Short term monogamous relationships

straius · 2018-02-04T18:49:00+00:00

Slay pussy, do not allow oneitis to develop or give in to your own romantic fantasies. Whether you have several short term LTRs or not matters less than avoiding the above pitfalls.

And DO NOT COHABITATE unless you're on a path to marriage otherwise you're just deluding yourself about where it's heading and stacking up hurdles to make an exit which is inevitable in any other outcome besides marriage.

Another take is if you start wondering if you should end a relationship, you already figured out your answer. Why make it any harder than your hamster is already prepared to do.

Likewise, if you're wondering if being in an LTR is the right thing, you already have your answer.

When something feels like the right thing to do you just commit to action, even if you feel nervous about it. If you start hamstering logical reasons and pros/cons about your decision you're just avoiding what your unconscious mind has already decided and dragging it out into a tortured process because the truth is hard to accept.

Rian_Stone · 2018-02-04T13:45:42+00:00

Keep giving it away and the girl will keep treating you like a ho

FireTempered · 2018-02-04T18:35:58+00:00

You will learn everything you need to know about LTR's from spinning plates.

Men seem to end up in LTR's all the time, way in advance of their expectation. STR's will only get you there faster.

The real concern I have, is that you have implied that your endgame is marriage and you imply you are beginning your 20's. You have a lot to learn before you are ready for any STR that would be prelude to an LTR. Easier to learn with women that you are not legally, economically, or off-spring tied to.

2ndal · 2018-02-04T13:42:27+00:00

Yes.

Also, stop using semicolons to look smart. Nobody gives a shit, plus you're using them wrong.

RedPillPowerNine · 2018-02-04T15:09:40+00:00

No that's a horrible idea because they ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS pushed for cohabitation. Don't do it, spin plates for that entire decade.

Also, all it would take would be one crazy hamster to just "oops I forgot one" and now your fucked. You are in a sub full of guys with teeth marks on their face asking if you should put your head in a lions mouth. Don't do it man.

In the book the art of not giving a fuck the author mentions that some experiences In life you have to commit to one thing for an extended amount of time, excluding everything else. The second I read that the beta fucktit In me used it to reinforce the horrible decision I made getting married.

I think you should spin plates for the entire decade of your 20s. There is a level of abundance mindset that can only be obtained by living the life of a true blood alpha, like rolo tomassie, he had his rockstar 20s that laid the foundation for the ltr/marriage, and man, and later contribution that he's made.

Pretty much all of us here on this sub cannot ever have this experience, and we can never fully internalize the abundance mindset, or juat all around level of alpha thinking that somone like you has the potential for. In the end, it would probably build a better man. I'm just one asshole and this is my hindsight.

Spin plates!

You like fat chick's? Spin a salad bowl.

A woman looking for a commitment is worthless, they are a dime a dozen, like discarded condoms.

Work on you, woman are dream killers and thoes ltr are just beta training. Use your 20s to build your life.

matrixtospartanatLV · 2018-02-05T01:04:47+00:00

Two questions for you;

1) Have you read The Rational Male at least twice?

2) Why would you EVER get married?

The_Litz · 2018-02-04T14:08:02+00:00

You have my blessing to date girls.

Title	Short term monogamous relationships
Author	RedHeMan
Upvotes	3
Comments	29
Date	February 4, 2018 1:34 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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