Recently started swallowing the pill

matrixtospartanatLV · 2017-07-18T14:44:48+00:00

Like most things in life, you don't get to withdraw more than you contribute. Make sure your contributions are honest, with yourself and the folks here.

This is like the locker room in high school. You are showing up as a freshman with bitch tits and a tire around your middle. The seniors are going to haze you, test your mettle, sucker punch you and shove you into a locker or two.

Suck it up. STFU. Watch (read) and learn.

Good luck with that

chachaChad · 2017-07-18T08:33:24+00:00

Lots of guys in similar situations use this forum as a replacement.

screechhater · 2017-07-18T22:50:15+00:00

This is your best place to start

2nd Place

3rd Place

Do the work - live the results no shit, I mean it

My story is a motherfucker, and I am happier than ever, I still do the work

Triadis3 · 2017-07-18T10:52:42+00:00

You need to help yourself.

Kind of what this whole thing is about.

Becoming self reliant, self aware.

r/marriedredpill has a weekly OYS (Own Your Shit) session that's helpful to many.

Keep reading, thinking, digesting.

It's a long road to change your outlook so fundamentally, but SO worth it.

Read trp, mrp, all the sidebars.

Everything by u/Bluepillprofessor, u/Archwinger, u/Jacktenofhearts, u/UEMcGill, u/Bogey6, and u/Stonepimpletilists.

thunderbeyond · 2017-07-18T11:45:03+00:00

You could try slack... /s

TBH I'm in the same boat, only now building and rebuilding friendships with men who I know and respect.

For me there's not many trusted mates there to kick my arse when i fuck up, call me out on being a lazy fuck, or think I'm some hot shit that isn't really worth shit.

But on this sub all those things have happened to me.

And I'm better for it.

Stick around here, own your shit and read. It may be harsh but youre a man (right?) and the responses will always push you forward.

rebbit_reddit · 2017-07-18T13:15:03+00:00

In my city there's a meetup group for nmmng

GargantuaBlarg29 · 2017-07-18T13:17:56+00:00

Do you think you can't do it if you don't find a group?

Scurvemuch · 2017-07-18T14:22:56+00:00

I believe there is a NMMNG sub.

also, hang out in MRP/ Ask MRP.

DeplorableRay · 2017-07-18T16:48:59+00:00

I was fairly alone at the beginning of my choke. I started doing the things I was suppose to be doing and I found myself in the company of like minded individuals. May not be RP per say, but like minded nonetheless. Once you start working on you, especially at the gym, you'll find your support. Knowing where to look for it is the hard part.

straius · 2017-07-18T17:18:53+00:00

Many of your solo activities will lead you to the group you need as there should be a mutual interest built into your context for meeting them.

Ie... Take up a martial art, find people in the dojo you resonate with and offer to grab drinks or something.

Want to learn camping? Start taking some classes, get out and do some camping and/or find some camping trips through an REI or something like that...

Etc...

You'll find your crowd so long as you start doing the things you need to do. But you gotta start by being in action pursuing your interests solo.

Wilhelm2501 · 2017-07-18T17:54:21+00:00

I gotcha, i think it's still a hold over from my BP phase. Im trying to do it "the perfect" way, instead of doing it MY way.

Chinchilla_the_Hun · 2017-07-19T02:33:26+00:00

If you are craving visceral interaction, seek out opportunities to thicken your skin, both literally and figuratively. In addition to lifting, a lot of guys here join BJJ/boxing/some other martial arts discipline. You can also spend time working in a predominantly masculine field where you need a strong backbone and solid pair of cajones to survive (think sales/labor/construction).

Title	Recently started swallowing the pill
Author	Wilhelm2501
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	July 18, 2017 8:07 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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