Been lurking for over a year. Read sidebar. I lift.

I'm starting to see some decent dread from wife, but sometimes it seems like it can start to spiral. My wife is a bit of a control freak, and she can get pissed.

Example: at a Halloween public event and I flirted with a woman I was walking by for literally less than 10 seconds. Wife flipped out, said she "couldn't believe what she just witnessed." I just STFU. I never had any game before the pill as a side note.

Later that night, she starts going on and on about double standards and what if she did the things I do with other women. I tell her I don't know what she's talking about. I normally use A&A there, but my gut told me she was too pissed and STFU, not engage.

Question is how do you handle it when dread starts going too far?

Ok, 2nd issue. Wife has been coming back from work a few times with finger shaped bruises on her outer lower thigh. It's always in the same spot, right leg. I put my left hand on the spot and my thumb fit perfectly if I was to grab her leg from under and pull her in to fuck. It's not a position I've ever tried though. So, that's got my dread going. Seems like a strange spot to get a reoccurring bruise.

When I asked her about it, she immediately said it was her varavose veins. But then I pointed out it was clearly a bruise, she agreed and then I wondered why she immediately got defensive. I just STFU, but I'm still wondering. I've done trust but verify, so if anything it's a coworker and they only communicate at work. She's very smart. Smart enough to not leave electronic traces.

Question is, obviously I STFU, but what would you more experienced guys do if you started seeing a reoccurring bruise that she has no explanation for?