I'm in my early 20's. Met TRP, improved myself for a few years, now for the first time in my life I get some female attention and I've been dating around a bit. Thing is, every time after a few months of dating a girl she gets feelings and me sleeping around becomes a problem for her. Usually I really like them (or else I wouldn't be seeing her for so long) and maybe getting serious is fun and an opening for adventures but I also like my freedom and flirting with women, even though I'm not some sort of "big Chad".

I feel like 99% of the people around me would have said "if you like her and there are no red flags then go for it, why not", almost like I'm some sort of an outcast in my way of thinking.

Really been doubting lately, and as married men I would love to hear some insight about if or when should I get into an exclusive LTR with a girl I really like, even in the price of leaving my humble single life behind. Thank you.