, intelligence, wiseness, constant evolution...

good_looking_man · 2021-02-25T03:08:42+00:00

The more I read askMRP, the more I believe askMRP is the Jupiter of marriedRedPill. What I mean by this is Earth is a nice and tidy place thanks to Jupiter attracting all the asteroids and other space rubble.

PutABabyInThat · 2021-02-25T01:46:26+00:00

start filing the divorce paperwork

Oh ya... maybe a divorce will fix everything and somehow turn you into a man.

rewire_your_brain · 2021-02-25T05:38:20+00:00

Nobody gives a shit you failed a rep. The only unattractive thing is how you are handling it, being so insecure. If you were further along in your journey you'd just laugh it off.

Read the section on negative assertion from WISNIFG a few times.

Don_Draper27 · 2021-02-25T03:31:59+00:00

In 6 months, she could be singing the tune to her friends of, "yea when he started he pushed too hard and hurt himself. But look at him now! I didn't think he could look like that so quickly!"

brianmcg321 · 2021-02-25T02:20:08+00:00

Next time ask her boyfriend to spot you. He can handle the weight.

Tyred_Biggums · 2021-02-25T02:06:49+00:00

should I just throw in the towel with this one and start filing the divorce paperwork

Yes and cut your dick off and become a woman while you’re at it.

Ole-Guy · 2021-02-25T02:45:41+00:00

You can stay down, or get yourself back up. Your choice.

Nodeal_reddit · 2021-02-25T02:54:11+00:00

Much more likely that You strained an intercostal muscle than “broke a rib”. They take a while to heal. Probably 3-4 weeks.

Also, what are you lifting on? If you have spotter arms on your rack, then you can just set them to catch the weight if you fail dramatically.

TakeHimRoundBack · 2021-02-25T03:07:46+00:00

It hurts man. I get it. But take some time away from your wife. This was YOUR mistake. Not your marriages. Get away from her. Process this yourself. You are in her frame.

You might think reframing that your ass hurts is better than your ribs. This is stupid.

You decide if you want to play fight or not. You decide if you are a worthless, saggy piece of shit. You decide. Not others. Especially not your loved ones.

When we fail, I know it hurts. Get outside, get some air. Because if you let anyone else tell you what that failure means you will be lost to yourself and to her.

She doesn't want you to win all the time. She wants you to struggle to see things through your own eyes, and hold your ground when people try to turn you into a culture robot.

That's part of what it means to be a man in my opinion. To use our own eyes. If you decide for yourself you will be stronger even though you made a mistake. And in that you will have your victory.

Fights not over until you admit it. You failed. But you haven't lost. It's just an up and down. The test is not from your women. The test is from life. What will you do?

Livecrazyjoe · 2021-02-25T05:10:28+00:00

Is this a joke?

alejandrosalamandro · 2021-02-25T08:43:44+00:00

Stop being so whiny and question yourself because of this one incident. You should rather concentrate on doing well and if your wife happens to forget the incident along the way that is great, but it should be not be your focus.

Sepean · 2021-02-25T11:21:29+00:00

should I just throw in the towel with this one and start filing the divorce paperwork ? I really don’t see how I can ever be attractive in her eyes after this.

Yeah, that's how attraction works. You see someone hot but you know they were once not hot, you don't find them attractive at all.

It's the same with everything else. Bill Gates was once working from a garage, he'll always be a poor loser. Jeff Bezos started out delivering packages himself, everyone thinks of him like a delivery boy. You have to be born rich to be seen as successful.

Guiltandshame99 · 2021-02-25T20:01:43+00:00

I’m Not sure of This is a joke, but This is why I don’t cap the ends of my barbells so if shit goes south you can just let the weights slide off one side and then drop it on the other. You were lucky this on the bench press and not the squat.

abangizhar · 2021-02-25T10:39:40+00:00

Not gonna lie..i laugh reading the first paragraph 😆😆

redwall92 · 2021-02-25T14:14:32+00:00

It sounds like the hit to your ego is a good thing.

Stop whining. For the love of all things good, stop talking to your wife about how you feel. Stop talking about how your butt hurts than a rib.

And then get going again. Give any injury time to heal. And get back on the horse.

Title	I need to puke
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Date	February 25, 2021 1:39 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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