Not really sure if this is the correct place to ask. If not lmk where I should go since I left trp years ago because spinning plates felt soulless to me.

I’m currently thinking of moving in with a ltr but there are these few thoughts in the back of my mind that keep nagging me. For context I believe everything is fine via her actions in that she is caring, submissive, shows respect etc but we never really talked much about our past which I am not sure I should bring up. My main hang ups are that she has text messages silenced (I met most of her friend group which I’m okay with and has a small circle) and the hidden folder on her photos which I’m not sure if it’s just me prying too much and being insecure. Not sure I should press about it or just drop it. Any advice?